PSYchology

"Pamakumi mana, hupenyu huchangotanga," akadaro mutambi mukuru wemufirimu ane mukurumbira. Mudzidzisi webhizimisi Nina Zvereva anobvumirana naye uye ari kufunga nezvekuti angada kupemberera zuva rake rekuzvarwa kwe80.

Muhuduku hwangu nouduku, ndakagara muMoscow pamba peshamwari yaamai vangu, Tete Zina, Zinaida Naumovna Parnes. Aive chiremba wesainzi, kemisitiri ane mukurumbira, munyori wekuwanikwa kwenyika. Kukura kwandakaita, ushamwari hwedu hwakabva hwasimba. Zvainakidza kwandiri kuteerera kune chero zvirevo zvake, akakwanisa kushandura pfungwa dzangu munzira yandisingatarisiri.

Iye zvino ndinonzwisisa kuti tete vekuMoscow Zina vava mudzidzisi wangu wezvemweya, pfungwa dzake dzakangwara dzakatorwa neni zvachose. Saka. Aifarira kubhururuka kuenda kuParis, uye akanyanya kudzidza chiFrench kuitira kuti ataure nevanhu vekuParis. Uye pashure perwendo rwokutanga kuna tete vake vakwegura, akasvika akakatyamadzwa: “Ninush, hakuna vanhu vakuru ikoko! Pane pfungwa ye "zera rechitatu". Vanhu vezera rechitatu pakarepo mushure mekusiya basa uye kusvikira vakwegura vanoenda kune zviratidziro nemamyuziyamu mahara, vanodzidza zvakawanda, vanobhururuka pasirese. Ninush, kuchembera kwedu kwakaipa!”

Ipapo kwenguva yokutanga ndakafunga pamusoro peidi rokuti upenyu hunogona kuva hwakanaka kwete bedzi pamakore 30 kana kuti 40 okukura. Uye ipapo pakanga pasina nguva yekufunga nezvezera nguva dzese. Hupenyu hwakandipa basa rakaoma - kugona basa idzva. Ndakabva paterevhizheni ndikava murairidzi webhizimisi. Ndakatanga kunyora mabhuku echidzidzo chekutaura uye mabhuku ezvekurera vana. Anenge zuva rega rega ndinomhanya ndichitenderera vateereri ndine maikorofoni mumaoko angu uye ndinobatsira vechidiki kuwana nzira yavo yekukurukurirana uye kudzidza nzira yekuzviratidza ivo neprojekti yavo mumashoko anonakidza, mapfupi, anonzwisisika.

Ndinonyatsoda basa rangu, asi dzimwe nguva zera rinondiyeuchidza pacharo. Ipapo maoko angu orwadza uye zvinova zvakaoma kwandiri kunyora pabhodhi. Izvo zvinouya kuneta kubva kune zvitima zvisingaperi uye ndege, kubva pakuparadzaniswa neguta rake rekuzvarwa uye murume anodiwa.

Kazhinji, rimwe zuva ndakaerekana ndafunga kuti ndakanga ndichipedza zera rangu rechitatu zvisizvo!

Zviratidziro, mamiziyamu, mabhaisikopo nekudzidza mutauro zviripi? Sei ndichishanda nesimba kudaro? Sei ndisingagoni kumira? Uye mumwe mubvunzo zvakare: pachava nekudzikama kuchembera muhupenyu hwangu? Uye ipapo ndakasarudza kuzvigadzirira bhari - pazera remakore makumi manomwe, rega kuitisa zvidzidzo, tarisa pakudzidzisa nekunyora mabhuku. Uye pa70, ndinoda kushandura zvachose chimiro chehupenyu hwangu hwekupenga hwekusika uye ndichangotanga kurarama.

Pazera rino, sekunzwisisa kwandava kuita, kurarama mukufara hakusi nyore zvachose. Izvo zvinodiwa kuchengetedza huropi, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - hutano. Tinofanira kufamba, kudya zvakanaka uye kubata nematambudziko anowira munhu wese. Ndakatanga kurota nezvezera rangu rechina! Ndine simba uye kunyange mukana wekuronga nhasi mamiriro ehupenyu hunoshamisa mukukwegura.

Ndinonyatsoziva kuti handidi kuremedza vana vangu nezvinetso zvangu: ngavashande uye vararame sezvavanoda. Ndinoziva kubva muruzivo rwangu ndimene kuti kwakaoma sei kugara uchitya uye mutoro wakazara kuvabereki vakwegura. Tinogona kuronga imba yedu yemazuva ano yekuchengeta vakwegura!

Ndinorota kutengesa imba muMoscow neNizhny Novgorod, kuunganidza shamwari, kugadzirisa munzvimbo yakanaka. Itai kuti mhuri imwe neimwe ive neimba yayo yakasiyana, asi mishonga nemasevhisi zvinogovaniswa. Murume wangu akataura nemazvo kuti vana vedu vanofanira kugadzira bhodhi revatariri - ko kana sclerosis yedu ikauya nekukurumidza kupfuura zvatingada?

Ndinorota horo huru yemabhaisikopo, gadheni rechando uye nzira dzekufamba

Ini ndinoda mubiki akanaka uye makicheni akagadzika mukamuri yega yega - zvirokwazvo ndichabika kusvika miniti yekupedzisira yehupenyu hwangu! Isu tinodawo makamuri akanaka evaenzi evana vedu, vazukuru uye shamwari idzo nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero vasingade kugara muimba yedu yekugara - vanozozvidemba, saka dzimwe dzimba kana dzimba dzinofanirwa kupihwa pachine nguva.

Chinhu chinosetsa ndechekuti pfungwa idzi hadzingondinyudzi mukusuwa kana kusuwa, asi, pane kudaro, nditakure kure uye kufadza mufaro mandiri. Hupenyu hurefu, zvakanaka.

Zvikamu zvakasiyana zvehupenyu zvinopa mikana yakasiyana yechinhu chikuru - kunzwa kwemufaro wekuve. Ndine vazukuru vadiki vaviri. Ndinoda kwazvo kupinda michato yavo! Kana, mumamiriro ezvinhu akanyanyisa, rekodha kukwazisa kwevhidhiyo inosetsa, ugere pedyo nemurume wako mubindu rechando munzvimbo yakanaka yaunofarira. Uye simudza girazi re champagne, iyo ichaunzwa kwandiri pane tereyi yakanaka.

Uye chii? Zviroto zvinogoneka chete kana vaine vavariro, asi zvakananga uye zvinodiwa. Uyezve, ndichine nguva. Chinhu chikuru ndechekurarama kusvika kuzera rechina, sezvo ndakaramba nemaune yechitatu.

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