Muchirevo cheBDSM zvepabonde, kurwadziwa ndicho chinhu chakakosha chekuwana mafaro. Husungwa, zvikwapuro uye kurohwa, nzira dziripo kune vanodyidzana dzakawanda. Nzira yekudzidzira sei sadomasochism pasina njodzi? Ko sadomasochist inoda kuve nekurwadziwa kuti inakirwe? Updates panyaya iyi ine makakatanwa yekuita zvepabonde.

Sadomasochism hairevi hazvo kuita zvepabonde. Pakutanga, ine chokuita neunhu hwevanhu. Sadism inosanganisira kunakidzwa nekukuvadza, pamwero wepanyama kana wepfungwa: sadist anotora mufaro - zvepabonde kana kwete - mukuita kuti wechitatu atambure uye pakumuona achinzwa kurwadziwa. Nepo kusuruvara, masochism inosanganisira chikamu chayo mukurwadziwa kwerudo: masochist anotsvaga kuzviona achirwadziwa nemuviri. Sadomasochism mhedzisiro yekuuya pamwechete kwemunhu ane hutsinye uye munhu wemasochist, uye zvakajairika zvinoreva hukama hweanotonga kune anotonga.

Kana sadomasochism inoratidzwa mumamiriro ezvepabonde, kunyadziswa, kutonga uye kuzviisa pasi zvinoshandiswa sevectors yekunakidzwa kwemuviri: vanobatana vanosvika pakunzwa nekunzwa kurwadziwa. 

Kutuka nemashoko uye kurova

Kukonzera marwadzo, vadikani vanoshandisa nzira dzakasiyana-siyana. Matambudziko anoitwa anogona kunge ari epfungwa kana emuviri: kutukwa uye mirairo iri muchirevo chechinyorwa ichi inoshanda sekurohwa kana kurohwa.

Ko sadomasochism inofanira kutungamirira kumarwadzo?

Yakareba ichionekwa sechinhu chisina kujairika uye chakashata chiitiko chepabonde, sadomasochism pakutanga inotarisa marwadzo. Nekuita democratizing, iyi fomu yekusununguka kwepabonde inova yakapfava: chete hukama hwekutonga hunoramba huri chinhu chakakosha. Kana iyo sadomasochist isingaite kuti iite kana kunzwa kutambura kwemuviri, anoisa kana kuendeswa kune kusaenzana kwesimba.

Bonde rakapfava BDSM, zvinoita here?

Iyo yakasimbiswa sadomasochist maitiro mune yakanyatso hurongwa: vadikani vanova tenzi uye muranda, uye vanoshandisa zvishongedzo izvo zvinosiya pasina mubvunzo nezvechinangwa chavo. Handcuffs, swifts, cheni, kutasva zvirimwa, masikisi uye zvinhu zvinopinzwa mumakomba eanotonga, mamiriro ezvinhu anonzi akaoma. Nekudaro, mamwe maitiro esadomasochism anogona kuwanikwa kuitira kusiyanisa mafaro: husungwa, hunoitwa zvinyoro, hunogona kuunza kunakidzwa mumamiriro ekuzviisa semuenzaniso. Saizvozvowo, kuita bonde wakavhara maziso kwakafanana netsika yekusadomasochistic yekuti mudiwa mumwe chete ndiye anotungamira kutamba, asi hazvireve hazvo zvine chirevo chakatsauka. 

Sezvakaita nefitishist, zvakajairika kushamisika nezve hupombwe hwesadomasochist. Ko iyi tsika imhando yekuedza ingangove yekuwana chimiro chitsva chekunakidzwa here kana kuti kurwadziwa kunodiwa zvachose kuti sadomasochist anzwe kufara? Muchokwadi, zvese zvinoenderana nemaonero ayo vanobatana vanoita sadomasochism vanozviwana ivo.

Dzimwe nguva, SM yakapfava inogona kuve nzira yekunakisa hunhu hwemunhu sevakaroora. Kana vadikani vachidzidzira sadomasochism chete, kune rumwe rutivi, hauchisiri mutambo unonyadzisa asi nzira yekuratidza bonde revakaroorana. Kusvika padanho iri, vamwe vanhu vanokundikana kuparadzanisa kufara kwepabonde nemarwadzo. 

Zvinechekuita nekurwadziwa, sadomasochism inofanira kubatwa nekungwarira. Kurwadziwa kwakanyanya kunogona kuve bhureki pakunakidzwa kwepabonde, uye pamusoro pazvo, njodzi dziripo maererano nehutano hwevanoda. Kusvika padanho iri, zvakakosha kuti hukama hwesadomasochistic hwakanyatso kuumbwa. Vamwe vakaroorana vanoshandisa imwe nzira yekutaura, iyo yakambotaurwa nemudiwa ane simba inogumisa hukama hwepabonde kuti vadzivise kurwadziwa kusingatsungiririki.

Cherechedza: mvumo yevaviri vevaviri ava chinhu chakakosha chinodiwa. Zvikasadaro, sadomasochism inodzvinyirirwa nemutemo wemhosva.