PSYchology

Kuchembera kunotyisa. Kunyanya nhasi, kana iri fashoni kuva mudiki, kana chikumbiro chega chega checashier kuratidza pasipoti irumbidzo. Asi zvichida iwe unofanira kuchinja mafungiro ako kune kukwegura? Zvimwe tinofanira kubvuma kuti: "Hongu, ndiri kuchembera." Uye wozoona kuti kuchembera kunoshamisa.

Ndave kuchembera. (Pane kumbomira pano kune avo vasinganzwe chirevo ichi vasina kudanidzira kuti: “Oh, usagadzirise!”, “Hongu, uchiri kupukuta mhino yemunhu wese!”, “Ndezvipi zvisina maturo zvauri kutaura nezvazvo. !” Ndapota, danidzirai pano, uye panguva ino ndichaenda kunozvidira tii.)

Ndave kuchembera uye izvi zvinoshamisa. Chii, inguva? Sei ndisina kunyeverwa? Kwete, ndaiziva, chokwadi, kuti kuchembera kwakanga kusingadzivisiki, uye ndakanga ndatogadzirira kutanga nounyoro kutanga kuchembera ... rimwe zuva, pandakanga ndava nemakore anopfuura makumi matanhatu.

Izvi ndizvo zvazvinoita. Hupenyu hwangu hwose ndaisonera bhurugwa rangu muchiuno. Iye zvino handichakodzeri mune chimwe chazvo. Zvakanaka, ndichapinda mune zvimwe. Asi chii, ndiudze, iyi ruzivo rwakarembera kubva pamusoro pebhanhire? Handina kuiraira, haisi yangu, dzorera! Kana kuti pano maoko. Handina kana kumbofungira kuti maoko anogona kuoma. Ndakazvitengera zvinhu zveChinese, zvakasonerwa madzimai ekuChina. Vari kupi zvino? Akapa varoora vake.

Zhizha rapfuura, ndakangoerekana ndarova bhatani rekuvhara uye ndakatora mufananidzo wegumbo rangu. Knee, chikamu chehudyu, chikamu chegumbo rezasi. Ndakaseka kuti foto iyi yaigona kutumirwa kumagazini yerumwe rudzi - pfuti inonyengerera yakabuda. Uye mumatsutso apfuura, ndakarwara nechimwe chinhu chinoshamisa, uye makumbo angu akanga akafukidzwa nemikoko inopfuurira.

Mufananidzo wacho waiita kunge mubhurugwa mutsvuku, ndakataridza vana. Pashure pechirwere ichi, tsinga dzeropa dzemakumbo angu dzakatanga kuputika, imwe pashure peimwe. Kana dzangotanga chete, hadziperi.

Ndinotarisa pasi tsoka dzangu dzakadyiwa nezvipfukuto uye nekutya, ndinobvunza mumwe munhu, “Zvino chii? Hauchakwanisi kufamba usina shangu?"

Asi chinhu chinotonhorera maziso. Wrinkles - zvakanaka, ndiani anopesana nemakwinya. Asi maziso akasvibira uye akazvimba mupeta, asi anogara akatsvuka maziso - chii? Ndechei? Handina kumbozvitarisira! "Chii, wanga uchichema?" Serezha anobvunza. “Uye ndakapindura neshungu: 'Ndinogara ndakadai zvino.'” Haana kuchema, uye haana kuda kudaro, uye kunyange kurara zvakanyanya.

Ndaigona kuenderera mberi kwenguva yakareba: pamusoro pekuona uye kunzwa, nezvemazino nebvudzi, pamusoro pekuyeuka uye majoini. Iyo yekuvandira ndeyekuti zvese zvinoitika nekukurumidza, uye hazvibviri kujaira iwe mutsva. Ndichifunga nezve, ndinoerekana ndaona kuti mumakore makumi matatu apfuura, zvakazoitika kuti ini ndachinja zvishoma. Makore matatu apfuura, ndakaisa mufananidzo wandine makore 18 okukura, uye ndakagamuchira boka remashoko: “Ehe, hauna kana kumbochinja!” Zvinoshamisa zvikuru kuverenga izvi zvino uye kutarisa mugirazi.

Girazi… Ndisati ndatarisa mariri, ndinoungana nechomukati zvino ndozviudza kuti: “Usatya zvako!” Uye ndichiri kudzengerera, ndakatarisa kutarisisa. Dzimwe nguva ndinoda kutsamwa uye kutsika tsoka dzangu: chii chinonditarisa kubva pagirazi handisi ini, ndiani akatsunga kuchinja avatar yangu?

Kuchembera hakuna kugadzikana

Trousers harikwire, jasi harina kusungirira. Vamwe vakadzi vakaenda nenzira imwe cheteyo pamberi pangu vanoti nomufaro: “Asi ino inguva yokuvandudza wadhiropu!” Kutyisa kwakadini! Enda kunotenga, tarisa zvinhu zvakashata, govana nezvako zvakajairika, zvipfeko zvisina mhosva, zadza imba nezvitsva ...

Kuchembera kunonyadzisa

Ndakatanga kugumbuka ndisati ndasangana nevanhu vandakanga ndava nenguva ndisina kuonana navo. Mumwe anotarisa kubvunza, mumwe munhu anotarisa kure, mumwe munhu anoti: "Chimwe chinhu chaunotaridzika wakaneta."

Mhedzisiro yekukurumidza yakapihwa nemuvakidzani wangu munyika, nyanzvi inopenga zvishoma. Akanditarisa ndokudeedzera kuti, “Wow! Ndajaira kuti uri tomboy-tomboy, uye une makwinya! Akafambisa chigunwe chake pamusoro pemakwinya angu. Uye murume wake, mukuru kwandiri uye wandaigara ndichirutsa, akanditarisa muchidimbu ndokuti: "Huya ne" iwe "".

Mumwe mugadziri wechitofu akauya akanga asina kundiona kwemakore akawanda. Akabvunza kuti: "Hausati waenda pamudyandigere?"

Uyu mubvunzo, handitombozivi kuti ndouenzanisa nei. Hazvibviri kukanganwa munhu akakubvunza kekutanga. Retired! Makore mashoma apfuura, vana vangu vakabudirira kundisiya semunin’ina wavo!

Zvinonyadzisa kuchembera

Shamwari yangu yehudiki ichangobva kurambana, yakaroorazve, uye ikava nevana, pakupedzisira vake, mumwe nemumwe. Iye zvino ndibaba vechidiki, semwanakomana wangu mukuru. Ndinonzwa kunge ndiri chizvarwa chezera kwaari iye zvino. Kwenguva yakareba, nguva yakareba, mukana uyu uchiri kuwanikwa kune varume - kuva nevana uye kuvarera nenzira yaunoona yakakodzera ikozvino. Uye kazhinji, mukana wekutanga mhuri, kutanga kuvaka nyika yemhuri patsva. Inowanikwa kune varume, asi kwete kuvakadzi. Musiyano une hutsinye.

Chokwadika, kukwegura hakurevi kuchembera pakarepo, kungofanana nokukura kusingarevi kuva munhu mukuru pakarepo. Ndichiri kukwanisa kutamba kwemaawa akawanda, kukwira fenzi yakakwirira, kugadzirisa chirahwe chekukurumidza. Asi pamusoro pe hyperbole yakapfuura, vector yakashanduka kubva pauduku kusvika pakukwegura.

Ini zvino ndinongoerekana ndaona zvakawanda zvakafanana nehudiki kupfuura kare.

Kuchembera kwave pedyo uye kunonzwisisika, uye kushaya simba kunorira mabhero ekutanga kana iwe usingakwanise kupinza tsono kana kuona kuti pasuru inovhura sei, uye iwe unofunga nenzira itsva, uchifamba uchikwira kusvika pauriri hwechishanu. Uye ndakarega kubata nhetembo nemusoro. Izvo, munoziva, zvakanyanya kusimba kupfuura maziso matsvuku.

Kuchembera kwakaoma

Chionioni hachikuregi uchienda, chinoita kuti zvive pachena, chaizvo, shanduko kune rimwe zera, kune rimwe boka. Uye izvi zvinoreva kuti takapfuura chiteshi chekupedzisira, verenga chitsauko chekupedzisira. Chitima chinongoenda mberi chete, uye havazoverengezve chitsauko chacho, waifanira kunge wakanyatsoteerera.

Mikana yakapfuura yasara kumashure, waigona kuirarama, wanga uine nguva, uye kuti wakaifuridza here kana kuti hauna kuifuridza, hapana ane hanya nazvo. Chitima chiri kuenda, vheyesa kuchiteshi ichi. Ah, mudiwa wangu Augustine, zvese, zvese zvaenda.

Kune mashoma mameseji evachembera pasocial network. Izvo zviripo zvinoodza moyo. Munyori wezvinyorwa zvekupedzisira zvakadai zvandakaverenga akachema-chema kuti tine tsika yevadiki uye, yakaparadzaniswa nemakoma, kuti vashoma vakadzi vechikuru vanotenga masiketi uye zvizorwa zvinopenya. Kureva, sekushambadzira, akasundira zano rekuti "Unogona kutaridzika mudiki chero zera."

Ndiudze chii…Hmm, ndichatanga patsva. Ndiudze, nei ndichifanira kuda kutaridzika mudiki? handidi. Ndinoda kuva pachangu, ndiko kuti, kutarisa zera rangu.

Hungu, kukwegura kwakaoma. Saka kukura kwakaoma. Uye berekwa. Hapana anoti kumwana: "Hachisi chinhu kuti iwe wakaberekwa, peta maoko ako nemakumbo, sezvauri mudumbu, danidzira kusvikira vabereki vako vachikufukidza nemagumbeze kumativi ose, uye unyepe seizvi gore negore." Hupenyu hunoenderera mberi, imwe chiteshi inoteverwa neimwe, pwere inoteverwa nekukura, uye nazvo - mamwe maitiro, mamwe mabasa emagariro uye ...

Handina kuona kuti chiteshi cheMaturity hachioneki patiri

Chekutanga, tinopemberera zuva risingaperi remhungu pachiteshi cheMolodist, uye kamwe kamwe kunouya kuchembera chaiko kwakadai, "House in the Village", hengechepfu, epuroni nematanho anokwenya.

Ini ndinoona pakati pevamwe vangu kana minus vezera vazhinji veavo vanoisa pfungwa pakurasikirwa, kune avo vachena bvudzi nendebvu, makwinya uye maparavara zviratidzo zvekusuwa, zviratidzo zvemikana yakarasika, uye hapana zvimwe. Asi ndinoziva, nerufaro, uye vamwe - vane simba. Nokuti chii chinonzi kukura, kana kusiri mufananidzo, simba rakadzikama?

Paunenge uchiri muduku, unofanira kugara uchiratidza kuti wakapfuma, pasinei nouduku hwako. Paunenge uchiri mudiki, unopinzwa mukambani yevakuru. Vanokutarisira pasi by default. Dzimwe nguva zvinogumbura. Paunenge usiri mudiki, unodzingwa mukambani yechidiki. Dzimwe nguva zvinongotsamwisa.

Nekutadza, iwe unopihwa kiredhiti yeruremekedzo uye kutarisisa, nekusagadzika vanokuona wakapfuma

Nguva yaunotanga kuona kuti mukambani hombe munhu wese ari kunyombana, uye iwe unoudzwa nechisimba "iwe", kuti vatorwa vanotendeukira kwauri neruremekedzo rutsva, kunyangwe neruremekedzo rutsva, inguva inosuruvarisa uye yakadzama panguva imwe chete. nguva.

Zviripachena kuti sei zvinosuruvarisa, asi zvine hunyoro - nekuti vanhu vanoratidza nemaitiro avo kuti vanoona hupenyu hwako. Zvinoitika kuti hupenyu hwako hwakawanikwa, hwava ruzivo, simba, simba. Sokunge wakadya pondo yako yemunyu, washandira makore ako makumi maviri nemashanu uye wakasununguka. Sokunge iwe, segamba rengano, wakapfeka shangu dzako nhatu dzesimbi, wapasa bvunzo dzese uye kushambira kumvura yakachena. Uye iwe haugone kutambura chero chinhu zvakare, asi ingova uye uite.

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