Inverted Oedipus complex: mwanasikana wangu anoda kundiroora

Mwana ari murudo naamai vake: iyo isiri isingawanzo mafomu eOedipus

Anna, ane makore 4, anoti kuna amai vake: “Pandichange ndakura, ndichakuroora!” “. Pakati chaipo peOedipus, izwi re psychoanalytic rakagarwa kubva kumunhu mungano akauraya baba vake kuti aroore amai vake, anongoda kutora nzvimbo yababa vake. “Ichi chimiro chakamonyoroka apo mwana anodanana nomubereki wechikadzi mumwe chete hachizivikanwi zvikuru asi chinowanzoitika,” anodaro Stéphane Clerget, chiremba wepfungwa dzevana *.

Tsanangudzo uye psychoanalysis yeElectra yakaoma: Chikamu chinodiwa pakuvakwa kwayo

Universal, iyo Oedipus complex inoratidzira kutenderedza zera re 3 uye inomira kutenderedza zera re 6. "Chinhanho chakakosha, sekudzidza hunyanzvi hwemotokari kana mutauro, inobvumira kuvakwa kwesangano remanzwiro ezvisungo zvake zverudo zveramangwana," anotsanangura Dr Clerget. . Shoko iri rinobva mungano dzechiGiriki uye paunhu hwaOedipus, mambo weThebes uyo akauraya baba vake ndokurara naamai vake. Freud akabhabhatidzwa achireva ngano iyi yeAntiquity iyi psychological disorder yehudiki. Mukuwedzera, iyo Oedipus complex inonziwo Electra yakaoma kana ari musikana anozvikudza.

Inverted oedipa relationship: kuvandudzwa kwekuzivikanwa kwevakadzi

Naizvozvo kuri kupfurikidza norudo rwaanarwo nokuda kwavabereki vake apo mwana anopinzwa muchishuvo chevatano norudo. Iyi inhanho yakakosha mukukura kwemwana. Panguva iyoyo, kumubatsira kudzora mafungiro ake uye kuvhiringidzika, tichakwanisa kukurukura naye zvirambidzo zviviri zvinokosha zvevatano yevanhu: mwana haaroori nemunhu mukuru, kana nenhengo yemhuri yake. .

Uye sei ari kutarira kwandiri pachinzvimbo chababa vake? Kuvepo, kuseka kana hunhu hwemubereki ane chekuita zvinogona kukanganisa. Kuzivikanwa zvakare: kasikana kedu kakuda kuita sababa vake (kusanganisira kufadza moyo yedu) uye mukuita izvi anotamba kutevedzera vanhu vakuru vanodanana!

Dambudziko reOedipus rakadzoserwa: maitiro ekuita semubereki?

Ari kuda kutitsvoda pamuromo here? Takatarisana ne inverted Oedipus complex, tinoisa miganhu yakajeka uye tinotsanangurira kwaari kuti kutsvoda uku kwakachengeterwa vakaroorana murudo. Chinangwa: "disenchant” nyaya yacho! Kana vari baba, "haafanire kuseka, mwanasikana wake haamudi zvishoma", anovimbisa Dr. Clerget. Anoda here kana vari amai vanoverenga nyaya? Pamwe tinozvichengeta zvirinani kumupfuura… Sezvinongoita baba vari nani pakuimba rwiyo. Zviri kwaari kuwana nguva dzekuchengetedza chisungo. Uye ipapo, hapana chinotitadzisa kuti: “Apo, ndibaba kana kuti hapana!” “. Kunyange verenga nyaya yacho pamwe chete, uchitsanangura, kana akapokana, kuti tinoda kuva nemurume wedu parutivi… tobva tamurega zvishoma nezvishoma achitora.

Maitiro ekuita kune inversion yeOedipus complex: vaviri zviitiko, futi!

Kudzidzira mabasa sevakaroorana uye kuva nezvimwe zvaunofarira kunobatsirawo mwana kunzwisisa kuti hazvina kukwana kudyisa amai vake, uye kusiya iyi oedipal maternal field.

 

Kudzokera shure kweOedipus complex kunoguma pazera ripi?

Sezvakaita neOedipus complex kana Electra lambda complex, iyo inverted complex muvana inozopedzisira yasvika makore matanhatu. Chokwadi pazera iri mwana ndipo paanoona kuti kuroora baba kana mai vake hazviite.

 

* Stéphane Clerget ndiye munyori wemabhuku akati wandei anosanganisira “Vana vedu zvakare vane murume kana mukadzi, unoita sei kuti uve musikana kana mukomana? ”(Mupepeti Robert Laffont).

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