"Urombo hunogarwa nhaka": ichokwadi here?

Vana vanodzokorora script yehupenyu hwevabereki vavo. Kana mhuri yako isina kugara zvakanaka, saka sezvingabvira iwe ucharamba uri mumhoteredzo imwe cheteyo yenzanga, uye kuedza kubuda mairi kuchasangana nokusanzwisisana uye kushorwa. Iwe zvechokwadi wakatongerwa hurombo hwenhaka uye zvinogoneka kutyora iyi mamiriro?

Pakati pezana ramakore rechiXNUMX, muAmerican anthropologist Oscar Lewis akaunza pfungwa ye "tsika yehurombo". Akataura kuti zvikamu zvakaderera zvehuwandu hwevanhu, mumamiriro ezvinhu ekushaiwa kukuru, zvinokudziridza maonero enyika anokosha, ayo anopfuudza kuvana. Somugumisiro, denderedzwa rakashata rehurombo rinoumbwa, kubva kune iro rinova rakaoma kubuda.

“Vana vanotarisira kuvabereki vavo. Vanhu vane mari shoma vakagadzira maitiro, uye vana vanoatevedzera, "anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Pavel Volzhenkov. Maererano naye, mumhuri dzine urombo kune mafungiro epfungwa anodzivisa chido chekutungamira mararamiro akasiyana.

ZVINOTARISA KUBUDA MUHUMBOMBO

1. Kunzwa usina tariro. “Zvinoita here kurarama neimwe nzira? Mushure mezvose, zvisinei kuti chii chandinoita, ndicharamba ndiri murombo, zvakaitika muupenyu, - Pavel Volzhenkov anotsanangura kufunga kwakadaro. "Murume akatokanda mapfumo pasi, akazvijaira kubva achiri mudiki."

“Vabereki vaigarotaura kuti hatina mari, uye haugone kuwana yakawanda nehunyanzvi. Ndave ndiri mumamiriro ezvinhu anodzvinyirirwa kwenguva yakareba pakati pevanhu vasingazvitendi kuti handina simba, "anodaro mudzidzi ane makore 26 Andrei Kotanov.

2. Kutya kukakavara nemhoteredzo. Munhu akakurira muurombo, kubva paudiki, ane pfungwa yezvakatipoteredza seyakajairika uye yakasikwa. Ajaira mhoteredzo isina anoedza kubuda mudenderedzwa iri. Anotya kuve akasiyana nehama neshamwari uye haabatike mukuzvisimudzira, Pavel Volzhenkov anoti.

“Vanhu vakatadza kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvavo vanoburitsa kusagutsikana kwavo pavakomana vanoda chinzvimbo. Ini handina kuwana muhoro weanopfuura zviuru makumi maviri neshanu rubles pamwedzi, ndinoda zvakawanda, ndinonzwisisa kuti ndinokodzera uye hunyanzvi hwangu hunobvumira, asi ndinotya zvakanyanya, "anoenderera mberi Andrey.

KO MARI INOPIWA NEVAROMBO

Sokutsanangura kunoita nyanzvi yepfungwa, vanhu vane mari shoma vanowanzova nemafungiro asina musoro, asina musoro kumari. Saka, munhu anogona kuzviramba zvinhu zvose kwenguva yakareba, uye obva asununguka uye oshandisa mari pamafaro echinguvana. Kudzidza kwemari shoma kunowanzo kutungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti anopinda muzvikwereti, anorarama kubva pazuva rekubhadhara kusvika kubhadharo.

“Ndinogarochengeta mari yangu uye handizive kuti ndoita sei nemari kana vakaonekwa. Ndinoedza kuvashandisa nekuchenjerera sezvinobvira, asi pakupedzisira ndinopedza zvese muzuva rimwe chete, "Andrey anogovera.

Kuwana uye kuchengetedza mari, kunyangwe mumamiriro ezvinhu akamanikana, kunobatsira kudzikama uye kuteerera

Injiniya ane makore 30 okukura Sergei Alexandrov anobvuma kuti zvakanga zvakamuomera kuti ave nounyanzvi hwokuita mari, sezvo pasina munhu mumhuri yake aifunga nezveramangwana. “Kana vabereki vaine mari, vaishingirira kushandisa mari iyi nekukurumidza. Takanga tisina mari yatakachengeta, uye kwemakore ekutanga ehupenyu hwangu hwekuzvimiririra, handina kana kumbofungira kuti zvaigoneka kuronga bhajeti,” anodaro.

“Kuwana mari haikwane, zvakakosha kuti uichengete. Kana munhu akavandudza hunhu hwake, shasha basa idzva, awana basa rinobhadhara zvakanyanya, asi asingadzidze kubata mari nemazvo, achashandisa mari yakawanda sepakutanga, "anoyambira Pavel Volzhenkov.

KUBUDA PAMUSORO POVERITABLE POVERTY SCENARIO

Maererano nenyanzvi, kugadzikana uye kunyatsoteerera kunobatsira kuwana uye kuchengetedza mari, kunyange mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvikuru. Hunhu uhu hunofanirwa kuvandudzwa, uye heano matanho ekutora:

  • Tanga kuronga. Nyanzvi yepfungwa inopa zano kumisa zvinangwa nerimwe zuva, uyezve kugadzirisa izvo zvakazoitika uye izvo zvisina. Nokudaro kuronga kunova nzira yokukudziridza kuzvidzora.
  • Ita kuzviongorora. “Unofanira kugadzirisa dambudziko rako nokutendeseka paunoshandisa mari,” anokurudzira kudaro. Ipapo iwe unofanirwa kuzvibvunza mibvunzo: "Sei ndiri kurasikirwa nekuzvidzora?", "Ndeupi nhevedzano yemafungiro inondipa ini?". Kubva pakuongorora uku, iwe uchaona kuti ndeupi muenzaniso unotungamirira kuhurombo mune maitiro ako.
  • Kuita ongororo. Nokubvuma dambudziko, unogona kuchinja maitiro ekuita. "Kuedza haisi nzira inotyisa yekuita zvinhu zvakasiyana. Iwe hausi kubva watanga kurarama nenzira itsva uye unogona kugara uchidzokera kune yekare maitiro ekuita. Zvisinei, kana iwe uchida mugumisiro, unogona kuishandisa zvakare uye zvakare, "anodaro Pavel Volzhenkov.
  • Enjoy. Kuita uye kuchengetedza mari kunofanira kuva mabasa ekuzvimirira anounza mufaro. “Ndinoda kuita mari. Zvose zvinoshanda kwandiri", "Ndinoda kuchengetedza mari, ndinofarira chokwadi chokuti ndinoteerera mari, uye somugumisiro hupenyu hwangu hunokura," nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inonyora maitiro akadaro.

Izvo zvinodikanwa kuisa parutivi mari kwete yekutenga chigadzirwa chinodhura kana sevhisi, asi yekuumbwa kwekuchengetedza kwakagadzikana. Iyo airbag ichakubvumidza iwe kuti utore sarudzo zvine chekuita neramangwana uye kuwedzera mahorizons ako.

Manzwiro ekushaya tariro achakurumidza kupfuura ari oga, kana munhu achangotanga kukudziridza tsika dzakanaka.

“Handina kuchinja maonero andaiita mari nemusi iwoyo. Kutanga, akagovera zvikwereti kushamwari dzake, ipapo akatanga kuchengeta mari shomanene zvikuru, uye ipapo mufaro wakashanduka. Ndakadzidza kuronda kuti mihoro yangu inoenda kupi, kuderedza ndyiko dzokukurumidza. Mukuwedzera, ndakakurudzirwa nekusada kurarama nenzira imwechete nevabereki vangu, "anowedzera Sergey.

Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inokurudzira kushanda pakushandura nzvimbo dzose dzehupenyu. Saka, maitiro ezuva nezuva, dzidzo yemuviri, kudya kune utano, kurega tsika dzakaipa, kusimudza tsika dzetsika kuchaita kuti kukudziridze kuzvidzora uye kuvandudza mararamiro ehupenyu. Panguva imwecheteyo, zvakakosha kuti urege kuzvidzora nekugadzikana, yeuka kuzorora.

“Manzwiro okusava netariro achakurumidza kupera ari oga, munhu paanongotanga kuva netsika dzakanaka. Haarwisani nemafungiro emamiriro ake ezvinhu, haapesani nemhuri yake uye haaedzi kuvanyengetedza. Pane kudaro, ari kuita kuzvidzora, "anopedzisa Pavel Volzhenkov.

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