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Shamwari yekufungidzira, mufambidzani wekukura
Clémentine paanogara patafura, anogadzika chigaro chaLilo. Chigaro chinoramba chisina chinhu? Zvakajairika: Clémentine chete ndiye anogona kuona Lilo, vakuru havagone. Lilo ishamwari yake yekufungidzira. |
"Apo mwana ane makore mana kana mashanu okuberekwa akagadzira shamwari yekufungidzira, anoratidza unyanzvi: hazvinetsi zvachose", anovimbisa Andrée Sodjinou, chiremba wepfungwa. Shamwari yekufungidzira ishamwari iyo inoitsigira mukukura kwayo, alter ego uyo mwana anogona kugadzirira matambudziko aasingagoni kugadzirisa ari oga. Mwana ane hukama hunokosha naye, sezvaanogona nechidhori chake kana teddy bear yake, kunze kweiyo shamwari yekufungidzira ishamwari, waanogona naizvozvo kuti kutya kwake amene, mirangariro yake amene. Shamwari iyi zvakanyanya mupfungwa : hapana nyaya yekumuitira hutsinye, nyangwe dzimwe nguva achikusvota. Kunenge kutyora chinhu chakabatirirwa nemwana.
Waunotamba naye uye waunovimba naye
Tora nhanho kumashure. Mumitambo yake yese, mwana wako ndiye achitungamirirwa nemafungiro ake. Ko gumbeze rake rinomunyaradza harisi mufambidzani chaiye here? Ungamuyeuchidza apo neapo kuti shamwari yake “haisi yechokwadi,” asi usaedza kumupwisa. Igakava risina maturo. Mwana wezera iri haanyatsosiyanisa pakati pechokwadi nechokufungidzira, uye zvakadaro, muganhu uyu hauna zvachose kukosha kwekufananidzira kwakafanana kwatiri isu vakuru. Kumwana, kunyange kana asipo nokuda kwe“chaiye”, aripo mumwoyo make, muchadenga chake, uye ndicho chinhu chinokosha.
“Shamwari” inomubatsira kukura
Kana mwana wako akakukurudzira kuti ubatanidze mumutambo, tevera pfungwa dzako uye chido chako. Zvingave zvinonakidza kutaura naLilo uyu, asi kana zvichikunetsa, ramba. Mufambidzani wekufungidzira haafaniri kubvunza mitemo yehupenyu hwemhuri, iyo mararamiro zvemwana. Kana ikava kunyara, kumanikidza, izvo zvinounza dambudziko. Tanga nekutaura nezvazvo neloulou yako, kuti uone kuti anoona sei zvinhu. Asi anogona chete kukupa zvikonzero izvo panosvika mwana. “Shamwari yokufungidzira inotora nguva yakawandisa inouya kuzotaura pamusoro pechinetso chisingagoni kutaurwa, asi chinotora nzvimbo yakawandisa muupenyu hwomwana,” anotsanangura kudaro Andrée Sodjinou.
Kana shamwari iyi ikava tsime remakakatanwa, bvunza kashoma kuti uwane mazano. Kutanga, enda kunoonana nevanhu vakuru: “Chinetso chomwana chinowanzova nechokuita negrey nzvimbo dzavabereki,” anoyeuka kudaro nyanzvi yendangariro. Zvimwe unogona kuwana zvinoda kutaurwa kana kuitwa so that the situation returns to normal. Mufambidzani wekufungidzira aripo batsira mwana kukura, kwete zvakasiyana.