Mukati
Mune zvirevo kune chero zvinyorwa zvine mwero pamusoro pezvechikadzi, kuenzana uye nyaya yevakadzi, munhu anogona kazhinji kuwana mitsara yakaita sekuti: “Handizvioni ndiri munhukadzi, asi ndinobvumirana zvachose…”. Uye izvi zvinoshamisa: kana iwe uchibvumirana, iwe uri mukadzi - saka sei usingade kuzvidaidza iwe?
Feminism isangano rinobatanidza uye rakafara, nei zvakakosha kuti vakadzi vazhinji vasimbise kusava kwavo kwairi, zvisinei nekuwirirana chaiko kwemaonero nehunhu? Ndakafunga nezvazvo ndikaona zvikonzero zvikuru zvina.
Kusaziva uye kushamwaridzana kwakashata
Zvinosuruvarisa, sangano revakadzi richiri rakakomberedzwa nemhomho yose yengano idzo vakadzi vakawanda vanoramba kuziva. Feminism inobatanidzwa neruvengo rwevarume, kusava nehanya kwekunze, hutsinye uye hurume. Vatsigiri vevakadzi vanopomerwa mhosva yekurwisana kusina musoro nemhepo uye matambudziko akareba ("mumazuva ekare kwaiva nevakadzi, vairwira kodzero yekuvhota, asi zvino chii, pane zvisina maturo chete").
Ingovapa chimwe chinhu chekurambidza, kubvisa kana kuzora neropa rekutevera. Kwete pasina rubatsiro rwevezvenhau, mufananidzo wevakadzikadzi sevakashata, uipi hunotyisa nezvinetso munharaunda yepabonde, avo vanorota kurambidza varume uye kutonga kwega-handedly nyika, kwakatora midzi mupfungwa dzevanhu. Uye hapana chinhu chinoshamisa kuti vakadzi vasinganyatsozivi sangano revakadzi rechokwadi uye vamiririri varo havadi kubatanidzwa ne "kutuka" uku.
Vakadzi vanotya kuti feminism ichavaunzira mamwe mabasa uye "masculate" varume zvakanyanya
Chimwe chinhu chiduku asi chakakosha chinogona kuiswa pasherufu yengano. Vakadzi vakawanda vane chokwadi chokuti vakadzi vari kurwira vakadzi nekuzvidira uye nekumanikidzira kuti vazvimirire uye vakasimba, rudzi rwe "varume vakapfeka mipendero", vanodzika kuchiso, vanotora muroti uye vatakure. “Asi kupi kumwe kwatinoda munhu anorara kana tatova nebasa neshifiti yechipiri pamba uye nevana? Tinoda maruva, chipfeko, uye mukana wekurota kuti muchinda akanaka achauya uye tinogona kuzorora zvishoma papfudzi rake rakasimba, "vanopikisa zvine musoro.
Vakadzi vanotya kuti feminism ichavaunzira mamwe mabasa uye "masculate" varume zvakanyanya, kuparadza pamudzi wevose vanowana uye vadziviriri, avo vanogona kuvapo tariro yose inoiswa. Uye pfungwa iyi inotitungamirira kune imwe pfungwa inotevera.
Kutya kurasikirwa zviripo, kunyangwe zvidiki, maropafadzo
Kuva mukadzi kwakaoma nguva dzose. Asi muchirevo chemadzitateguru, pane imwe nzira yekubudirira yezvipoko inovimbisa mukadzi denga panyika (imba imbiya yakazara, murume muchengeti uye hupenyu hwakadyiswa zvakanaka) kana akasvetuka kumusoro uye anogona kusangana kwenguva refu. runyoro rwezvinotarisirwa munharaunda.
Kunyangwe muhuduku, tinodzidza: kana iwe uchitamba nemirairo, nyarara, unotapira uye wakasununguka, tarisa zvakanaka, usaratidze hutsinye, hanya, tsungirira, usapfeka zvipfeko zvinotsamwisa, kunyemwerera, kuseka majee uye kuisa zvese. simba rako mune "zvevakadzi" - unogona kudhirowa tikiti rerombo. Iwe, kana uine rombo rakanaka, uchapfuura zvese zvinotyisa zvechikadzi, uye semubairo iwe uchagashira kurudziro kubva munharaunda uye, zvakanyanya kukosha, kubvumidzwa kwechirume.
Nzvimbo yevakadzi inovhura mikana isati yamboitika, asi zvakare inovhara mikova yakawanda - semuenzaniso, inoderedza kusarudzwa kwevadyidzani.
Naizvozvo, kuzvidaidza kuti munhukadzi kuregedza nzvimbo yekutanga munhangemutange yezita rekuti "musikana akanaka". Pashure pezvose, kuva iye kusagadzikana. Chinzvimbo chevakadzi, kune rumwe rutivi, chinovhura mikana yekukura kwega mune imwe hanzvadzi inotsigira, uye kune rumwe rutivi, inovhara mamwe masuo akawanda, somuenzaniso, inoderedza zvakanyanya kusarudzwa kwevanogona kuroorana navo (uyewo, semuenzaniso. , zvigadzirwa zvetsika zvaunogona kudya pasina kurutsa zvishoma), zvinowanzokonzera kushorwa kwevanhu uye mamwe matambudziko.
Kuzvidaidza kuti mukadzi, unorasikirwa nemukana iwoyo wekunyepedzera wekuva "musikana akanaka", mukana weiyo shoma, asi mubairo.
Kusada kunzwa semunhu abatwa
Muhurukuro ipi neipi pamusoro pekudzvinyirirwa kwevakadzi, mazwi okuti "Handina kumbosangana neizvi", "hapana anondidzvinyirira", "iyi idambudziko riri kure" rinogara richibuda. Vakadzi vanoratidza kuti havana kumbobvira vasangana nezvimiro zvemadzitateguru, kuti izvi hazvina kumboitika muhupenyu hwavo, uye hazvizomboiti.
Uye hapana chinoshamisa mune izvi. Tichiziva kuvapo kwekudzvinyirirwa, isu panguva imwe chete tinoziva nzvimbo yedu yakadzvinyirirwa, nzvimbo yevasina simba, munhu akabatwa. Uye ndiani anoda kuva nyajambwa? Kuzivikanwa kwehudzvanyiriri kunorevawo kubvuma kuti hatigone kufurira zvese muhupenyu hwedu, hazvisi zvese zviri musimba redu.
Vanhu vedu vepedyo, vatinoshanda navo, vanababa, vakoma, shamwari dzechirume, vari munzvimbo dzakasiyana zvachose mune iyi piramidhi yehumambo.
Nzvimbo yokuti “hapana anondidzvinyirira” inodzorera kudzora kwokunyepedzera kumaoko omukadzi: Ini handina kutera, handisi munyajambwa, ndinongoita zvose zvakanaka, uye avo vari kusangana nezvinetso, sezvingabvira, vakangoita chimwe chinhu chakaipa. Izvi zviri nyore kunzwisisa, nekuti kutya kurasikirwa nekutonga uye kubvuma kusazvibata kwako ndechimwe chekutya kwakadzama kwevanhu.
Mukuwedzera, tichizviona isu sechibatanidzo chisina kusimba mune chimwe chimiro uye hierarchy, tinomanikidzwa kutarisana nechimwe chokwadi chisingafadzi. Sezvineiwo, nenyaya yekuti vanhu vedu vepedyo, vatinoshanda navo, vanababa, vakoma, shamwari dzechirume, vari mune dzimwe nzvimbo mune iyi piramidhi yehumambo. Kuti vanogara vachizvishandisa zvisina kunaka, kurarama nekushandisa kwedu, kuwana zvakawanda nekuedza kushoma. Uye panguva imwe chete rambai vadiwa vedu nevadiwa. Iyi ipfungwa inorema inoda kufungisisa kwenguva refu uye kashoma kukonzera dutu remanzwiro akanaka.
Kusada kuzvipa zita uye kutya kurambwa
Pakupedzisira, chikonzero chekupedzisira nei vakadzi vasingadi kuzvidaidza kuti vakadzi ndekusada kana kusakwanisa kuenderana nesero rakaomesesa remaonero avo mune rimwe sero rakamanikana. Vakadzi vazhinji vanofungidzira vanoona maonero avo epasirese kwete semaonero akaiswa, asi senzira, uye vanonyumwira chero mavara nemapoka emafungiro ekufungidzira. Kuzvinyora ivo pachavo, kunyangwe vachidada se "feminist", zvinoreva kuti ivo vaderedze maitiro avo akaomarara uye e "fluid" kune imwe pfungwa uye nekudaro kudzikisira kukura kwavo.
Zviri nyore kurasika musango iri dema uye kunyorwa se "mumwe munhukadzi asina kunaka achiita zvechikadzi zvisirizvo"
Chikwata ichi chinowanzo sanganisira vakadzi vangada kuzvidaidza kuti vakadzi, asi vakarasika mune zvisingaperi ramifications yekufamba kwedu kwakapararira uye vanotya kutora danho rekuwedzera kutyira kuunza mabhanan'ana nemheni uye kupomerwa kwechikadzi chisiri icho.
Kune matavi asingaverengeki echikadzi, kazhinji kazhinji anorwisana, uye musango iri rine rima zviri nyore kurasika ndokupfuura nokuda kwe“mumwe mutsigiri wechikadzi asina kururama anoita chikadzi chisina kururama.” Imhaka chaiyoiyo nokuda kwokutya kurambwa, kutya kusakodzera muboka renzanga kana kuti kuparira hasha dzavanhu vane ndangariro dzakafanana nezuro, kuti kwakaomera vazhinji kuisa zita rokuti “revakadzi” ndokuritakura nokudada.
Chimwe nechimwe chezvikonzero izvi, chokwadi, chakanyatsoshanda, uye mukadzi wese ane kodzero yekusarudza uye kutumidza maitiro ake ekuona, kusarudza rutivi kana kuramba sarudzo iyi. Asi unoziva kuti chii chinonyanya kusekesa pazviri? Kuti kodzero iyi yekusarudza yakapiwa kwatiri pasina mumwe kunze kwevechikadzi.