Kusaziva kwedu kwakachenjera nenzira yaro: inogadzirisa "kuputsika" mupfungwa dzedu uye inobvisa "zvipembenene" zvepfungwa nenzira iyo inowanikwa nayo. Chokwadi, dzimwe nguva izvi zvinoguma nomufambiro usingagamuchiriki chose chose mumurangariro wenzanga. Semuenzaniso, mukuwedzera kuita zvepabonde.
Kune akawanda mapurogiramu pakati pevandinozivana navo. Zvichida, izvi imhaka yekuti munyika yavo mune zvakawanda zvino mune rima, rima. Ndichitaura navo, ndakawedzera kudzika zvishoma mukuseka kwavo kwakakosha, ngano nemashiripiti. Hongu, hongu, mashiripiti. Nekuti chero programmer anokuudza nyaya dzakawanda nezve mashandiro eIT - hazvina kujeka MAIKO uye hazvina kujeka NEI. Uye chero ani zvake aida kunzwisisa zvikonzero akarangwa zvakanyanya nekodhi yakakundikana kamwe chete (yakamboshanda zvakanaka).
Pachangu, aya makodhi, achishanda kana kusashanda achipesana nechero logic, anoyeuchidza zvakanyanya kusaziva kwedu. Iyo inovanzawo nheyo dzebasa kubva kwatiri, ichipa zvirongwa zvisinganzwisisike zvekuzviporesa mukudzoka, izvo isu tisingateereri kusvikira vakanganisa hupenyu hwedu.
Mumakore angu echikoro, ndaishamwaridzana nemusikana anoshamisa. Akanga akangwara uye asina njere panguva imwe chete. Aiseka zvikuru, aida kutamba: mumasangano, dominoes, lotto. Mwana akadaro ari mumuviri wemukadzi akasimbiswa. Nguruve uye masokisi, bhegi muchimiro chebheya. Aida zvechimwana, kwete zvechikadzi. Cosmetics store — «Nyika Yevana».
Mumwe we "vane hanya" vanozivana vose vakataura nezvake nenzira isingafadzi zvikuru: vanoti muboka redu revanhu vose kwakanga kusina murume mumwe chete, asingabatanidzi vakaroorana, avo vakanga vasina kuva pamubhedha wake. Handisi munyengeri. Isu tinorarama munyika yakasununguka, munhu wese anoita nehupenyu hwake sezvaanoda. Asi makuhwa aya akandishamisa: sei teddy bears uye masokisi akakwirira-mabvi anosanganiswa nechishuwo chakadaro chepabonde?
Chimwe chinhu chakaputsika mu "love etiquette protocol"
Ndakanyatsokurukura nyaya iyi nemusikana. Akanga akasununguka kukurukura dzakadaro. Akataura kuti zvakawanda, hongu, vanonyepa, pakanga paine mashoma "maitikiro" - uye zvakadaro. Kubva ipapo, ndakave munhu waaivimba naye munyaya dzerudo uye pese pandaiteerera nyaya dzekuti hukama hwake hwakakura sei. Chimwe chinhu chakaputsika mu "protocol of love etiquette".
Mumazuva iwayo, ndaipa nhare nyore nyore kune vechidiki vanofarira uye ndokutevera dhigirii rekubatanidzwa kwavo: vangandikoka here pazuva? Kufona? Nyora SMS? Kana kungoda kuva shamwari? Zvese zvaive neimwe nzira kwaari: kutanga bonde, uyezve kupenga: foni ichaitora here? Achabvunza kuti zita rake ndiani? .. Chisikwa chinoshamisa. Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, akanga asingatombotyi.
Tsanangudzo yake yakarasika mukambani inotevera, kukwira kana rwendo. Kunyange pa Facebook (sangano rinonyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia), handina kukwanisa kuiwana, kuziva kuti yakachinja sei, kwayaifamba. Mufananidzo wake wakaoneka mupfungwa dzangu pasina nguva, pane imwe lecture. Ndakaudza vadzidzi nezve kubatanidzwa kwepabonde kwevanobatwa chibharo, nezvechimiro ichocho chepabonde, chinangwa chega chekutsvaga kwekuzivikanwa, rudo.
Mumwe muzivikanwi wekare akapinda mupfungwa dzangu semuenzaniso wakakwana wezvandanga ndichitaura nezvazvo. Vabereki vake vakarambana paakanga achiri mudiki, mumwe nemumwe aine vana muhukama hutsva. Vakanga vakabatikana zvikuru noupenyu hwavo kupfuura nomwanasikana wavo mukuru, ane chimiro nomufambiro zvakavayeuchidza nezveroorano yakapfuura, isina kururama.
Aifanira kuzvimiririra, munhu mukuru. Kiyi iri pamutsipa, "idya chimwe chinhu iwe pachako." Uduku hwakadaro hazvina kuitika - ndosaka, atova munhu mukuru, aifarira zvose izvi gorofu uye pigtails.
Kuita zvepabonde kunoshingaira, kugadzirira kumhanyira mumaoko emunhu wekutanga waunosangana naye ndeyekuenderera mberi kwenyaya inosuruvarisa yehuduku uye muenzaniso wakajeka wekuti kusaziva kwemunhu kunotsvaka sei "kugadzirisa" kukuvara pasina kupa chero zviratidzo "kunze" . Kushaikwa kwerudo muhuduku kwakagadzirwa nekuita zvepabonde kunoshingaira muhuduku.
Ndinoyeuka kuti vasikana vaizevezerana sei uye vachirega mashoko anogumbura mukero yake. Uye ini ndinonyatsoziva: aingopererwa - zvakanyanya kupfuura isu tese - aida rudo. Sexual revolution, extrovert temperament uye chitarisiko chinoyevedza vakaita basa ravo. Uye shure kwezvose, hapana munhu munharaunda yake, hapana mweya mumwe chete mupenyu wakamubvunza mubvunzo wekuti nei achiita nenzira iyi. Nei achichida?
Tora mumwe munhu kuti arape musikana uyu ipapo, uye angave achipeperetswa nemhepo yakaungana melancholy.
Iye zvino, ndichiona zviitiko zvakafanana mukuita, kuverenga zvinyorwa zvesainzi uye kutaura nevadzidzi, ndinonzwisisa kuti kusurukirwa kwakadii, kusuruvara uye kurwadziwa izvo musikana aive nazvo mukati. Panguva iyoyo, kuonana nezvichemo zvisina musoro kwakanga kusingabviri. Iyo yekusaziva yakabata melancholy uye yakarwa nayo nenzira yakanaka - inogamuchirwa kubva pakuona kwekusaziva pachako, uye tsika dzemagariro dzakatorwa nesu hadzishande pazviri.
Dai mumwe munhu akachengeta musikana uyu ipapo, angadai akafuridzirwa nemhepo yakaunganidzwa. Zvirwere zvinoverengeka zvevenereal, kuridza mhere uye makuhwa kuseri kwemusana wake - kubva pakuona kwekusaziva, zvese izvi zvaive mutengo mudiki kubhadhara kune yaive neavalanche.
Nyanzvi yepfungwa inoshanda nemaitiro aya (zvirongwa) chete kana pane chikumbiro. Asi izvi zvinoitika kashoma. Kazhinji, vanhu vakadaro vanopinda mukurapa apo dhamu "rakaputsika", apo iyo inogadzirisa nzira yakakundikana. Uye zvamazvirokwazvo kwakaoma zvikuru kushanda mumamiriro ezvinhu enhamo yakadaro.
Asi kana iwe ukaita kudzivirira kana "kubata" dambudziko panguva yekutanga, pane mukana wekusunungura simba rakawanda rinoshandiswa zviri nani pamufaro uye kufara. Handizvo here?