Ndiani akati vanhu vakuru havagone kudanana, kudanana uye kuita madhiri? Mumwe mudyandigere kubva kuU.SA anoratidza nemuenzaniso wake kuti mumakore gumi ehupenyu iwe unogona kunzwa uchikwezva uye usingazvirambe chero chinhu.
Hattie Retroudzh ane makore 85 anobva kuNew York ane vana vaviri nevazukuru vatatu. Zvinoita sekuti anofanirwa kushandisa nguva yake yese yekuzorora kuita "zvinokodzera" vanhu vakuru: kutaurirana nemhuri, kurima gadheni, kurukwa, kubika ... Zvisineyi, mudyandigere akasarudza mararamiro akasiyana zvachose. Mukadzi anofambidzana nevarume vechidiki, anopa mazano kune vatengi panyaya dzehukama, uye anonyora bhuku pamusoro pevanodanana.
Retrowedge akarambana nemurume wake muna 1984 aine makore makumi mana nemasere. Haana kufara kuti murume wake aishanda zvishoma uye aisakwanisa kubhadhara mari yechikoro chevana pakoreji. Ipapo mukadzi wacho akatsidza kuti kubva zvino aizopfimba majaya chete.
Maererano naye, shamwari dziri pasi pemakore makumi mana, kusiyana nevezera rake, vane chido uye vane chinangwa. Vane tariro nezveramangwana uye vanoronga, uye mudyandigere anofarira kuvatsigira. Mukuwedzera, varume vezera rake havakodzeri mukadzi, nokuti havana kujaira kutarisira kunakidzwa kwemumwe wako uye kuti anosvika pakusviba.
“Handisati ndaona murume asingade kurara neni”
Pane imwe nguva, mudyandigere aive achishingairira kutsvaga vadikani paTinder uye akaenda pamazuva matatu pasvondo. “Handisati ndaonana nomurume asingadi kuvata neni,” anodaro achidada.
Zvakadaro, Retrouge haipindi muhushamwari nejaya rega rega. Kazhinji vaviri vakaroorana vanotumira kumwe kunhu kunonwa, uye kana spark ikamhanya pakati pavo, vanobva vaenda kumba kuRetrouge, kana zvisiri, vanobva vapararira nerunyararo. Rimwe zuva, mumwe mudyandigere akaisa chiziviso mupepanhau, achibvuma kuti aida kurara nomurume ari pasi pemakore 35 okukura. Akagamuchira mameseji akawanda kubva kune vaida kudaro.
Dzimwe nguva bonde rinokura kuva hukama hwakakomba. Saka, kwenguva yakati mukadzi wacho akasangana naJohn ane makore 39 okukura. Muna 2018, vakatooneka pamwe chete paterevhizheni yakatsaurirwa kune vakaroorana vane musiyano mukuru wezera. Zvisinei, vachangopedza kutora firimu, vaviri vacho vakasarudza kuenda.
“Havasi varume chete vanogona kuva namadzishe vechidiki. Ndakashandura mutambo
Parizvino, moyo wemukadzi weAmerica wakasununguka zvakare, asi akatarisana nedambudziko risingatarisirwi. Akaundi ake muTinder uye Match akavharwa, saka iye zvino mudyandigere ari kutsvaga rudo muBumble service. Shamwari dzake zhinji dzakawana rudo ipapo, uye Retrowedge haaronge kusarira shure kwavo. “Nezuro mumwe mukomana wechiduku wokuIsrael akandifonera akati aindida. Zvakanaka sei!" she shared.
Mukuwedzera, mudyandigere achangotanga basa panhoroondo yehupenyu, yaanoronga kudana "Chronicles of a Cougar". Mudzimai ane chokwadi chekuti ruzivo rwake ruchabatsira mamwe madzimai echikuru kupinda murudo nevechidiki. “Havasi varume chete vanogona kuva namadzishe vechidiki. Ndashandura mutambo!” Retrowedge inosimbisa.
Anopa zano rei kuvakadzi vanoda kunzwa seksikäs mukukura? Recipe yake iri nyore: iwe unofanirwa kuita bonhora, kuona mafirimu ezvepabonde, tsigira mumwe wako uye usakanganwa nezvekuita zvemuviri. Zvadaro hupenyu hwepabonde uye mushure memakore makumi masere huchava pamusoro!