"Michato inoitwa kudenga": zvinorevei?

Tichitaura mutsara wokuti "Michato inoitwa kudenga", tinoreva mubatanidzwa unotyisa wevanhu vaviri: simba repamusoro rakaunza murume nemukadzi pamwechete, rakakomborera kubatana kwavo uye richavafarira mune ramangwana.

Uye naizvozvo vachagara pamwe chete uye vachifara, kubereka uye kurera vana vakawanda vanofara, vachasangana vakwegura pamwe chete pakati pevazukuru vavo vanodiwa uye vazukuru chibvi. Ndinodawo kuwedzera kuti vachafa zvechokwadi musi mumwe chete. Kazhinji, mufananidzo wakadaro wakashata wehupenyu hwemhuri hunofadza unooneka. Mushure mezvose, isu tose tinoda mufaro, uye zvachose - kubva pakutanga kusvika pakupedzisira.

Uye kana paine matambudziko, saka chimwe chinhu chakashata? Kana kuti kwaiva kukanganisa here? Chero ani zvake ane chokwadi angada kuziva - uyu ndiye mudiwa wangu muhupenyu here?

Zivo yakadaro yaizogovera basa reukama hwoupenyu hwose, pasinei zvapo nechinoitika. Asi unogona kudzikama, uchiziva kuti mese muri pagwara rakanaka. Iwe unoziva, dzimwe nguva ndinogodora Adhama naEvha: ivo vaive vasina marwadzo esarudzo. Kwakange kusina vamwe "vakakumbira", uye kusangana nevana vako, vazukuru uye vazukuru-chizukuru haisi mhuka, shure kwezvose!

Kana kuti pamwe kushaikwa kweimwe nzira chinhu chakanaka? Uye kana muine vaviri chete, muchadanana here? Izvi, semuenzaniso, zvinoratidzwa sei mufirimu Vafambi (2016)? Uye panguva imwecheteyo, mufirimu "Lobster" (2015), vamwe vanhu vakasarudza kushanduka kuva mhuka kana kunyange kufa, kuitira kuti varege kubatanidzwa nevasingadiwi! Saka zvese pano zvakare hazvina kujeka.

Mutsara uyu unonzwika rinhi nhasi?

Zvakawanda zvakanyorwa pamusoro pewanano muEvangeri, asi ndinoda kusimbisa zvinotevera: “… izvo Mwari zvaakabatanidza, ngaparege kuva nomunhu anoparadzanisa. ( Mateo 19:6 ) uko, mukuona kwangu, kunogonawo kunzwisiswa sokuda kwaMwari pamusoro peroorano.

Nhasi ichi chinyorwa chinodudzwa kazhinji muzviitiko zviviri. Kana kuti ikoku kunoitwa navanhu vakasimba zvikuru vorudzidziso kuti vatyisidzire ndokurangarira varoorani (kazhinji kazhinji vakaroorana) avo vari kufunga nezvechatanuro. Kana kuti anodiwa kuti azvisunungure pamutoro wesarudzo yake: vanoti, akatumwa kwandiri kubva kumusoro, uye zvino tiri kutambura, isu takatakura muchinjikwa wedu.

Mukuona kwangu, iyi ndiyo pfungwa yezvinopesana: sezvo sakaramende yemuchato yakaitika mutemberi, saka muchato uyu unobva kuna Mwari. Uye pano vazhinji vanogona kundipikisa, vachipa mienzaniso mizhinji yekuti dzimwe nguva nekusafunga, pamutemo kana kunyatso kunyengera, kuratidza, muchato wevamwe vakaroorana mutemberi wakaitika.

Ini ndichapindura izvi: zviri pahana yevakaroorana, sezvo vaprista vasina masimba anokosha ekuongorora dhigirii yekuziva uye mutoro weavo vanoda kuroora.

Uye kana paiva, saka ruzhinji rwevanoda runogona kuonekwa sevasina kukodzera uye vasina kugadzirira, uye semugumisiro havazobvumirwi kuumba mhuri maererano nemitemo yechechi.

Ndiani akadaro?

Maererano neMagwaro Matsvene, vanhu vokutanga vakasikwa uye vakabatanidzwa naMwari pachake. Kubva pano, zvichida, tarisiro inotanga kuti vamwe vose vakaroorana vanoumbwa kwete pasina ruzivo rwake, kutora chikamu uye kubvumirwa.

Maererano nekutsvakurudza kwemunyori wezvakaitika kare Konstantin Dushenko¹, kutaurwa kwekutanga kweizvi kunogona kuwanikwa muMidrash - kududzirwa kwechiJudha kweBhaibheri kubva muzana remakore rechiXNUMX, muchikamu chekutanga - bhuku raGenesisi («Genesis Rabbah»).

Mutsara wacho unowanikwa muchikamu chinotsanangura kusangana kwaIsaka nomudzimai wake Rebheka: “Varoorani vanofananidzwa Kudenga”, kana kuti mune imwe shanduro: “Hakuna roorano yomurume kunze kwokuda kwoKudenga.”

Uku kutaura mune imwe nzira kunogona kuwanikwa muMagwaro Matsvene. Somuenzaniso, muchitsauko 19 cheBhuku raZvirevo raSoromoni: “Imba nenhaka inhaka inobva kuvabereki, asi mudzimai akachenjera anobva kuna Jehovha.”

Uye zvakare muBhaibheri munhu anogona kuramba achiwana zvirevo zvemichato yemadzitateguru nemagamba eTestamente Yekare "akabva kuna Jehovha."

Mazwi ezvekwakabva kudenga kwemibatanidzwa akanzwikawo kubva pamiromo yemagamba ezvinyorwa zvepakati pezana ramakore rechi XNUMX uye akazowana kuenderera mberi kwakasiyana-siyana uye magumo, kunyanya kuseka uye kusahadzika, semuenzaniso:

• “… asi havana basa nekuti vakabudirira”;
• "... asi izvi hazvishande kumichato yekumanikidzwa";
• "... asi denga harikwanisi kusaruramisira kunotyisa zvakadaro";
• "... asi anoitwa pasi pano" kana "... asi anoitwa panzvimbo yekugara."

Zvose izvi zvinopfuurira zvakafanana kune mumwe nemumwe: vanotaura nezvekuora mwoyo mukubudirira kwemuchato, muchokwadi chokuti mufaro uchatimirira mairi. Uye zvose nokuti vanhu kubva kare vaida uye vanoda zvivimbiso kuti chishamiso chekudanana chichaitika. Uye ivo havanzwisise kana kusada kunzwisisa kuti rudo urwu rwakagadzirwa mune vakaroora, vakagadzirwa nevatori vechikamu ivo pachavo ...

Nhasi, kusava nechokwadi uko vanhu vanoita kune mutsara wokuti "Michato inoitwa kudenga" imhaka yehuwandu hwekurambana: inopfuura 50% yemibatanidzwa inopedzisira yaparara. Asi kunyange zvisati zvaitika, apo roorano zhinji dzaipinzwa mukumanikidzirwa kana kuti nokusaziva, netsaona, kwakanga kuchingova nemhuri shomanene dzinofara sezvadzakaita nhasi. Kurambana kwaisangobvumirwa.

Uye chechipiri, vanhu havanzwisisi chinangwa chewanano. Mushure mezvose, iyi haisi iyo yakabatana isina hanya idyll, asi imwe mishoni, pakutanga isingazivikanwe kwatiri, iyo vaviri vanofanira kuzadzisa maererano nehurongwa hweWemasimbaose. Sezvavanotaura: Nzira dzaJehovha hadzigoni kurongeka. Zvisinei, gare gare izvi zvinoreva zvinova pachena kune avo vanoda kudzidudzira.

Chinangwa chemuchato: chii?

Heano maitiro makuru:

1) Chinangwa chakanyanya kukosha, mukuona kwangu, ndechekuti kana vadyidzani vapihwa kune mumwe nemumwe kweupenyu kana kwechinguvana kuti wedzera kuzviziva uye shandura kuti uve nani. Isu tinova vadzidzisi vemumwe nemumwe kana, kana muchida, tinobatsirana.

Zvinosiririsa kuti kazhinji nzira iyi yemajoini inotora makore mashoma. Uye ipapo mumwe kana vaviri vanobatana vanosvika padanho idzva rekusimudzira nekushanda uye, vachinja, havagone kugara murunyararo pamwechete. Uye mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, zviri nani kukurumidza kuziva izvi uye kupararira norugare.

2) Kubereka nekurera munhu akasiyana kana kuti vana pamwe chete vaone chimwe chinhu chakakosha. Saka vaIsraeri vekare vaida kubereka Mesiya.

Kana, sezvinoratidzwa muHupenyu Ihwo (2018), vabereki vanofanira "kutambura" kuitira kuti vana vavo vasangane uye vadanane. Kwandiri, pfungwa ye tepi iyi ndeiyi: rudo rwechokwadi rwechokwadi haruwanzoitiki zvokuti rinogona kuonekwa sechishamiso, uye nekuda kweizvi, zvizvarwa zvakapfuura zvinogona kuomeswa.

3) Kuti muchato uyu uchinje mararamiro enhoroondo. Saka, semuenzaniso, muchato waPrincess Margarita weValois naHenry de Bourbon, Mambo wemangwana Henry IV, wakapera paBartholomew's Night muna 1572.

Mumwe anogona kutaura mhuri yedu yekupedzisira yehumambo semuenzaniso. Vanhu vakanga vasingadi Mambokadzi Alexandra, uye kunyanya vanhu vakatsamwiswa nemafungiro ake kuna Rasputin, kunyange zvazvo akamanikidzwa, kunyange nekuda kwechirwere chemwanakomana wake. Muchato waNicholas II naAlexandra Feodorovna unogona kurangarirwa zvechokwadi!

Uye nesimba rerudo rwevanhu vaviri vakuru, izvo Empress akatsanangura mudhayari yake muna 1917 (mushure mezvo, zvinyorwa zvake zvakadhindwa, ini nguva nenguva ndinozviverenga uye ndinozvirumbidza kune wese munhu), yakazoburitswa pasi pemusoro wenyaya: " Ipa rudo” (Ndinoverengazve nguva nenguva uye ndinokurudzira kumunhu wese).

Uye maererano nekukosha kwenhoroondo yenyika uye chechi (mhuri yese yakanzi tsvene muna 2000 uye yakagamuchirwa sevatsvene). Muchato waPeter naFevronia, vatsvene vedu vokuRussia, vakatakura basa rimwechete. Vakatisiira muenzaniso woupenyu hweroorano hwakanakisisa, rudo rwechiKristu nokuzvipira.

Kuroorana kwakafanana nechishamiso

Ndinoona basa raMwari pakusika mhuri mukuti vanhu vaviri vakakodzera vanosangana. Munguva dzeTestamende Yekare, Mwari dzimwe nguva aiita izvi zvakananga—akazivisa kune waaifanira kutora semudzimai wake.

Kubva ipapo, tinoda kuziva zvechokwadi kuti ndiani watakaroorana naye uye chinangwa chedu, tagamuchira mhinduro yakarurama kubva kumusoro. Nhasi, nyaya dzakadaro dzinoitikawo, zvinongova kuti Mwari "anoita" zvishoma zvakajeka.

Asi dzimwe nguva hatina mubvunzo kuti vamwe vanhu vakaguma munzvimbo ino uye panguva ino chete nekuda kwechishamiso, kuti simba repamusoro chete rinogona kuita izvi. Izvi zvinoitika sei? Rega ndikupe muenzaniso kubva muhupenyu hweshamwari.

Elena achangobva kutamira kuMoscow kubva kumapurovhinzi nevana vaviri, akarenda furati uye akanyoreswa pane imwe nzvimbo yekufambidzana, yakasimba uye yakabhadharwa, mushure mekuverenga kuongororwa paInternet. Ini handina kuronga hukama hwakakomba mumakore mashoma anotevera: saka, pamwe ziva mumwe munhu wekutandara kwakabatana.

Alexey muscovite, akarambana makore mashoma apfuura. Kushuvira kutsvaga musikana mushure mekuedza kakawanda kusangana pasina mhepo, vakafunga kunyoresa panzvimbo imwechete yekufambidzana mushure mekuverenga wongororo imwechete uye kubhadhara kwegore pamberi.

Nenzira, iyewo akanga asingatarisiri kuti achakurumidza kusangana nevaviri pano: aifunga kuti aizotamba mutsamba uye pamisangano isingawanzoiti yenguva imwe chete "kuwana simba revakadzi" (iye chiremba wepfungwa, unonzwisisa).

Alexey akanyoresa mubasa manheru, uye ainyanya kufara nekuita uku zvokuti akatyaira nechiteshi chake muchitima uye nekunetseka, pakati peusiku pakati peusiku, akasvika kumba. Maawa mashomanana gare gare, mune rumwe rutivi rweguta, zvinotevera zvinoitika.

Elena, uyo panguva iyoyo akanga asina kubudirira kukurukura nevanyoreri kwevhiki dzinoverengeka, anongoerekana amuka na5 mangwanani, izvo zvisati zvaitika kwaari kare. Uye, kwete kunyatsofunga, kuita pakuda, anoshandura iyo data yeprofile yake uye maparamita ekutsvaga.

Manheru ezuva rimwe chetero, Elena akatanga kunyorera Alexei (iyewo haana kumbobvira aita izvi), anopindura zvinenge pakarepo, vanotanga tsamba, vanokurumidza kudana uye vanotaura kweawa inopfuura awa, vachizivana ...

Zuva rega rega kubva ipapo, Elena naAlexei vave vachitaura kwemaawa akawanda, vachishuvirana mangwanani uye manheru akanaka, vachisangana neChitatu neMugovera. Vese vane izvi kekutanga ... Mushure memwedzi ye9 vanouya pamwe chete, uye gore chairo gare gare, pamusi wegore rekuzivana kwavo, vanotamba muchato.

Nemitemo yose yefizikiki, yemagariro evanhu uye mamwe masayenzi, havafaniri kunge vakasangana ndokutanga kugara pamwe chete, asi zvakaitika! Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti vose vakanyoreswa panzvimbo yekufambidzana kwekutanga, akapedza anenge mwedzi pairi, uye akangopedza zuva. Aleksey, nenzira, akaedza kudzorera mari yakabhadharwa kwegore, asi hazvina kubatsira.

Uye hapana munhu anogona kundiratidza kuti vakasangana nemukana, pasina rubatsiro rwedenga! Nenzira, rinenge gore vasati vasangana, sezvazvakazoitika, pane chimwe chiitiko - vakadzungaira nezuva rimwe chete mudzimba dzechiratidziro chimwe chete (iye akabhururuka zvakanyanya kuenda kuMoscow), asi ipapo havana kurongerwa kusangana. .

Rudo rwavo rwakakurumidza kupera, magirazi eruvara rwerose akabviswa, uye vakaona mumwe nemumwe mukubwinya kwahwo, nekukanganisa. Nguva yekuodzwa mwoyo yasvika… Uye basa refu rekugamuchirana, kugadzira rudo ratotanga. Vaive uye vachatofanira kupfuura uye kuita zvakawanda nekuda kwemufaro wavo.

Ndinoda kupeta nehuchenjeri hwevanhu: vimba naMwari, asi usaite chikanganiso iwe pachako. Kana iwe uchida kurarama uchifara nekusingaperi, uchafanirwa kushanda nesimba iwe pachako uye hukama. Zvose musati maroorana uye mukugadzirisa kwekugara pamwe chete, zvose zvakasununguka (enda kune chiremba wepfungwa) uye pamwe chete (pindai kumisangano yemhuri ye psychotherapy).

Zvechokwadi, zvinogoneka pasina isu, nyanzvi dzepfungwa, asi nesu inokurumidza kukurumidza uye inobudirira. Mushure mezvose, kuroorana kunofadza kunoda kukura, kuziva, kunzwa, kukwanisa kufungisisa uye kutaurirana, kukura pamatanho akasiyana eunhu hwevose vakaroorana: zvenyama, zvepfungwa, zvepfungwa, zvemagariro-tsika uye zvemweya.

Uye zvinonyanya kukosha - kukwanisa kuda! Uye izvi zvinogonawo kudzidzwa nekunamatira kuna Mwari chipo cheRudo.

¹ http://www.dushenko.ru/quotation_date/121235/