Muchikamu chino, tichatarisa psychology yemhando dzakasiyana dzevarume muhukama. Imwe neimwe ine zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira. Vamwe vakakodzera kudanana kwenguva pfupi, vamwe kugadzira mhuri, mumwe munhu anokwanisa kupa zvisingakanganwiki manzwiro akanaka, asi mushure mevamwe iwe uchafanirwa kubhadhara mari yakawanda kune psychotherapist kuti udzorere hutano hwako hwepfungwa.
Kuti urege kukanganisa padanho rekutanga, ini ndinokurudzira kuti uzvizive neiyo huru typology yevarume uye uone kuti ndiani waunoda kuva naye uye wausingafaniri kana kukanganisa naye.
Varume kuti vatize
Psychology inosimbisa hunhu hwemamwe psychotypes evarume, umo chero kudyidzana navo kunotungamira kune inosiririsa yemukadzi. Varume ava vanosanganisira:
- Narcissistic narcissist anopinda muhukama nevakadzi chete kuratidza kukosha kwake uye kusarudzika. Muhukama uhwu, mukadzi anogara achipihwa nzvimbo yechipiri inokudzwa, iyo nekufamba kwenguva inogona kushanduka kuita basa remuranda. Pamusoro pekushaikwa kwemaitiro akakodzera kune mukadzi uye nguva yakanaka yekupfimbana, munhu akadaro anogona kuwedzera kuzviremekedza kwake nekumunyadzisa nekumutuka.
- Nguva dzose yakabatikana. Munhu akadaro anogona kushandura hupenyu hwemusikana kuita ngano pamisangano, nguva dziri pakati padzo dzinogona kukwevera kwenguva isingaperi. Murume akadaro anozonyangarika uye aonekwe kana zvakamunakira, zvisinei nekuti mumwe wake anoda kutariswa kana rubatsiro chairwo. Zvinogoneka zvikuru kuti pamwe chete ane mamwe mabhuku akati wandei kana mhuri yese, iyo inotsanangura maitiro ake ane hanya kune zviitiko zvemweya zvemukadzi. Chiyero chepamusoro chekunzwa muvarume chinowanikwa kubva kune imwe nguva yakawanda inoshandiswa nevakomana vakasiyana.
- Mudzvanyiriri (mukuratidzwa kwemuviri kana tsika). Haazozvipi iye pakarepo, asi anogona kuzivikanwa nekukashama uye kwakaipa wongororo pamusoro pechido chekare, hukama nevamwe. Mumatanho ekutanga, anoshandura hupenyu hwemukadzi kuita ngano uye kumanikidza zviitiko. Zvose izvi zvinoitwa kuitira kuti uwane simba guru. Mabusers uye gaslighters vanoshanda nenzira iyi chaiyo. Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kubuda muukama hwakadaro.
- Baba vemhuri kana murume akaroora. Pasinei nokuti anovimbisa sei kuti hapana manzwiro anomubatanidza nomudzimai wake, munhu akadaro haakwanisiwo kuva mumiriri akakodzera wokuvaka ukama hwakakwana. Uyu munhu anotanga kugadzirirwa nhema, kudzivisa mutoro, anoisa mudiwa mutsva panzvimbo yechipiri, kwete kunyanya kunetseka pamusoro pezvakaitika kwaari. Zvechokwadi, vamwe vakadzi vanogara muukama hwakadaro kwemakore, izvo zvinotungamirira kukuputsika kwete chete manzwiro, asiwo hutano hwepanyama.
Kukurukurirana nevanhu vakadaro kunogona kuchengetedzwa chete mune hushamwari kana kushanda.
Mhando dzevarume vanogona kupa manzwiro anoshamisa
Kune akati wandei evarume vanopengeswa nevasikana. Nekunzwisisa kwakarurama kwezvinangwa zvavo, vanogona kunakidzwa norudo runofadza. Iyi psychology yevarume inosanganisira:
- Knights nevarume, vanoshamisika netsika dzavo uye gallantry, kukwanisa kuuya kuzonunura chero nguva yezuva uye nematambudziko. Zvinhu zvakadai zvinowanzooma kutevedzera kwenguva yakareba, saka nemunhu uyu mukadzi achagara achinzwa semusikana muduku. Matambudziko anozotanga gare gare, apo knight inova simbe, nekuti anoita zvega mumamiriro akanyanya, uye munyoro haakwanise kuratidza hutsinye simba, mumamiriro ezvinhu apo musikana anoda kuchengetedzwa.
- The hero of a holiday romance. Achagara achipenya, sezvo achikwanisa kupa akawanda mazwi akanaka uye kugadzira manzwiro erudo rusingaperi. Chinhu chikuru chinodiwa hachisi chekufungidzira nezvemuchato weramangwana naye uye chero kuenderera kwakakomba kwehukama. Kana iwe ukatevera musimboti weGestaltists uye uri panguva yazvino, saka muhukama hwakadaro iwe unogona kuwana yakakura sosi uye kurudziro.
- Mucheche murume, mukana kana sisi. Mhando yakadaro inogona kunge iri godsend kumukadzi ane simba anoziva nzira yekushandura hukama munzira yaanoda. Unogona kuroora munhu akadaro zviri nyore uye zvakavimbika kana kumushandisa sechigumbuso - kureva kuita chero chinhu. Mumwe anofanirwa kungonzwisisa kuti panogona kugara paine mutungamiriri akasimba, kana kukosha kwaamai kuchave kwakakura zvekuti haagone kukundwa.
- Murume akapererwa achitsvaga mukadzi wake munzira dzese. Kune rumwe rutivi, anokwezvwa nekukomba kwezvinangwa zvake, asi iwe unofanirwa kuve wakagadzirira nekuti kudzidza kweakasiyana-siyana kushungurudza kwepfungwa, kuoma uye kusachengeteka kuchawira pamapfudzi emukadzi. Kazhinji pakati pemhando iyi pane avo vanongoita rombo rakanaka muhupenyu, asi ivo vanhu vakanaka.
Kurongeka kunogona kuenderera mberi nekuwedzera, asi murume wega wega anosanganisa zvese zvakanakira uye zvisingabatsiri. Chii cheizvi mukadzi achabvuma kushivirira, zvaanofunga kuti zvakanakisisa, uye zvisingagamuchirwi - zvinoenderana neunhu hwake.
mhedziso
Ngwarira nesarudzo dzako! Verenga zvinyorwa zvedu zvinobatsira uye mazano. Semuenzaniso, tinokurudzira kuverenga chinyorwa pamusoro pekushungurudzwa muhukama.
Kusvikira nguva inotevera, shamwari!
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