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Pasinei nemafungiro emadzimai, vakadzi vachiri kutya kuva voga, vasina mhuri uye munhu ane rudo. Hongu, uye varume vanotya chinhu chimwe chete, vanongotaura nezvazvo zvishoma, anodaro nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu uye munyori Deborah Carr. Nzira yekugadzirisa sei kunzwa kunovhiringidza kwekusurukirwa uye kurega kubata muchato senzira chete yechokwadi yokufara?
Ndava mundege, vakadzi vechiduku vaviri vakaratidza kuva vafambi biyangu, avo vakandiita munhu wavanovimba navo vasingazivi, vachikurukura udzame hwoupenyu hwangu pachangu nenzwi guru uye nomupfungwa. Kubva mukukurukurirana kwavo, ndakadzidza kuti vose vari kufambidzana nepwere uye vane tariro huru nokuda kweukama uhwu. Sezvavaitaura nyaya dzavo dzemunguva yakapfuura, zvakava pachena kurwadziwa kukuru kwavaifanira kutsungirira: “Ndaifunga kuti tiri tose, tiri vaviri, uye ipapo shamwari yangu yakanditumira akaundi yake panzvimbo yokupfimbana, uko iye, mumusha make. mashoko ake pachake, “Ndaitsvaka rudo”, “Pandakaziva kuti akanga akaroora, handina kudavira pakutanga,” “Ndichiri kunzwisisa chikonzero nei munhu iyeye akarega kundifonera pashure pokudanana kwakaisvonaka katatu.”
Zvingaita sekuti hapana chitsva - zvizvarwa zvevarume nevakadzi zvinotambura nerudo rusina kufanira, manzwiro ekusanzwisisa uye kusurukirwa, kubva pakuti ivo vakasiiwa nenzira yakashata, pasina kukudza tsananguro uye mashoko ekuonekana. Sezvandainzwisisa, vakadzi vose vaiva neshamwari dzepedyo, hama dzine rudo uye mabasa aibudirira. Nekudaro, zvaive pachena - mukuona kwavo, hupenyu hwakazara hunozivikanwa nehukama hwerudo uyezve kuroora. Chiitiko ichi hachisi chitsva.
Nezera, takagadzirira kutarisana zvakanyanya, zvakadzama, izvo zvinoreva kuti mukana wekusangana ne "wedu" munhu unowedzera.
The cult series «Bonde neGuta» yakaratidza zvakajeka kutambura mupfungwa uye kusagadzikana kwevakadzi avo, zvingaita sokuti, vane zvose ... kunze kwehukama hunobudirira. Uye izvi zvinoshanda kwete kuvakadzi chete - chishuwo chekuwana anonzwisisa, anotsigira uye ane rudo mweya mate zvakare anotora chinzvimbo chinotungamira mune runyorwa rwechirume chishuwo chemukati. Kungoti varume havatauri zviri pachena. Ndaida kupa nyaradzo kuvakadzi vaduku avo vane mifungo yomufaro negutsikano yakanga yakabatana zvikuru nomubvunzo wokuti, “Neiko asingandidi?” uye "Ndicharoora here?". Ndinofunga kuti ndaigona kukurudzira vandaifamba navo vaduku nokuvapa maonero akasiyana zvishoma padambudziko rinovanetsa.
Mikana yekuti uchasangana nemumwe wako yakakura
Tinowanzovhundutswa nekuwanda kwevanhu vasina kuroora. Zvisinei, hatifungi kuti avo chete vakaroorana zviri pamutemo vanowira pasi pehuwandu hwehuwandu. Uye chimiro chake hachifanirwe kutsausa. Somuenzaniso, nhamba yevaya vanoroora kana kuroorwa vane makore ari pakati pe25 ne34 yakadzikira, asi hazvirevi hazvo kuti vanhu vanoramba vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa. Zvingori kuti chikamu chikuru chinopedzisa mubatanidzwa wepamutemo mushure memakore makumi mana kana makumi mashanu, uye vazhinji havanyore hukama hwavo uye nhamba dzinovaona vakasurukirwa, kunyangwe hazvo vanhu ava vane mhuri dzinofara.
Zvatinotarisira zviri kuchinja uye zvakanaka.
Zvatinotarisira kune watinoda uye nzira chaiyo yesarudzo yake iri kuchinja. Mumwe wevandaifamba navo muduku akataura nechido nezvemumwe wevaimuyemura. Kubva munzira yaaimutsanangura nayo, hunhu hwake hukuru hwaive pachena - kuvakwa kwemitambo uye maziso ebhuruu. Hapana kupokana kuti vafambi vechirume vechidiki, kana vaitaura nezvenyaya imwe chete, vangacherekedzawo, kutanga kune zvese, kunaka kwekunze kwevanogona kufambidzana navo. Izvi zvimwe zvinokonzerwa nemipimo yatakaisirwa, kusanganisira ine chekuita nechitarisiko. Nezera, tinova takazvimiririra uye takagadzirira kutarisana zvakanyanya, zvakadzama. Ipapo chimiro chemudiwa chinopera kumashure. Pfungwa yekuseka, mutsa, uye kugona kunzwira tsitsi zvinouya pekutanga. Saka, mukana wekusangana nemunhu chaiye "wake" unowedzera.
Chikamu chikuru chevanhu vakaroorana vanobvuma kuti dai vaifanira kusarudza iye zvino, havazoiti sarudzo vachifarira wekuroorana naye.
Rudo harisi makwikwi ezvakanakisa zvezvakanakisa
Dzimwe nguva, nevavariro dzakanakisisa, shamwari dzedu dzinoti: “Hazvina kunaka sei kuti iwe, tsvarakadenga yakadaro uye akangwara, uchiri woga.” Uye zvinotanga kuita sekuti tinofanira kuva neunhu hunokosha kuti tikwezve rudo. Uye sezvo tiri toga, zvinoreva kuti tinoita chimwe chinhu kana kuti kuratidzika zvisizvo. Kutsvaga wekufambidzana naye hakusi kwekusarudza mota kana basa, kunyangwe nzvimbo dzekupfimbana dzinoratidza kushamwaridzana uku. Pashure pezvose, tiri kutsvaka munhu, kwete boka reunhu. Bvunza vakaroorana vave vachigara pamwe chete kwenguva yakareba kuti chii chavanoda zvikuru kwavari mumumwe wavo, uye havazokuudze nezvemuhoro wepamusoro kana chimiro chakanakisisa, asi vanoyeuka zvakajairika, ruzivo uye kugoverana mufaro uye kusuwa, a pfungwa yekuvimba. Uye vazhinji havazobata humwe hunhu uye vachati: "Uyu ndiye munhu wangu."
Kuroorana hakusi mushonga wezvinetso
Wanano inogona kutibatsira mupfungwa, mundangariro, uye munzanga. Nekudaro, izvi zvinogoneka chete, uye hazvireve zvachose kuti tichanakidzwa nezvinhu zvakanaka izvi. Ukama hwepedyo chete, hwakadzama uye hwakavimbika umo tinoona munhu akazvimiririra mumumwe wake anoita kuti tifare. Vanhu vari mumibatanidzwa yakadaro vanonyatsonzwa kuva noutano hwakanaka uye vanorarama kwenguva refu. Asi kana zvikasawedzera, zvese zvinoitika zvakapesana. Ongororo dzakaitwa dzinoratidza kuti vanhu vakawanda vave vakaroorana kwemakore anopfuura gumi vanobvuma kuti dai vaifanira kusarudza iye zvino, vaisazosarudza vachida wokuroorana naye uye havadi kutanga mhuri naye. Nokuti havanzwi kubatana kwemanzwiro. Panguva imwe cheteyo, shamwari kana kuti hama yokunyama yaunogona kugoverana nayo zvinoitika zvoukama ingava munhu wapedyo zvikuru kupfuura mukwanyina.