Kure bonde: mitambo uye manomano ekuramba uchinakidzwa

Kure bonde: mitambo uye manomano ekuramba uchinakidzwa

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Nyanzvi yepfungwa Nayara Malnero anoburitsa mubhuku rake Bonde ari chinhambwe kuti ndeipi mimwe mitambo yezvikara inoita kuti kupisa kuwedzere.

Kuita bonde uri wega rave dambudziko guru kune vanhu vazhinji vakagara mudzimba dzakasiyana, asi Covid-19 rangove dambudziko diki kuvakadzi. michina mitsva., avo vanga vachitarisira kupfupisa madaro uye kuita nguva yakaoma yekuvharirwa iyo munhu wese akararama kuburikidza nayo inotsungirirwa.

Runhare rwakava mubatsiri mukuru, uye avo vose vakaroorana, 'kupwanya' kana shamwari dzine kodzero yekubata iyo yakaramba iri kure kwemwedzi inopfuura miviri nehafu yaifanira kuenderana nemaitiro ayo mamiriro akavapa; pasina kuonana mumuviri fungidziro yomunhu inobhururuka zvakatokwira, uye nzira dzisingaverengeki dzokuramba dzichiita bonde dzakatangwazve, uye hatisi kutaura bedzi pamusoro peizvo mumwe nomumwe anazvo amene.

"Nzira dzakajairwa uye dzechinyakare dzekushamwaridzana dzakabviswa kwatiri uye tazvigadzira pachedu, takafambira mberi. Mazuva mashoma apfuura ndakatanga mubvunzo pasocial network kuti ndizive kana vaive vabatana necybersex, uye makumi mashanu muzana vakapindura kuti vangadai vakambozviedza. Pavakasara makumi mashanu muzana, makumi maviri neshanu muzana vakapasa uye imwe hafu vakaiwana panguva yekuvharirwa, "anotsanangura kudaro Nayara Malnero, chiremba wezvehutano hwepfungwa, chiremba wezvepabonde uye murairidzi wezvepabonde.

Matambudziko, semunyori we «Dstance sex. 50 mazano, mitambo uye matipi ekuenderera mberi nekunakidzwa, anga akanyanyisa mune zvese zvikamu: nepo hukama hwave hwakabatana zvakanyanya uye hwakagadzira chikuru link, vamwe vauya pakuonekana, kuparadzana uye kurambana. "Kune vakaroorana avo panguva yekuvharirwa vakakwanisa kusimuka uye tarisa maziso kekutanga, vakasvika pakuzivana uye vave nenguva yokuva pamwe chete. Kune rimwe divi, vamwe vazhinji vakaona kuti mumwe nemumwe ari nani ari ega ”, anodaro chiremba wepfungwa.

Sunungura parunhare

Hazvina kufanana kuva newaunofambidzana nekushaiwa, nevasina kukanda mazuva ano mafomu ekupfimbana. "Tinder yakakura panguva yekuvharirwa, uye vakaroorana vakabuda vasina kukuvara kubva mukuzviparadzanisa nevamwe vakakwanisa kujairana nenguva," anodaro Nayara Malnero, anoti. mafoni efoni vasvika nekuda kwemashoko anga achisimudza inzwi, uye nekuchinjana kwemifananidzo yakaitika. "Iyi nzira yekutaurirana uye kuita bonde iripo nekuti pane zvakawanda kutya kutapukira, saka kana imwe nzira yakachengeteka yawanikwa, inoita kuti unakidzwe nebonde zvisinei nedaro», Anopedzisa.

Vashandisi vanga vachitaura nemachisi kubva kumativi ese enyika nekuda kwePasipoti kushanda, izvo zvinokutendera kuti ufanane nevanhu zviuru zvemamaira kure uye yaivepo mahara pakati paKurume 27 naMay 4. Nhaurirano muSpain dzakawedzerwa ne30% zvichienzaniswa kutanga kwaKurume, pamberi pekuvharirwa, izvo zvinosiyana ne20% pasi rose.

Mitambo miviri yezvikara

Kana chimwe chinhu chizere nebhuku raNayara Malnero, ndizvo mitambo yezvepabonde kujekesa nguva yemunhu wese. Ungave uine mudiwa wako uye kuti unogara naye here kana kuti kwete, mitambo iyi yakanakira kusimudza tembiricha zvisinei kuti inguvai.

"Bhuku rangu rine mitambo makumi mashanu, asi pane zvakawanda zvakasiyana mukati meumwe neumwe. Imwe inonakidza kwazvo kuzvinyima mifananidzo kana kusava neaudio. Kana tikatumira vhidhiyo isina ruzha kana odhiyo umo musina mifananidzo, tinowedzera kugadzira, "anodaro. Nayara Malnero anotsinhira kuti nekuzvinyima isu pachedu chekukurudzira, tinosunungura mamwe ese epfungwa. “Muhupenyu tinogona kupfeka hengechepfu uye isu hatikwanise kuona. Izvo zvinonakidza, saka zvingave zvakafanana mushanduro yepamhepo ».

Nekuchinjana. Iyo yekirasi, asi kwete zvishoma inoshanda kune iyo. Nepo mumwe wako achikurudzirwa, unongoona asi hapana chaungaite. «Mumunhu tinowanzozvikurudzira panguva imwe chete kuti tive zvinonyanya kufadza, asi nenzira iyi, kana mumwe chete wevaviri ari kurovedza muviri, pane kutambura nekumirira uye kuwedzera kwekushisa. Kana ikaitwa nevhidhiyo kufona, zvakajairwa zvakafanana. Mukuwedzera, zvinouya zvakanyanya kubatsira kudzidza zvishoma nezvekuti mumwe wako anozvifarira sei », anotsanangura nyanzvi yepfungwa uye sexologist.