Kusabereka: kana iri mumusoro…

Zvipingamupinyi zvepfungwa zvekubereka

Mushonga wokubereka wakaita fambiro mberi yakadaro mumakore achangobva kupfuura zvokuti munhu nenzira ine mufungo angatarisira kuderera kwokubereka. Asi izvi handizvo, maererano nezvino zvidzidzo zvehuwandu hwevanhu neINED, iyo yekutanga sterility rate (4%) haina kuchinja kwezana ramakore. Zvinotonyanya kushamisa ndezvokuti nyanzvi muLDCs dziri kuramba dzichisangana ne "enigmatic sterility". Parizvino, 1 muzviitiko zvina zvekushaya mbereko inoramba isina kutsanangurwa. Mwana anodiwa zvikuru haauye uye zvakadaro macheki ekushaya mbereko, tembiricha curves, bvunzo uye ongororo zvakajairika. Kunyara zvikuru, vanachiremba vanobva vaita kuti vaone "psychogenic sterility", zvichiratidza kuti chipingamupinyi chinodzivirira mukadzi kubva pakuva amai haisi dambudziko rehupenyu asi repfungwa. Sekureva kwavanachiremba, pfungwa dzepfungwa dzinoita basa munenge mune kushaya mbereko. Nekudaro, kune sterilities yekungobva mupfungwa chete iyo inozviratidza nezviratidzo zvakasiyana, senge ovulation disorder.

Inzwa wakagadzirira kuita mwana

Ndezvipi zvinhu zvepfungwa zvine simba rakakwana kuti rikonzere kuvharika kwehumai? Kare, kutyisidzirwa kwemwana kwaiva kwose kwose, taifanira kutamba nemoto, mwana akabva kune zvisingazivikanwi, chido chepabonde chemurume nemukadzi uye njodzi isingadzivisiki yatakanga tatora nekuita rudo. Iye zvino vakadzi vanoda mwana vanofanira kurega kunwa mapiritsi kana kuti kubviswa IUD. Nokudzivirira kubata pamuviri, mutoro wacho wakatamira kudivi romukadzi. Zvaiita serusununguko zvakashanduka kuita a mutoro wenhamo unorema kutakura. Nekuziva uye nekusaziva, mibvunzo mizhinji inomuka: uyu ndiye murume akandikodzera here? Ino ndiyo nguva yakakodzera here? Ndagadzirira here? Zvakadini kana zvikaitika zvakashata? Mhedzisiro, inovhara! Rusununguko rutsva urwu, rusingagoneki runosanganisira kuchinja munguva yesarudzo kusvika kumiganhu yengozi yekukundikana. Vakadzi nokudaro vanopinda mumusoro wedenho.

PMA haigone kugadzirisa zvese

Kubva pakaberekwa Amandine, mwana wekutanga bvunzo-chubhu, vezvenhau vave vachizivisa kubudirira kunoshamisa kwemishonga yekubereka. Tinotenda nekufambira mberi kwetekinoroji, zvese zvinogoneka, ndizvo zvatinonzwa kwese kwese. Vakadzi vanovimba nemishonga kuti vatsanangure kushaya kwavo kwevana, vanoda kutsvaga mhinduro kunze kwavo, vachivimba neruzivo rwechiremba se hypnotist. Vaine chokwadi chekugona kwese kwemushonga, vanopinda mukurapa kunorema kwazvo, kuyedzwa kwemuviri uye yepfungwa, neshungu dzekubudirira izvo zvinononoka mhedzisiro. Idenderedzwa rakashata.

Kuda mwana hakusi kuda mwana nguva dzose

Chinangwa chevanachiremba ndechokubatsira vakaroorana vakagadzirira kupa rudo kumwana kuti chido chavo chizadzike. Asi isu hatife takaziva pachine nguva chinongedzo chisingaoneki pakati pechido chakaziviswa, chekuziva, uye chishuwo chekusaziva icho icho chichaita senge chinoratidza. Hakusati kuri nemhaka yokuti mwana akarongwa, anodiwa nokuziva, kuti anodiwa. Uyewo, nemhaka yokuti mwana anouya asina kurongwa hazvirevi kuti haadiwi. Vanachiremba vanotora zvinodiwa nevakadzi sezvazviri uye vanopindura kwavari vanofuratira kuoma kwepfungwa dzevanhu. Nokubvunzurudza vamwe varwere vanokumbira kubatsirwa kubereka, tinoona kuti kubata pamuviri kwomwana uku kwakanga kusingabviri. Vanoti mwana, asi rudo rwemhuri yavo rwakakura zvekuti kuita mwana kunorambidzwa. Kamwe kamwe, mhinduro yevana gynecologists vanopa rubatsiro rwekubereka haina kukodzera ...

Zvinetso naamai vake

Vashoma vakatarisa mune izvi kushaya mbereko kusingatsananguriki yakasimbiswa kukosha kwechisungo chemurwere naamai vake chaivo. Kushaya mbereko kwega kwega kwakasiyana, asi mumatambudziko ekusununguka kusingabviri kunodzokororwa hukama hwakanyanya hwekare hwaive nemukadzi naamai vake. Pane kusazivikanwa kusingagoneki naamai vaaive navo achiri mucheche, chimwe chinhu chehurongwa uhu chingadai chakatamba zvakashata kana kusanganisa zvakaipa. Isu tinowanzowanawo ” fungidziro yekurambidza kuzvara izvo mukadzi akadaro kana akadaro anofunga kuti ndiye chinhu, nokudaro achigutsa zvishuvo zvakadzikama zvinobva kuna amai vake chaivo kuti vamuone achinyimwa vana. », Anotsanangura PMA nyanzvi François Olivennes, anoshanda naRené Frydman. “Asi chenjerai, tinotofunga kuti ndivo amai chaivo, asi ndiamai vatinavo mumusoro! Haritauri zvakananga sekuti 'Hauna kuitwa kuti uve nevana' kana kuti 'Handitombokuoni saamai! », Inofanira kutsanangurwa ...

"Tsaona dzinoshungurudza" dzehupenyu

Zvimwe zvinhu zvinodzokororwa munyaya dze "psychogenic sterility", izvi ndizvo zvakarova Dr Olivennes panguva yekubvunza kwake. Dzimwe nguva pane zviratidzo zvisina kunanga. Kune semuenzaniso uyo anouya kuzobvunza mai vake pachinzvimbo cheshamwari yake. uyo akafirwa nomwana wokutanga mumamiriro ezvinhu anosuruvarisa, uyo aiva nekukura kusina mufaro. Kana kuti uyo ana amai vakafa mukusununguka, uyo akatambura chisimba chevatano, kana kuti uyo ana amai vakarondedzera kubereka sedambudziko rinosuruvarisa iro iye akapotsa afa. Vamwe vanhu vanonzwa vaine mhosva pakubvisa nhumbu yavo. Kushaya mbereko kusingatsanangurike kwawanikwa kadikidiki kekuti murume anoda mwana kupfuura mukadzi. Mukadzi haachakwanisi kugamuchira mwana sechipo, sechipo, mamiriro ekubereka kwake anokanganiswa. Vanonzwa vatorerwa zvido zvemwana wavo. Vamwe vanhu vanotaura sechikonzero chekushaya mbereko kwepfungwa a kusaisa mari yebasa rebaba. Asi kunyora izvi "zvinokonzeresa" zvinhu, izvi psychic traumas nenzira iyi ndeye caricature nekuti hazvigone kubviswa kunze kwechirevo! Zviri kumukadzi wega wega kutsvaga nzira yake yekusimudza blockage.

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