Vhara bhanga rako! Nzira yekubvisa sei matambudziko ekutaura

Shamwari, ndinoda kugovera ruzivo rwangu pamisoro "Matambudziko" uye "Mabasa". Inowanikwa pamwe chete nevadzidzi veYunivhesiti, vari kuita chinhambwe.

Chii chinonzi dambudziko mukutaura uye nzira yekuvhara dambudziko racho?

Chinhu chekutanga chatakabvumirana ndechekuti:

Dambudziko inyaya yechinhu chisina kunaka - nezve chokwadi, nezve fungidziro, nezvekusahadzika, nezve mamiriro ezvinhu pane chimwe chirongwa..

Vakatouya nemufananidzo: kana tichitaura pamusoro pedambudziko - kureva, pamusoro pechinhu chisina kunaka - fungidzira kuti iwe unozarura chirongo nechinhu chakaora, howa kana chimwe chinhu. Kunhuhwirira kunoshamisa kunobva muchirongo ichi, uye unoibata kune vanokubvunza: “Shamwari, uye ndinayo pano, ifembedze,” wobva waihwihwidza woenderera mberi: “Ehe, hongu, ndizvozvo! Izvi ndezvenyu!»

Very comfortable zvino dana dambudziko chirongo chakashama. Munoziva, vamwe vanhu vanokwanisa kuvhura gumi nemaviri emagaba aya mumaminetsi mashanu ehurukuro.

Mienzaniso?

“Ndakaita chiitwa ichi, asi chimwe chinhu hachina kundiitira zvakanaka, kubva pazuva rekutanga pakava nekupikisa, uye handina kukwanisa … apa …”

"Chimwe chinhu hachisi kuenderera mberi nebasa redu, vatinoshanda navo, isu sezviri pachena hatishande zvakanaka"

"Fungidzira, mutengo wepeturu wakwira zvakare, imhaka yekuti ..."

Hooray, mabhanga matatu akavhurika! Unonzwa here? 🙂

Uye saka:

Mabhangi-matambudziko anofanira kuvharwa

Sei chaizvo kuvhara mabhanga akadaro? Zviri nyore kuti vadye marudzi maviri ezvivharo.

Kutanga: kutaura izvo iwe pachako unoronga kuita maererano neizvi.

“Ndakaita chiitwa ichi, asi chimwe chinhu chisina kundiitira zvakanaka, kubva pazuva rekutanga pakava nekuramba, uye handina kukwanisa… apa … mhinduro dzevamwe vadzidzi, kuti vakazviita sei uye vanosarudza zvakakunakira iwe."

Bhanga rimwe rakavharwa.

Yechipiri ndeyekupa mirairo, ingave yakananga kana isina kunanga (semuenzaniso, muchimiro chemubvunzo).

“Pane zvisiri kuenderera mberi nebasa redu vaunoshanda navo, isu zviri pachena kuti hatishande zvakanaka. Ini ndinokurudzira manheru ano kuti tiungane uye tisarudze matanho edu anotevera."

Bhengi rechipiri rakavharwa.

Gara uchivhara matambudziko pamwe nechiziviso chezvinangwa zvako kana mirairo, zvikasadaro ivo, urombo, kunhuwa. Ndiani anoida? Ndizvozvo, hapana.

Zvaunofanira kuita mukurovedza muviri:

• Tevera mukutaura kwako, iwe paunongoona yakavhurika chirongo-dambudziko - pakarepo vhara.
• Tarisa kubhengi-matambudziko mukutaura kwevamwe vanhu uye paunongoona yakavhurika, bvunza chero mubvunzo "Chii chauri kuronga kuita?" kana mubvunzo "Chii chatinofanira kuita ikozvino?" (zvechokwadi, mazwi emibvunzo anosiyana zvichienderana nehukama nemunhu uye reshiyo yezvimiro zvako).

Zvakanaka, kana "chirongo" chako chikazadza mhepo nekunhuhwirira kwakanaka kwemuchero mutsva kana vanilla, kana kunhuhwirira kunosimbisa kwekofi ichangobva kuvhuvhuta, saka usazeza kupa zororo iri kune vamwe! Kunyange zvakadaro, izvi ndezvechimwe chiitiko.