Homoparentity: vakadaidza mumwe amai vakabereka

“Sevaroorani kwemakore akawanda, Alban naStéphan vaisambofungidzira kuva vasina mwana. Sezvavanosvika makumi mana avo, vanoda kutanga mhuri, "kupa rudo uye maitiro". Uye vakatsunga kuzvidza mutemo sezvo usingavapi kodzero yekuve vabereki. "Kurerwa, takafunga nezvazvo, asi zvakatonetsa kune vaviri, saka kumunhu mumwechete", anodemba Stéphan. “Pangadai pakaitwa kubvunzana kwevanhu, kureva kunyepa. Handione kuti tingavanza sei kuti taive muhukama ”.

Imwe mhinduro, kurera vana, asi zvakare, misungo yegadziriro ino yakawanda. Pakupedzisira, vakaroorana vanosarudza kushandisa amai vanoberekera mumwe munhu. Kutsigirwa nevadiwa vavo, vanobhururuka kuenda kuUnited States. Inyika chete ine India neRussia iyo isingachengetere vana amai vekuberekera verudzi vayo. Pavanosvika muMinneapolis, vanowona kuti musika waamai unogadzirwa sei uye unotariswa. Vanovimbiswa, kuti: “Nepo mune dzimwe nyika migariro iri ganhuriro zvikuru mukuwirirana netsika, muUnited States, hurongwa hwemutemo hwakagadzikana uye vamiriri vakawandisa. Icho chikamu chetsika, "anodaro Stéphan.

Sarudzo yemukadzi wekubereka

Vaviri ava vanobva vanyora faira kune imwe nyanzvi. Ipapo kurumidza kusangana nemhuri. Irwo rudo pakutanga. “Ndizvo chaizvo zvatakanga tichitsvaka. Vanhu vakagadzikana vane mamiriro ezvinhu, vana. Mukadzi uyu aive asiri kuita izvi nekuda kwemari. Aida kubatsira vanhu. Zvese zvinofamba nekukurumidza, kondirakiti inosainwa. Alban achava baba vekubereka uye Stéphan baba vepamutemo. “Zvakaita sechibvumirano chakanaka kwatiri, kuti mwana uyu aive nenhaka yedzinza remumwe uye zita remumwe. Asi zvinhu zvose zvakangotanga. Stéphan naAlban zvino vanofanira kusarudza mupi wezai. MuUnited States, amai vanoberekera vamwe vana havasirivo vanopa mazai avo. Sekutaura kwavo, iyi inzira yekunzvenga hukama hungangoitwa nemukadzi nemwana uyu, izvo zvisiri zvake. ” Takasarudza munhu ane hutano hwakakwana akanga atopa mazai avo », Anotsanangura Stéphan. "Pakupedzisira, takatarisa pikicha uye ichokwadi kuti paive neimwe yaiita saAlban, saka sarudzo yedu yakawira paari." The medical protocol iri kufamba zvakanaka. Mélissa anova nepamuviri pakuedza kwekutanga. Stéphan naAlban vari kudenga. Chishuvo chavo chikuru chichazoitika.

Kutya kukuru panguva yekutanga ultrasound

Asi panguva yekutanga ultrasound, ndiko kutya kukuru. Pahwindo panoonekwa nzvimbo nhema. Chiremba anovaudza kuti pane ngozi ye80% yekuti ichaita miscarriage. Stéphan naAlban vapererwa. Vadzoka kuFrance, vanotanga kuchema mwana uyu. Zvadaro, email kwapera vhiki: “mwana ari pakanaka, zvese zvakanaka. ”

Tanga marathon yakasimba. Pakati penzendo dzekudzoka nekudzoka kuUnited States, maemail emazuva ese anochinjana, vanababa vemangwana vanoshingairira kutora chikamu mukubata pamuviri kwaamai vanotsiva. “Isu takazvirekodha tichitaura ngano. Mélissa akaisa ngowani padumbu kuti mwana wedu anzwe manzwi edu. », Confides Stéphan.

Kuzvarwa kwakakwana

Zuva rekusununguka riri kusvika. Kana nguva yacho yasvika, vakomana havanzwi vachida kuenda kukamuri rokuberekera asi vanomirira nokusashivirira kuseri kwegonhi. Bianca akaberekwa munaNovember 11. Musangano wekutanga wemashiripiti. ” Paakaisa maziso ake mune angu, manzwiro makuru akandikurira », Stéphan anoyeuka. Makore maviri ekumirira, mutambo wacho wakanga wakakodzera kenduru. Vana baba vanobva vagara nemwana wavo. Vane kamuri yavo muwadhi yemadzimai uye vanoita mabasa ese evana sevana amai. Mapepa anoitwa nokukurumidza.

Chitupa chekuzvarwa chinopihwa zvinoenderana nemutemo weMinnesota. Zvinonzi Mélissa naStéphan ndivo vabereki. Kazhinji, kana mwana akaberekerwa kunze kwenyika, inofanira kuziviswa kune consulate yenyika yekwakabva. “Asi kana aona murume asvika aita mwana nemumwe mukadzi akaroora, kazhinji nyaya inovharika.

Kudzokera kuFrance

Mhuri itsva inobva kuUnited States, mazuva gumi pashure pokuberekwa kwaBianca. Pakudzoka, majaya anodedera sezvaanoswedera kutsika. Asi zvese zviri kufamba zvakanaka. Bianca anoona imba yake, hupenyu hwake hutsva. Uye rudzi rweFrance? Mumwedzi inotevera vana baba vanowedzera matanho, ita kutamba hukama hwavo uye nerombo rakanaka, vatore. Asi ivo vanonyatsoziva nezvekusarudzika. Sezvo mwanasikana wavo achakurumidza kupemberera zuva rake rekuzvarwa, Alban naStéphan vanonakidzwa nebasa ravo idzva sababa. Munhu wese akawana nzvimbo yake mumhuri iyi yakasiyana. ” Tinoziva kuti mwanasikana wedu achafanira kurwa munhandare yekutamba. Asi nzanga iri kuchinja, mafungiro ari kuchinja,” anobvuma kudaro Stéphan, ane tariro.

Kana iri yewanano yengochani, iyo iyo mutemo mutsva unobvumidza, vaviri vacho vanotarisira zvizere kuenda pamberi pameya. “Tine sarudzo zvechokwadi here? », Anosimbirira Stéphan. ” Hapana imwe nzira yekudzivirira zviri pamutemo mwanasikana wedu. Kana mangwana chimwe chinhu chikaitika kwandiri, Alban anofanira kuva nekodzero yekuchengeta mwana wake. “

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