Kudzvinyirira, dzimwe nguva kukuvadza uye kusagutsikana ... Vamwe vedu vanogona kunge vakasangana ne "mukadzi anokanda" munzira yedu. Chepfu kwavari asiwo kune vavanoda, inotonga.

Kuora mwoyo kwemukadzi anokandwa kunogona, maererano nenyanzvi dzepfungwa, kubva mukuvhiringidzika kunobatanidza nehuduku. MuFreud, iyo castration yakaoma inoratidzira seti yezvinoitika zvinokonzeresa, kunyanya kusaziva, kunotemerwa nekutyisidzirwa kwekukanda muvarume uye nekushaikwa kwepeni muvakadzi. Dhizaini yakatorwa naJacques Lacan.

Nhengo yemukomana ndeye "primordial autoerotic organ", uye uyu haagone kufunga kuti munhu akafanana naye haana. Asi iyo castration yakaoma yeFreud inobata mukadzi zvakanyanya semurume. Muvasikana, kuona kwenhengo yevakomana nevasikana pakarepo kunokonzera zvakaoma. Paanongoona nhengo yechirume, anobva azviona semunhu achekwa. Kamwe munhu mukuru, bonde rake rinoratidzika kwaari serisina kunaka. Haana kuzvarwa ari mukomana mudiki, kushushikana kunokonzera godo nevarume. Zvimwe zvikonzero zvinogona, hongu, kunyandura kuumbwa kwevakadzi: baba vanodzvinyirira zvakanyanya, vanogara vachinyadzisa mwanasikana wavo, vachimuvhiringidza uye vachimuzvidza kusvika pamwero wokuti ruvengo runoonekwa mumwanasikana. Anobva apfuudza ruvengo urwu kuvarume vose.

Nezve psychoanalysis, mukadzi anokandira ndiye anoda "phallus" (simba) iye oga. Anoda kutonga zvese, kutonga zvese. Mukadzi uyu ari muhondo nevarume vaanoda kutonga. Authoritarian, anovaita kuti vafambe netsvimbo.

Muhukama, mukadzi anotena anotonga. Kumukwanyina wake, anopa kunzwa kwokuti haakwanisi kuita basa racho, kuti haatongogoni kumugutsawo zvake. Haazenguriri kuidzikisa, kuipindura pamberi pevanhu. Kupinza munhu pakuona kwake zvinhu, zvaanoda uye dzimwe nguva kunyange fungidziro dzake dzepedyo uye dzakapusa, inzira yekuti iye ave neruoko rwepamusoro. Zvisinei, anogara akangwara, ari nani kupfuura iye. Anoisa zvishuwo zvake pakutanga, zvaanoda asingafungi zvaanoda zvachose. Mudzimai anochekwa haazvizivi kudaro. Ndiwo hunhu hwake, kwaari, ndizvo zvakaita nyika. Anogara akaora mwoyo. Mafungiro anotungamira mukudzingwa kwepfungwa izvo dzimwe nguva zvinogona kukonzera kushaya simba muvarume. Zvisinei, kana vaviri vacho vakagadzikana mukufamba kwenguva, murume anopinda munjodzi yekuedza kuzvisunungura kubva muchibvumirano ichi chinokachidza nekusavimbika, pasina zvakadaro kubudirira mukuzvisunungura kubva pachiri. Mukadzi anochekwa anogonawo kutema mumwe mukadzi. Chinhu chakakosha kutungamira nyika kune wand.

Amai ava vakakurirwa vachave nemaitiro akafanana kuvana vavo sevarume: acharamba achivayeuchidza kuti ndiye anotungamirira, anosarudza. Yakaoma kusvika pakudzvinyirira, yakavharwa kunhaurirano. Naiye, pasina nhaurirano, isingachinji kune chero shanduko, anogona kusvika pakutyisidzira mwana kana akasateerera, nemuromo kana nemuviri, kana kunyange kumushusha mupfungwa. Asi nguva dzose achifunga kuzviita zvakamunakira uye chero zvazvingava, ane chokwadi chokuti mwana wake haakwanisi kuzviriritira.

Migumisiro kumwana inogona kuva yakaipa Amai vanokanda vacharamba vachida kudzora hupenyu hwekukura kwemwana wavo, vachapa maonero avo kune vanhu vaanoona. Ane masimba, anopindira, anopinda munzvimbo yakavanzika yevana vake. Atarisana nokushorwa kunobvira, anoshatirwa. Mukomana asingazokwanisi kutarisana naamai vake anotanga dambudziko remhosva, kusazviremekedza uye anogona kuzova murume asingazogari zvakanaka nevakadzi. Anopindawo panjodzi yekusaziva kutsvaga wekufambidzana naye mumufananidzo waamai vake kuti aite zvakare hukama-hunotonga, hunozova hukama hune chepfu. Kana ari mwanasikana, anozvipinza mungozi yokuberekazve muenzaniso waamai vake vanokanda mapfumo pasi. Zvingave zvakafanira kuti pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwavo hwevanhu vakuru, vana vaise chinhambwe pakati pavo naamai vavo vane chepfu.

Kutarisana nemunhu anopindira akadaro anoda kudzora zvinhu zvose, asingafungi nezvechido chemumwe, angave ari shamwari, mwana, shamwari, kusagadzikana kunotanga nokukurumidza. Kusava nehanya kwemukadzi anokandwa, chido chake chekutonga pamusoro pevanhu nokukurumidza chinodzima joie de vivre yeavo vakamupoteredza kuti ape nzira kune mamiriro erima uye kugumbuka uye simba rinokosha rinoitwa vampirized. Kana zvasangana nazvo, hapana chinoenda, nzvimbo dzedu dzesimba dzakakiyiwa, kuneta, taciturn mood, ruminations uye pfungwa dzisina kunaka dzinogona kuiswa mukati ... , kunzwisisa uye kuzvimirira mupfungwa. Chokwadi, kusungirira kutsamira nehunhu hwekukandira chinhu chakaipisisa kuita kana munhu achikoshesa hupenyu, hutano hwake, rusununguko rwake.