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Chii chinonzi hypersensitivity?
Sezvinoratidzwa nezita racho, hypersensitivity zvinoreva yakakwirira kudarika avhareji yekunzwa, yakawedzera. Mupfungwa, pfungwa iyi yakajekeswa muna 1996 neAmerican Clinical psychologist Elaine Aron. MuchiRungu, rinotaura kuti “munhu ane hanya zvakanyanya”, Nemamwe mashoko a munhu anonzwira tsitsi zvakanyanya kana kuti ane hanya zvakanyanya, kudoma vanhu vane kunzwisiswa kwakakwirira kudarika zvakajairwa. Aya mazwi anoonekwa seanoshoreka pane izwi rekuti "supersensitive”, Uye saka inosarudzwa nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa vanonyanya kubata chidzidzo ichi.
Zvinoenderana netsvagiridzo yazvino nezve hypersensitivity, hunhu uhu hune hanya 15 kusvika 20% yevanhu pasi rose. Uye zvechokwadi, vana havasi ivo.
Hunhu: sei kuongorora hypersensitivity muvana?
Hypersensitivity, inonziwo high senitivity kana ultrasensitivity, inoguma mune zvinotevera maitiro:
- hupenyu hwemukati hwakapfuma uye hwakaoma, fungidziro yakakosha;
- kubatwa zvakanyanya nehunyanzvi (pendi, mimhanzi, nezvimwewo);
- kutadza kana kucherechedzwa;
- kugumburwa nyore nyore kana kukurirwa nemanzwiro, kuchinja, kunyanya kukurudzira (chiedza, kurira, mhomho, nezvimwewo);
- kunetseka kuita zvakawanda kana kuita sarudzo;
- kugona kukuru kwekuteerera vamwe, kubata hunyengeri hwemamiriro ezvinhu kana munhu.
Kuva nemwana ane hanya: sei hypersensitivity inoratidzwa muvana nevacheche?
Sezvo kune mhuri dzinoverengeka dze hypersensitivity muvana, zvinogona kutora zvakasiyana. Mwana ane hanya zvikuru anogona, semuenzaniso kuva akasununguka zvikuru, introvent, kana kuti zvakasiyana anoratidza zvakanyanya nezvemanzwiro ake. Mune mamwe mazwi, kune dzinenge dzakawanda hypersensitivities sezvo kune hypersensitive iwo.
Nekudaro, vana hypersensitivity psychologists vakabudirira kuona mamwe maitiro uye hunhu muvana vane hypersensitive kubatsira kuita "kuongororwa".
Mubasa rake"Mwana wangu ari very sensitive“, Dr. Elaine Aron anoronga zvirevo 17, izvo vabereki vanofungira kuti mwana wavo haanzwisisi zvakanaka vanofanira kupindura”chinhu chechokwadi"Kana"venhema".
Mwana ane hypersensitive saka anowanzo svetuka nyore, kusakoshesa kushamisika kukuru, kuva nepfungwa yekuseka uye mazwi anoenderana nezera rake, kuve ne intuition kunyatsokura, kuva bvunza mibvunzo yakawanda, kuva nedambudziko rekuita sarudzo nekukurumidza, kuva vanoda nguva dzerunyararo, kuona kutambura mumuviri kana kuti mupfungwa kwomumwe munhu, kuva anobudirira zvikuru pabasa kana pasina vanhu vaasingazivi, kuva anonzwisisa zvikuru marwadzo, kurangarira zvinhu zvakakomba zvikuru kana kuti kushungurudzwa neruzha uye / kana nzvimbo dzakabatikana, yakajeka zvikuru.
Kana iwe ukaona mwana wako mune zvese izvi zvirevo, ibheji yakachengeteka kuti ane hypersensitive. Asi, maererano naDr. Aron, kungava kuti kutaura kumwe chete kana kuti zviviri zvinoshanda kumwana asi zvine revo zvikuru, uye mwana iyeye anonzwira tsitsi zvikuru.
Mumucheche, hypersensitivity ichanyanya kuoneka nekuita kwayo kune ruzha, chiedza, kunetseka kwevabereki, matishu paganda rayo kana tembiricha yekugezesa.
Nzira yekutsigira, kudzikama uye kuperekedza mwana hypersensitive kubata manzwiro ake?
Chekutanga pane zvese, zvakakosha kuyeuka, sekutaura kunoita psychoanalyst Saverio Tomasella mubhuku rake " Ndinobatsira mwana wangu ane hypersensitive kuti abudirire ", kuti"Ultrasensitivity inoumbwa muvana vaduku”. Inobata vese vacheche nevana vese kusvika pamakore manomwe ezera kana kupfuura, sezvo inove iripo, kana “kuita” mushure.
Panzvimbo pekunyomba mwana ane hypersensitive, kana kuvakoka kuti vavhare uku kunzwisiswa kwakanyanya, izvo zvinongowedzera kuvaparadzanisa, inokurudzirwa zvakanyanya kubatsira mwana kudzikamisa uye kugona iyi peculiarity.
Somuenzaniso, tinogona:
- koka mwana kuti tsanangura manzwiro ake nemashoko kana mitambo yekutamba,
- remekedza wake vanoda nguva yerunyararo mushure mekuita ruzha kana muboka, maari kudzivisa kunyanyisa kusingakoshi (muenzaniso: kutenga mushure mezuva refu kuchikoro ...),
- taura nezvekunzwa kwavo manzwiro uye hypersensitivity kuburikidza anorumbidza kwete mashoko asina kunaka, vachimuyeuchidza hunhu hwehunhu uhu (semuenzaniso pfungwa yake yeruzivo uye yekutarisa),
- mutsanangurire kuti anogona kushandura chimiro ichi kuita simba,
- mubatsire kuona pfungwa yake yekuputsika uye kutaura nezvazvo kuti azvidzivirire mune ramangwana,
- mubatsire kutarisana neshanduko nerunyararo rwakanyanya sezvinobvira ...
Kune rumwe rutivi, hazvikurudzirwi kuenzanisa mwana ane hypersensitive nemumwe asiri, semuenzaniso muhama imwe chete, uye izvi kunyange kana kuseka, nokuti kuenzanisa uku hakuitike. kuva uye anogona kubatwa zvakanyanya nemwana.
Muchidimbu, izwi rekurinda redzidzo yemwana ane hypersensitive hapana mubvunzo mutsa. Dzidzo yakanaka uye huzivi hweMontessori zvinobatsira zvikuru kumwana anonyanya kunzwa.
matura:
- Mwana wangu ari very sensitive, naElaine Aron, ichabudiswa 26/02/19;
- Ini ndinobatsira mwana wangu ane hypersensitive kuti abudirire, naSaverio Tomasella, yakaburitswa muna Kukadzi 2018