Nyamavhuvhu. Husiku. Panel imba yekuvaka. Musikana anomira pavharanda pasi pedenga achiputa. Ndiri pasi, pamukova, ndakatarisa kumusoro uye ndichinyemwerera. Nechimwe chikonzero ndine tochi muhomwe yangu. Ndinoibatidza, ndinonyora nemavara akareruka mumhepo dema: «Ndinokuda.» Kupfimbana hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana, kugona kududzira uye kuverenga zvikwangwani, izvo nhasi zvinosanganisirawo kuziva mataurirwo eemoticons, mameseji eSMS uye kumbomira kutaura. Chii chinoshanduka pakutanga kwehukama?
Shamwari dzangu zhinji dzinotenda kuti kutaurirana kuri kuenda kuWebhu.
“Aiwanzotsvaka misangano chaiyoiyo, akagura foni yake yokumba, akasangana naamai vake! Kuramba kugumbuka kunokonzerwa nechiito "kubva kuseri kwegwenzi" nenzira yesocial network ... "- anodaro Yulia ane makore makumi maviri nematanhatu.
Dmitry ane makore 35 anoti, “Social network, kusununguka panyaya dzepabonde zvaita basa razvo. "Pamusoro pezvo, kune nharaunda dzakawanda dzezvido (zvepabonde)."
Zvichida nekuda kwekusununguka kwekubatana uye kunyengera kwechisarudzo, hukama hunopera: vanokurumidza kuenda kune zvepabonde uye kupera nokukurumidza.
“Yaimbononoka uye ichinyanya kudanana,” anodaro Nastya ane makore 34 okukura, “iye zvino zvave kuita semusika: takasangana, takazvifarira uye takabva tafonera kumba. Kare, vakapa maruva, iye zvino vanoedza kusapa chero chinhu, nokuti kune vasikana vakawanda vanobvumirana pane imwe nguva.
Maererano nezvakataurwa naNatalya ane makore 42, “kufambidzana nomumwe munhu kwemwedzi mitanhatu tisati tarara hazvina musoro, zvinotonakidza.”
Muzvese zvine chekuita nekupfimbana, tinoona zvakanangana nemhedzisiro, kwete maitiro. “Varume vanokurumidza kuratidza kuti vanoda kudanana nomumwe munhu uye vanozvibata zvakakodzera,” anodaro Olga ane makore 29 okukura. "Kare, vaigona kukwikwidza pasina chokwadi kwemakore uye kuita hurukuro dzisina musoro."
Kune vamwe, kutumira mufananidzo wepedyo kwakafanana nekupa bhokisi rechokoti, chipo chisingaoneki, chiratidzo chekucherechedza.
Imwe nyaya yakaparadzana ndeyekufambidzana maapplication. Ikoko, kutaurirana nemisangano zvinoiswa parukova. "Iwe unonzwa sechigadzirwa chaunosarudza uye unozvisarudzira, - anodaro Svetlana ane makore 32. "Panenge pasina nzvimbo yekupfimbana."
MaSmartphones akapinda mukati metirauzi uye masiketi, kutumira mapikicha epedyo ndiyo yave tsika. “Majee majee, asi foni yangu inoita seinochengeta migumo yose yenyika,” anobvuma kudaro Tanya ane makore 28 okukura. "Kune vamwe, kutumira pikicha yepedyo kwakafanana nekupa bhokisi remachokoreti, chipo chisingaoneki, chiratidzo chekuteerera."
Gender roles ari kuchinja, vakadzi vari kutungamirira. Svetlana ane makore 32 anoti, “Iye zvino mukadzi anogona kufona kune imwe nzvimbo obhadhara mari yacho nokuti anoda kudaro. Kuna Maria ane makore 26, zvinhu zvose zvinoenderana nesimba rekukwezva: “Ini ndinosarudza, kwete ini. Kusarudza, ndinonyengedza, kana chinhu chacho chisina kunyengerwa, ndinoshandura kune vamwe.
“Mukati menguva yokupfimbana, vose havasati vava nechokwadi pamusoro pomumwe nomumwe, asi mumwe nomumwe ari kuedza kukunda mumwe,” akanyora kudaro nyanzvi yendangariro Erich Fromm. - Zvose zvakazara nehupenyu, zvinokwezva, zvinonakidza, kunyange zvakanaka - mufaro wehupenyu unogara uchiita chiso chakanaka. Ose ari maviri haasati awana mumwe; saka, simba reumwe neumwe wavo rinonangwa pakuva, ndiko kuti, kupa kune mumwe uye kumukurudzira.1.
Kupfimbana kunoguma pakuwanana kana kuenderera mberi nerudo. Tochi yava munharembozha yese. Zvakanaka kwazvo.
1 E. Fromm "Kuva kana kuva" (Neoclassic, 2015).