7 nzira dzechokwadi kubva kune yakakurumbira nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Larisa Surkova.
- Sei, uchiri kupfekedza mwana manapukeni?! Ndakakudzidzisa kuhari pandaiva nemwedzi ye9! – amai vangu vakatsamwa.
Kwenguva yakareba, nyaya yemanapukeni yave inorwadza mumhuri yedu. Akadziirwawo neuto guru rehama.
“Ndinofanira kutoenda kuhari,” vakadzokorora kudaro mwanakomana wavo paakanga ava negore.
– Mwana wangu haana chikwereti nemunhu, – ndakambobhowekana, ndaneta nekuita tuzvikonzero, dingindira rehari rakapera.
Iye zvino mwanakomana wangu ane makore 2,3, uye hongu, kanda madomasi kwandiri, achiri kupfeka machira.
Panguva imwecheteyo, ndakatanga kudyara mwana muhari pazera remakore manomwe. Zvinhu zvose zvakafamba zvakanaka kusvikira mwanakomana adzidza kufamba. Zvakanga zvisisakwanisi kumuisa pahari - mhere, misodzi, hysteria yakatanga. Nguva iyi yakatora nguva yakareba. Zvino mwanakomana haatyi hari. Zvisinei, kwaari, iye anowedzera chitoyi, chaanotyaira akapoteredza imba, dzimwe nguva - ngowani kana tswanda yekuchengetedza "Lego".
Mwana achiri kuda kuita bhizinesi rake mune diaper, kunyangwe maminetsi mashoma apfuura, pakukumbira kwaamai vake, akagara pahari kwenguva yakareba uye nekushivirira.
Pamaforamu, nyaya yepoto pakati pemadzimai yakaita sechinhu chisina maturo. Wese wechipiri munhu ari kukurumidza kuzvirumbidza: "Uye wangu anga achienda kuhari kubva 6 mwedzi!" Ndiko kuti, mwana haasi kunyange netsoka dzake, asi nenzira imwe neimwe anosvika kuhari. Zvichida, anotorawo pepanhau kuti averenge - shanje shoma yakadaro.
Kazhinji, kana iwe unowanzoverenga maforamu, iwe unowedzera kutyaira iwe mu "vakaipa amai" yakaoma. Akandiponesa kubva kuzvi-flagellation inozivikanwa mwana uye chiremba wepfungwa Larisa Surkova.
Poto inyaya ine nharo. Iwe unoti unofanira kudzidzisa mushure megore - benzi, kana kusvika kune gore, zvakare benzi. Ndinogara ndichiitira zvinodiwa nemwana. Munguva ichangopfuura mwanasikana wangu muduku akashandura gore rimwe chete, uye panguva imwechete takaisa poto. Ngatitambe, ratidza mienzaniso uye kumirira. Mwana anofanira kukura. Iwe hauzvidururi muhope dzako, ndizvo here? Nokuti dzaibva. Uye mwana haasati.
1. Iye pachake anogona kugara pasi uye kusimuka kubva muhari.
2. Anogara pairi asingarambi.
3. Anorega basa panguva yekuita - seri kweketeni, seri kwemubhedha, nezvimwe.
4. Inogona kugara yakaoma kweinenge 40-60 maminitsi.
5. Anogona kushandisa mashoko kana zviito kuratidza kudiwa kwekuenda kuhari.
6. Haafarire kunyorova.
Usanetseka kana mwana ari pasi pemakore matatu akapfeka manapukeni nguva dzese. Ndichazivisa zvakavanzika. Mwana achaenda kuhari rimwe zuva. Unogona kumirira wozviuraya, kana kuti unogona kungotarisa. Vana vese vakasiyana uye vese vakura nenguva yakafanira. Hongu, munguva yedu, mazhinji anoibva gare gare, asi iyi haisi njodzi.
5 muzana chete yevana vane matambudziko emvura. Kana mwana anopfuura makore matatu asina kugona hunyanzvi hwechimbuzi, zvinogoneka:
- iwe wakakurumidza kana kushungurudza, kuburikidza nekuridza mhere iwe wakatanga kumudzidzisa potty;
- akawana kushushikana kwepoto. Mumwe munhu anotya: "kana iwe usingagari pasi, ini ndicharanga", nezvimwewo;
- pakava nokunyangadzwa nokuonekwa kwetsvina yavo;
- kutya pavakatora miedzo, somuenzaniso, pamashizha evhavha;
- iwe unobatanidza zvakanyanya kukosha kune nyaya dzehari, kuita zvechisimba, kutuka, kunyengetedza, uye mwana anonzwisisa kuti iyi ndiyo nzira yakanaka yekukubata iwe;
- chisarudzo chakanyanyisa - mwana ane zviratidzo zvekunonoka kukura kwemuviri uye mupfungwa.
1. Sarudza chikonzero chaicho. Kana uri iwe, saka iwe unofanirwa kudzikisira maitiro. Rega kuita ruzha nekutuka. Ita chiso chisina hanya kana kuratidza manzwiro ako nekazevezeve.
2. Taura naye! Ita nezvikonzero, tsanangura kuti chii chaizvo chausingadi kuramba kwake kwehari. Bvunza kuti "zvingave zvakanaka here" kana amai vakakoira mubhurugwa ravo? Tsvaga kana achifarira kuve netsvina nekunyorova.
3. Kana mwana akakumbira diaper, ratidza kuti vangani vasara mupakiti: “Tarisai, pane zvidimbu 5 chete, asi hapasisina. Iye zvino tichaenda kuhari. ” Taura zvakadzikama, usingapopori kana kupopota.
4. Verenga "potty" ngano. Izvi zvinogona kutorwa mahara paInternet.
5. Tanga "poto diary" uye tora nyaya yako pamusoro pehari. Mwana akagara pairi, saka iwe unogona kuburitsa chitupa. Hauna kugara pasi? Zvinoreva kuti poto iri yoga uye yakasuwa isina mwana.
6. Kana pane kusava nechokwadi kuti mwana ari kusara shure mukukura, taura nenyanzvi yepfungwa kana neurologist.
7. Kana iwe uchiziva kuti nyaya dzinoshungurudza dzepfungwa dzakaitika kumwana, zviri naniwo kuenda kune chiremba wepfungwa. Hakuna mukana wakadaro? Wobva watsvaga paInternet kuti uwane ngano dzekurapa pane yako nyaya, semuenzaniso, "Tale yeKutya Hari."