Vanhu vanogara munharaunda. Kana iwe ukasafunga nezve hermits uye vafambisi vezvikepe vakasurukirwa, kazhinji munhu akakomberedzwa neshamwari, hama, vaunoshanda navo, uye vanongopfuura-nenzira. Munguva dzekunyanya kuneta, tinorota tiri toga takanyarara, asi patinongoparadzana nevatinoda, tinoshuva kusurukirwa. Nei tichizvikomberedza nevanhu?
Vanhu vazhinji vanoziva chirevo chinodiwa nevarapi varipo: "Munhu anozvarwa ari ega uye ega anofa." Sezviri pachena, uchifunga nezvazvo, unofanirwa kunzwa wakasurukirwa, wakavharwa muunhu hwako uye uine mutoro. Asi kana iwe uchinyatsofunga nezvazvo, iwe unofanirwa kutaura wakatendeseka kuti ichi chinhu chisina chekuita neicho chaicho.
Kunyange asati aberekwa, munhu anogara mudumbu raamai mumubatanidzwa wakaoma kunzwisisa negadziriro dzawo dzose. Uye amai vake panguva imwe chete vanogara munzanga. Panguva yekusununguka, vananyamukuta, chiremba, uye dzimwe nguva hama dziripo. Zvakare, munhu anofira muchipatara kana kumba, asi anenge nguva dzose pakati pevanhu, kunze kwezviitiko zvisingawanzoitiki.
Mukati meupenyu, kusurukirwa kunowedzerawo fungidziro kupfuura chinhu chaichoicho. Uyezve, kana tikazvibvunza mubvunzo unokosha panogumira “ini” wangu uye panotangira vamwe, hatizokwanisi kuupindura. Mumwe nemumwe wedu akarukwa kuita network yakaoma yemuviri, inovaka muviri, yehupfumi, yemagariro, yepfungwa uye akasiyana mamwe marudzi ehukama.
Uropi hwedu hunongoratidzika kunge inhengo yemuviri, kutaura zvazviri, yakaoma, inogara ichidzidza ruzivo rwehurongwa. Iyo ine yakawanda tsika uye magariro kupfuura biology uye physiology. Uyezve, kurwadziwa kwenzvimbo yemunhu mumagariro evanhu kana kusawirirana muhukama hwepedyo kwakasimba sekurwadziwa kwemuviri kunobatanidza nekusagadzikana kwemuviri.
Uye kukurudzira kwedu kwakasimba kutevedzera. Ngatitarisei mienzaniso miviri. Chikwangwani chesango rematombo, chaiti gore rapfuura matani 5 ezvicherwa zvakatorwa munzvimbo iyi inochengeterwa zvinhu, zvakangokurudzira vashanyi kuti vatore zvakatowanda: “Pamusoro pazvo, vanozviita!”
Kuedza kwakaitwa: vagari veimwe dunhu vakabvunzwa pachena kuti chii chaizoita kuti vashandise magetsi nokungwarira: kutarisira mhoteredzo, kuchengetedza mari yavo, kana kuziva kuti vavakidzani vavo vari kuita izvi. Mhinduro dzacho dzakanga dzakasiyana, asi vavakidzani vakauya panzvimbo yekupedzisira.
Ipapo, mapepa akatumirwa kumunhu wose ane chikumbiro chekuchengetedza magetsi, uye chimwe nechimwe chezvikonzero zvitatu chakaratidzirwa. Uye iwe unofunga kuti chii chakaitika mushure mekunge tayera mashandisirwo emagetsi chaiwo? Ndizvozvo, avo vane vavakidzani vanofungidzirwa kuti vakaitarisira vakahwina nemukana wakakura.
Zvinokosha chaizvo kuti tive sevamwe vanhu vose. Ichi ndicho chikonzero nei vazhinji vanotendeukira kukurapa kwepfungwa pavanonzwa kuti vari kudonha pamufananidzo unogamuchirwa wemaitiro evamwe. Uye kazhinji, kazhinji vanouya kuzogadzirisa matambudziko ehukama. “Handikwanise kuvaka hukama” ndicho chikumbiro chinowanzoitwa nevanhukadzi. Uye varume vanowanzobatwa nechinetso mukusarudza pakati peukama hwekare neutsva.
Zvinongoratidzika kwatiri kuti tiri kuzvichengeta - kazhinji isu tiri kutarisira nzvimbo yedu muhurongwa. Mumwe muenzaniso wepesvedzero yemhoteredzo pamufambiro wedu. Kuongororwa kwehuwandu hwemashoko kwakaratidza kuti kubudirira kwechinangwa chedu chekurega kusvuta kunobva zvakananga kwete chete kana shamwari dzichirega kusvuta, zvinotokonzerwa neshamwari dzeshamwari dzatisingazivi nezvadzo.