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Ichi chinyorwa chakabudiswa muN 19/2000 yevhiki nevhiki "School Psychologist" yeimba yekudhinda "First of September". Kodzero dzese dzechinyorwa chino ndedzemunyori nemutsikisi.

Nyaya yakarongwa inopfupikisa chiitiko chemusangano we "The Practice of Conducting Groups of Social and Psychological Training", iyo iri kuitwa kwegore rechipiri paCentre for Humanitarian Research "Amber" muUfa. Mukupedzisira, December chinyorwa che "School Psychologist" (ona No. 48, 1999), ndakaverenga kuongorora kunofadza kwebhuku raNI Kozlov «Formula of Personality». Zvaiita kwandiri kuti vakaratidza tsika yekuziva yakakurumbira (mupfungwa dzakasiyana dzeshoko) mabhuku aNI Kozlov ane basa rezuva nezuva pachirongwa cheSynton. Uye ichi hachisi chokwadi zvachose. Sekuziva kwangu, izvi hazvienderane kunyangwe neNI Kozlov. Mukuita, anonyanya kungwarira uye kuyerwa kupfuura mubasa rekunyora.

Ndichishanda mumakore manomwe apfuura pazvirongwa zvakasiyana-siyana zvekudzidzisa, kusanganisira chirongwa cheSynton, tichikurukura nevatungamiri, nevamwe vaongorori vepfungwa muguta redu uye munyika yose (netsamba), ndinogona kupupura kuti chokwadi kudzidziswa kwaSynton (izvo, ne nzira, usazviti kururamisa kana basa rekurapa) rinova rinobatsira, rakabudirira uye rinowanikwa nyore kushandiswa.

Ini ndinopa zvinhu (ine tsananguro yakadzama yemaitiro uye mienzaniso), umo "yakasununguka yakasununguka" (mazwi evaanoshanda navo vanoshandisawo nzira dzeSyntonian uye vandakatumira chinyorwa kuti chiongororwe-kururamiswa) inotsanangura mamiriro chaiwo ezvinhu. Zvichida nenzira iyi tichasimbisa vazhinji uye tokwevera kutarisa kwevanodzidza nezvepfungwa kune zvakakosha zvebasa reSinton makirabhu.

ZVINODIWA Kujekeswa

Taura nezve izvo Sinton chii (uye izvo Synton zvisiri) zvave zvichiitika kwenguva yakareba. Mukuona kwangu, pane mibvunzo miviri pano: chii chinonzi Sinton nhasi uye chichava chii. Nenzira, mubvunzo wechipiri hauna kufanana nemubvunzo wekuti "chii chatinoda kuona Sinton mune ramangwana?" Kudzidzira nguva dzose kunokunda dzidziso, handizvo here?

Imwe neimwe yemibvunzo iyi ine mwero wayo. Nhasi Sinton ndeye:

- zvirongwa zvemasemina uye kudzidziswa, kusanganisira iyo Synton chirongwa;

- inotungamira kudzidziswa uye makosi;

- vanhu vanoenda kunodzidziswa;

- hurongwa hwesangano renzvimbo;

- iri kubuda (makore gumi nemashanu haisati yave nguva) kutungamira muboka, zvakanyanya - inoshanda psychology.

Ini ndinoda kudaidza zvese izvi pamwe chete Synthon tekinoroji, nekuti mubvunzo mukuru, mumaonero angu, ndewekuti Synthon inoshanda sei uye kuti ingaite sei kuti ishande zvirinani.

SYNTON NHASI

Kune akati wandei akasiyana eiyo Synthon chirongwa. Chekutanga, iyo yekare seti (kubva ku "Contact Group" kuenda ku "Sexology"), iyo, ini ndiri chapupu, inoramba yakasimba uye inoshanda sarudzo. Chechipiri, "Practical psychology yemazuva ese" naDmitry Ustinov. Chechitatu, sarudzo yaimbonzi "Synthon-95" - kubva "Difficult Games" kusvika "Personal Life". Chechina, "Synthon-98", iyo inosiyana kubva kune yakasara kwete chete muzita uye marongero ezviitwa, asiwo muzvikamu zvehunhu hwemunhu.

Varatidziri veNovice vanoburitsa chirongwa chakanyanya (mune shanduro dzekupedzisira dzeSinton, zvakawanda zvinoenderana nechinzvimbo chemunhu, ruzivo uye kudzika kwemunhu Kozlov pachake, uye izvi hazvisisiri kutepfenyurwa 100%). Vatungamiri vakasimba uye vane ruzivo rwakanyanya (uye iniwo) ndinomhanyisa chirongwa ichi "chavo" kuitira kuti chiite senge uye chishande nesimba uye nemoyo wese.

Nenzira iyi,

Iyo synthon chirongwa chaicho chiripo mushanduro nhatu: mune iyo inotungamirwa naNikolai Ivanovich; mune izvo zvinogona kunzi kopi (kutanga kutevedzera, uye izvi hazvina kuipa - kutanga unoda seizvi); mune izvo varatidziri vane ruzivo vanoita zvechirongwa cheSynthon.

Zvose izvi ndizvo

Chirongwa che synton, sezvo ichichengeta izvo zvakakosha uye zvakajairwa izvo zvisinganyangarika, kunyangwe zvichiratidzwa nekududzirwa zvakasiyana.

KUBVA KUUPENYU KUSVIRA HUPENYU...

Kana tikafunga chirongwa cheSynton muchimiro chayo chepakati, ndiko kuti, chisina kunhuhwirira nebasa rinotonhorera (kana, zvakasiyana, risingakoshi) revaratidziri, ipapo pfungwa huru dzinotevera dzinogona kusiyaniswa mairi.

Kune mamiriro ekutsigira muchirongwa cheSynton, kukurudzira munhu, kumuongorora zvakanaka. Vazhinji veboka vanouya kumakirasi chaizvo nekuda kweizvi, kune mutsa uye nyore kutaurirana, kutenderwa uye rutsigiro, zvakanyanya - kune icho chakangwara uye chinonakidza chinhu chisingawanikwe kune imwe nzvimbo nguva dzose. Uye kirabhu inozvipa. Zvinotaurwa nemutungamiri zvehukuro uye pfungwa dzisingaparare zvinongofuratirwa.

Vatori vechikamu vanokudziridza kufunga kwakadzama: maladaptive maitiro ("matambudziko") anosunungurwa. Zvinotonhorera sei Igor Guberman anozviisa:

Kana mumwe munhu akatidzidzisa hupenyu

Ndakabva ndashaya remuromo.

Chiitiko chehupenyu hwebenzi

Ini pachangu ndadaro.

Vanhu veSinton vanozivana nezvinetso zvakasiyana-siyana - zvepfungwa uye zvetsika. Ruzivo rwokubvunza mibvunzo uye ruzivo rwokuwana mhinduro runowanwa pakujairana nemhatsa yepfungwa dzevamwe vanhu uye pakunzvera mufambiro womunhu muzviitwa zvakasiana-siana. Hunhu hwemisoro hunobva kumundane kuenda kuhuripo (existential). Uye chirongwa cheSynton hachipi mhinduro. Pane mhinduro dzechokwadi.

Tsika nekufara kwekufunga kuri kusimukira. Nenzira yomuzvarirwo, kwete mumashoko akakwana, asi maererano nezvakauya nomunhu wacho. Chii chimwe? Kudzidzawo izvo zvakapusa zvekusapokana maitiro uye matekinoroji ehunyanzvi, izvo, zvichisiya padivi mibvunzo "chii?" uye "nei?" pindura mubvunzo wekare weinoshanda psychology "sei?". Mukurongeka, zvinofanirwa kutaurwa kuti chikamu chezvinhu zvakadaro muchirongwa cheSynthon chidiki. Kumufaro wemumwe munhu, kune kusafarira kweumwe munhu, asi ichokwadi.

Zvose? Aiwa, hongu, kuchine pfungwa dzepfungwa dzemhuri newanano, psychology yevarume nevakadzi, psychology yehupenyu nemafungiro kurufu, psychology yepabonde uye hukama hwemwana-mubereki, uye kune zvakawanda. Asi zvese izvi zvinosiyana mukuita chaiko kwevatungamiriri vakasiyana.

ZVATINOGARA TINAYO

Tinogara tine:

- rutsigiro rwechido chekutaurirana nevanhu uye kukura-kuchinja;

- rubatsiro mukukura kwekufunga uye kuburitswa kwenzvimbo yakafara yemibvunzo yepfungwa uye yehuzivi yaunoda kuzvipindura iwe pachako mukukura kwako;

- mhinduro dzinogara dzichiitika - nekusimbisa kune zvakanyanya kubatsira munharaunda (mupfungwa yakafara), kuona njodzi dzinogona kuitika, pluses uye minuses yesarudzo dzakasiyana.

Izvi ndizvo izvo chirongwa cheSynthon chiri muhunyoro hwayo hwakadzama, pamusoro pemakirasi chaiwo, maekisesaizi, matekiniki uye hunhu hwevatungamiriri hunovakwa. Kusanganisira, nenzira, hunhu Nikolai Ivanovich Kozlov pachake.

KOZLOV NASINTON

Nikolai Ivanovich, hongu, anounza zvakawanda zvezvimwe zvinhu kubva kwaari. Asi kubva panguva yaakataura nezve transmissibility (transferability) yeSynton nzira, akaramba (chaizvoizvo, uye hazvina basa kuti zvinoratidzika kwatiri) kubva pakuti ndiye ega munhu anosarudza chinangwa cheSynton. program. Kubva panguva iyoyo, akaparadzana uye akararama hupenyu hwake. Uye zvino Kozlov ndiye Sinton, asi

- haisi Kozlov chete. Iyi igwara mubasa repfungwa reboka remazuva ano.

VAKURU UYE KURONGWA KWEZVINHU

Saka tine zvinotevera.

  • Synton-chirongwa uye setiraiti yekudzidzisa-makosi-semina.
  • Sinton-vatungamiriri uye vanotungamira seminar-makosi. Izvi zvinogona kana kusaenderana. Kazhinji kirabhu ine angangoita Synthon host. Zviri nani kana usiri wega.
  • Vamwe vatungamiri dzimwe nguva vanouya kukirabhu yakatosimbiswa uye vanoita chimwe chinhu nguva imwe chete kana nguva dzose (kuberekwa patsva, kana tambo yetambo, somuenzaniso).

Zvinogoneka kuti chirongwa cheSynton pachacho chinotorwa mukuwedzera kune chimwe chinhu chagara chiripo. Ndinofunga zvakanakawo.

Zviripachena kuti vatungamiriri vepedyo-Synton vanogona kuoneka chete padyo nevatungamiriri vakasimba veSynton. Zvikasadaro, varatidziri ve syntonian vachange vari pedyo nechimwe chinhu. Saka kune zvakare akati wandei sarudzo dzeSinton:

- chikwata chakasimba, uko kune zvinhu zvakawanda;

- kirabhu uko kune akati wandei maSinton mapoka (nevatungamiriri);

- kirabhu uko kune mapoka akawanda, asi kune mutungamiriri mumwe chete;

- boka chete, ikirabhu zvakare;

- boka kana mapoka ari pasi pechimwe chimiro.

MuSinton, makirasi eboka anoitwa kamwe pasvondo kwemaawa 3-4. Chaizvoizvo, ndiwo mapoka aya anoumba hwaro hwebasa rekirabhu. Vamwe vose varipo, kana varipo. Mamiriro emakirasi nekuda kwezviitiko anonyatso mira. Zvinangwa zvikuru nezvinangwa zvakafanana. Pane chinyorwa chinotsanangura kuchirongwa cheSynton, uko macontours anoratidzwawo.

Kana mutungamiri akatora zvimedu zvemakirasi uye kurovedza muviri chero kupi zvako, kusanganisira mumabhuku ekudzidzisa aSinton, uye achivaka chimwe chinhu chinongozivikanwa kwaari chete, saka anogona kunge ari kuita zvakanaka, asi haasi mutungamiri wechiSinton uye vana vake kune kuratidzwa kwaSynton, pamwe, hazvishande. . Zvakangosiyana.

Nekudaro, muSinton kirabhu pane angangoita mutungamiri mumwe akadzidziswa weboka rechirongwa cheSynton (uye boka racho pacharo), uye huwandu hwevamwe vatungamiriri, mamwe mapoka uye mamwe makosi zvakare nevatungamiriri vavo. Uye pakati pemamwe makosi anogona kunge ari kudzidziswa. Kusanganisira Sinton-vatungamiriri. Kana kirabhu ikawira munzvimbo ino, saka ichokwadi kirabhu yeSinton pane imwe yematanho ebudiriro. Kunyange dai akanga asina kukodzera kuva nekodzero yokuva nezita iri. Mubvunzo wehutano wakasiyana. Asi uyu mubvunzo unokosha.

WORKSHOP AND MASTER

Kune zvakare master workshop. Izvi hazvina kufanana nemisangano yekudzidzisa, kunyangwe vari muwekishopu. Iyi inzvimbo iyo kwete chete zvakangoita uye nehungwaru, asi kurarama, avo vanobereka Sinton kwete chete quantitatively, asiwo kufamba qualitatively, kusangana. Iko mazano anodhumhana nekubatanidza, uye kupi - izvi zvakakosha - nyanzvi dzinobuda nekukura.

Mukuwedzera kune Kozlov, kunewo vatungamiri vanozivikanwa, asi vanozivikanwa muSinton, uye kwete mune zvepfungwa huru. Uye, kunyangwe bhuku raSasha Lyubimov rakatoburitswa muNLP nhevedzano, hapasati paine nhamba huru nemisiyano yavo yakakosha munzira yeSinton. (Kufanana, semuenzaniso, Jung, Horney, Fromm mune psychoanalysis, Bandura uye Skinner mune maitiro, Grinder, Bandler, Atkinson naDiltz muNLP, Reich, Lowen naFeldenkrais mumaitiro emuviri. Aya maitiro mune psychology haana kufa nawo vavambi vadzo , nokuti paiva nevanhu vanopfuura mumwe kana vaviri vanokosha, pakanga pasina vadzidzi vakatendeka chete, asiwo vafungi vepakutanga uye vakashinga.)

Ini ndinotenda kuti chimiro cheSinton hachizotenderi chero munhu kuti aonekwe semunyengeri kana akatsauka, uye kana tichida kuti Sinton ive yakakomba yepfungwa maitiro, saka basa redu nderekutsvaga nekukurudzira avo vanogona kuipfumisa.

VANHU MUSYNTON

Pano tinofanira kukurumidza kusimbisa chinhu chikuru: zvisinei kuti zvinangwa zvakakwirira uye zvetsika zvakadii Sinton anogadza, vanhu havafanire kuuya kwatiri. Izvi ndizvo zvatinomukwereta. Uye tinofanira kuenda kuvanhu nezvavanoda, uye kwete nezvatinoda kubva kwavari. Uye kana zvakanaka zvedu zvichifanira kudyarwa, uye zvakare kuchengetedzwa nechisimba, saka tiri kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa. Nekuti iye, vanhu, ane ake (uye akasiyana kwazvo) maitiro. Hongu, kune yepasi rose uye huru: kunaka, huchenjeri, rudo, hupenyu, rusununguko, nzira, nezvimwe. Asi ivo vakasiyanawo kuvanhu.

Chinetso chaSynton pazere ndechekuti hazvina kukwana kune wese wese, asi - zvakanaka - kune vese avo Synton anogona kubatsira.

Vanhu vanouya kuSinton kuzotora chimwe chinhu chavo. Nokuda kweizvi, anobhadhara mari yekirabhu, ane hushamwari kune varidzi uye dzimwe nguva anobatsira kirabhu yake kana kuti anongoida. Asi kuda zvese izvi senyaya yechokwadi "chikwereti kuSinton" hachisi chakakomba uye chinoparadza kuSinton.

Zviri pachena kuti pamwe chete izvo munhu anoda kutora (akatokura), tinogona kupa zvakawanda. Uye kana munhu, nerubatsiro rwedu, akazvitora, ndiko kuti, anofunga zvakadzama uye anokura kupfuura zvaakaronga, zvakanaka. Asi kana "avo vasingafari, ini ndichakotama munyanga yegondohwe", sezvakataurwa naBarmaley, saka - ngativerenge bhuku raNI Kozlov "Maitiro aunoita iwe nevanhu", uye isu tichanzwisisa kuti kutanga, tisati taunza mufaro. uye kunaka kune vamwe, tinofanira kushanda pachedu. Uye wozofunga zvakare. Vanhu havana chikwereti kuna Sinton!

Uye rudzii rwevanhu vangangoda Sinton? Neruzivo - vadzidzi, vechidiki vanoshanda. (17-27 makore - matambudziko ego-kuzivikanwa uye kubereka, "Ndiri ani?" uye "Ndiri kuitei muupenyu hwangu?" Zvisinei, mibvunzo iyi inobatawo avo vakura, asi muSinton ivo vanodzidzisa zviri nani muupenyu hwangu? kuti vabvunze mibvunzo yakadaro votsvaka mhinduro yavo voga pane zvavanopindura zvakananga.) Neshoko rimwe chete, vanhu vanofunga uye vanowanzoda kubvunza mibvunzo. Uye zvakare kune vanhu vasingagari zvakanaka (mupfungwa). Vanhu vari kutsvaga kudziya uye kugamuchirwa mupfungwa.

KUNE WESE WAKE WAKE: THE OPTIMALIST APPROACH

Iyo synthon chirongwa chinovakwa nenzira yekuti nechidzidzo chega chega misoro inodzika, basa rinowedzera kuoma, uye vanhu vanokura. Kuumbwa kwemapoka kunoshanduka pamusoro pegore (neavhareji yekuumbwa kwevanhu 25-35), dzimwe nguva nechetatu, uye dzimwe nguva nehafu. Kureva kuti vamwe vanouya vamwe vachienda. (Kana uchida, dzinobviswa.) Maererano nekucherechedza kwangu, vanoenda apo musoro uri pedyo uye unokosha kwavari wapera uye chimwe chinhu chisati chiri pedyo navo chinotanga. Kunoitika (uye kazhinji kazhinji) kuti vanhu vanouya mugore rimwe kana kuti maviri ndokuti: “Zvimwe hamundiyeuki. Ndakabva ndaenda (kuruboshwe), ndisina kusvika kumagumo. Zvakanga zvakandiomera ipapo (kubhowekana). Uye zvino ndiri kuzvifarira. "

Ndiko kuti, munhu anotora zvakawanda sezvaanoda iye zvino uye zvakanyanya sezvaanogona kutora, kugamuchira uye "kugaya". Kune vamwe vose, anogona kuuya gare gare. Pamwe zvakamukwanira. Pamwe achauya kumwewo. Nokuti kune nzira dzakawanda, uye dzinosangana chete pamusoro pechikomo.

Iyo synthon haishande kune avo vakasarudzwa vanofarirwa nevanopokana, asi kwete kune wese munhu (nekuti ipapo hapana kuomesesa kwechirongwa), asi inopa munhu wese zvake, iyo yandinodaidza iyo optimalist nzira yekushanda se. zvinopesana neiyo minimalist uye maximalist, saka kune vakasununguka vasina mitemo uye yepasirese inosungirwa kufanana, zvichiteerana.

KUDZIDZWA KWEMUTUNGAMIRI

Zviripachena kuti vatungamiri vanofanira kudzidziswa. Uye kwete chete (uye kazhinji kwete zvakanyanya) chirongwa cheSynton, asi hunyanzvi hwekutanga hwebasa reboka uye basa repfungwa mune zvese. Ndiko, unyanzvi hwomunhu uye mano - kutanga, uye unyanzvi hwekushanda neboka - chechipiri. Uye chete ipapo - chirongwa cheSynton: shanda nemuviri uye izwi (kunyanya!), Rational-emotive maitiro. Vafambisi vanopihwa ruzivo nezve maficha ekuchinja kweboka muSinton uye maitiro ekuzvibata, nezve kuumbwa kwezvimiro nehunhu, nezve zvikanganiso zvakajairwa uye zvekuita nezvose izvi.

ZVINOITWA SUNTON

Izvo zvinodiwawo kupindura mubvunzo mukuru wetekinoroji: kuti zvinoitwa sei. Sei tichitaura nezveSinton senzira yakakosha, uye kwete seimwe (kunyangwe yakabudirira) kuedza kuderedza maekisesaizi ekare uye matsva mumutsara wezviitwa (ona, semuenzaniso, mabhuku aAS Prutchenkov kana VI Garbuzov).

Zviri pachena kuti uyo anoshandisa maekisesaizi kubva muunganidzwa achiri kure nebasa rechokwadi maererano naSinton, kungofanana neayo anoziva nezve "hot chair" maitiro haasati ari Gestaltist zvachose, uye anozivawo. nzira yekusiyanisa iyo "Lowen arch" kubva "pose uta" hazvireve kuti inyanzvi inotungamirwa nemuviri, uye kuverenga nezve calibration uye anchors haisi "nelper".

Kutanga, ngatitaure chinhu chikuru. Synthon haisi nyika yakaparadzana, kwete dzidziso, uye kwete uzivi hwakarambwa kubva muupenyu. Iyo haina humwe huzivi kupfuura nzira dzaFritz Perls kana Jakob Moreno.

Synthon inyanzvi kwete chete muvambi wayo NI Kozlov, asi chero munhu akadzidziswa. Kunyanya vane tarenda mukushanda nevanhu. Uye nenzira, munhu akadzidziswa uye ane tarenda haangogone kushanda chete, asi zvakare kukudziridza mazano mberi, kusuma zvavakawana, kuvhurika horizons, nezvimwe. Synthon inyanzvi yakavhurika.

Panguva imwecheteyo, Sinton haisiriyo yega uye isingachinji tekinoroji umo mune "kuziva-sei" pamatanho ese uye kwete izwi riri nyore. Kana. Synton, seyakajairwa, tekinoroji yechokwadi, inoona kubudirira kwehumwe matekinoroji nenzira yakaita sebhizinesi. Dai zvangoshanda.

Synthon haisi nyika. Iwe haufanirwe kurarama zvinoenderana neSinton, unofanirwa kushanda zvinoenderana nazvo - kusanganisira iwe pachako. Uye unofanira kugara munyika. Iyi zvakare mhinduro kune tsamba kubva kune imwe yevaSinton mauto kubva kuour country: kana "muSinton ndichave izvo zvandinoda, asi ndichabuda - uye zvakanaka, iyi charter uye mitemo ...", zvino "kuita mari." uye, kazhinji, nhema «.

Iyo charter nemitemo hazvidiwi mukati mavo (ona kuti hazvina kukosha, zvinodiwa, kureva kuti, zvinobatsira), asi kuitira kuti hunyanzvi hwekuvaka - syntonic - kutaurirana kuisirwe, kupinda muhupenyu uye kubatsira. kurarama. Musainzi, izvi zvinodaidzwa kuti internalization - chiitiko chakadzama chekuziva chinotsigira kudzidza uye nekushandisa otomatiki.

Se "Sabata kumunhu", ndizvo zvakaita gwaro rehupenyu, uye kwete zvinopesana. Charter mutambo unogamuchirwa mukirabhu kuitira kuti bhizinesi rinobatsira rigone kurovererwa zviri nyore. Uye kuiunza muhupenyu, kunyanya sehwaro hwayo, hazvina musoro. Hupenyu hahuenderani muhurongwa, hwakapfuma, ndine hurombo nekurambidzwa.

Sezvo vazivi vakatsanangura kwandiri, kune dzidziso yaGodel yakadai: "Mune chero hurongwa hwakaoma mune zvinzvimbo zvisingabvumirwe uye zvisingarambike mukati megadziriro ino." Upenyu, sezvandinozvinzwisisa, ihurongwa hwakaoma zvakakwana kuti usatora zvakakomba kuchema kwe "kwete maererano nechata!". Kusanganisira kuzvipopotera.

Kuzvishandira wega ndihwo hupenyu, asi hausi hupenyu hwese. Nokuti kushanda pachako kunofanira kuva kune chimwe chinhu, uye kwete chega. Uye mubasa iri panofanira kuva nenheyo yekukwana kunonzwisisika. Rudzi rwe "dziviriro kune benzi" kuti urege kupisa. Zvakakwana apo hupenyu hunoshanda uye hunopa mhedzisiro ine musoro.

Uye muhupenyu, panofanira kuva nekuzorora kubva kubasa. Nekuti ipapo - zvimwe zvinhu zvakaenzana - iwe uchaita zvakawanda.

NZVIMBO NEBASA

Haasi munhu wese anoda synthon, uye, zvakare, haisi panacea yezvose. Sinton anoshandira zera rake uye zvekugarisana nevamwe (muhoro wepakati vanhuwo zvavo vane makore 17-40; vakanyimwa zvakanyanya, kureva kuti, varombo, havazoendi pano). Inotarisa pane imwe theoretical uye methodological base, pamwe nepasi rose uye magariro akakosha hunhu mune yechokwadi (kwete yekuvhiringika nekunyanya kuda zvinhu) dudziro.

Kunyanya uye muchidimbu: Synton inobata nevanhu vekuyaruka uye vakuru vari padyo neyakajairwa, inoshandira kukura kwemunhu nekusimudzira (pane kugadzirisa), kugadzirisa (kubudirira) kugarisana (kutsvaga nzvimbo yako munyika nenharaunda) uye kuburitswa kwekugona kugadzira kwemunhu. Zvose.

Zviri pachena kuti uku hakusi kuwanikwa kweAmerica, zvose zvepfungwa zvinoshanda kune izvi. Hongu chaizvo. Synthon igwara mune psychology, uye inoshanda kune chinhu chimwe chete neyese psychology. Naizvozvo, vanoda kujoina Zvakazarurwa chete yechokwadi havana chekuita pano.

Zvimwe zvese hunyanzvi uye hwakasiyana hunhu hwevatungamiriri uye inyaya yetekinoroji.

Mukati megadziriro yemaitiro aripo ekuita basa reboka, chirongwa cheSynton ndechekurebesa (kusiyana neyakaomesesa) kudzidziswa mukukurukurirana, kukura kwemunhu uye kuvandudza hunyanzvi (kusiyana nekururamisa kana kudzidziswa), izvo zvinosanganisira zvinhu zvebasa reT-mapoka. , mapoka ekudyidzana anonangana nedingindira, uye mapoka anosangana. (izwi rokuti "boka remisangano", mumaonero edu, rinokanganisa zvikuru chinangwa chaicho), mapoka ekudzidzira unyanzvi nemitambo yekutamba.

Sinton haipokane chero nzira, iyo, sedzimwe nzira, inopa hwaro hwayo uye maturusi ayo ekugadzirisa huwandu hwematambudziko aripo kwairi.

INTUITION, KUONA UYE RUZIVO RWAKANHU

Tsika yekudzikisa libido…

D. Leontiev

Chero basa rinogona kungotorwa sehunyanzvi kana pasina zviito zvisingaite, zvisina musoro izvo zvisina chinangwa chinoziva. Chiyero chebasa reunyanzvi yakagadzikana reproducibility yemugumisiro. Uyezve, imwe iyo mhedzisiro inopihwa kune mutengi munyika yake chaiyo, uye kwete mune yekutanga theoretical mufananidzo.

Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, kana isu tikatanga kutendesa mutengi kuti kune "super-ego", "Mubereki uye Mwana", "sublimated libido", "quasi-zvinodiwa" munyika, uye isu "tinovhura maziso ake" kune chokwadi. kuti hukuru hwake- Iyo ego ndiyo Mubereki wayo, iyo inomanikidza sublimation ye libido kuburikidza ne-quasi-zvinodiwa, tinogona kuwana kushamisika kunoshamisa: "Ndizvo!", Asi iri harisi basa. Kwete izvozvi. Zvino, kana izvi zvose (kana zvimwe) zvitunha zvemashoko zvichibatsira munhu kuti azvitungamirire mune chimwe chinhu, kugamuchira (kana kuumba uye kubvuma) shanduko yemunhu inobatsira kwaari uye kune avo vakamupoteredza, saka imwe nyaya.

Munhu akatendeukira kune nyanzvi yezvepfungwa pamwe chete uye kuSinton kunyanya haafaniri kugovera teknolojia "matambudziko" emutungamiri, hazvidiwi (kunze kwekuti achida) kunyange kuziva pamusoro pavo, vanongoda kushanda, kureva kupa munhu mhedzisiro.

Somuenzaniso, kuti tishandise midziyo yemumba, hatifaniri kunzwisisa zvinhu zvemagetsi. Uye kana zvichidikanwa, zvino iyi ndiyo yakaipa mudziyo weimba, handizvo here? Saizvozvowo, hatina hanya kuti chiremba wemazino anoita basa rake sei, chero bedzi mazino asingarwadzi.

Rega avo vanoda kudzidza basa iri uye avo vanoda kuvandudza nzira iyi kana kuishandura kuti ienderane nezvinodiwa zvavo vanzwisise "matambudziko" uye maitiro. Nokudaro, kana tichitaura pamusoro pe "mechanics" yemukati yebasa redu, hatigoni kugutsikana nezvinyorwa kune zvisingazivikanwi, "kuvhenekerwa", zvemashiripiti (mupfungwa dzakasiyana-siyana dzezwi), kureva, kusanzwisiswa nemutungamiri wechiito. . Misimboti yekuchinjisa uye kuberekana inoda kunzwisisa kwakajeka uye kunzwisisa kwezviri kuitwa uye sei.

Kana zvasvika kune auras, chakras uye kusangana neUniverse (cosmos) zvakakomba, ichi chivharo chechokwadi chekuti hatizive zvatiri kuita uye kuti zvinoshanda sei.

Nyanzvi yehunyanzvi haisi yekuvandudza intuitive, asi yakasarudzika - yenyaya iyi chete - musanganiswa wemaitiro akati wandei kana matekinoroji, maererano nezviri pachena kune mufambisi kuti ari kuita sei uye sei. Somugumisiro, izvi zvinogona kudzokororwa zvakare, kutsanangura kuti akaita sei uye sei, nei uye nei, uye kudzidzisa mumwe. Mastery uye hunyanzvi huri muchokwadi chekuti tenzi aive akagadzirira chiitiko ichi, akwanisa kusarudza zvakakwana uye kushandisa imwe kana imwe musanganiswa wehunyanzvi.

Chokwadi, pane imwe «asi». Nebasa rakareba uye rakabudirira, mazhinji ehungwaru uye ehunyanzvi basa remutungamiri wekirasi anogona kuitika kumashure, sekunge asingazivi nekuda kweiyo yatotaurwa mukati mekugadzira michina, uye kubva kunze inoratidzika seyakajeka njere. Zvisinei, kana mamiriro acho ezvinhu akadzorerwa uye tenzi akakumbirwa kuti ataure pamusoro pekushanda kwaakaita, achazviita.

CHIRONGWA CHINOITWA SEI

Saka, mibvunzo mikuru yehunyanzvi ndeye "chii?" (mukuita, kwete mupfungwa) uye "sei?".

Mubvunzo "chii?" mubvunzo pamusoro pechirongwa. Iyo yakajairwa Synton chirongwa chinyorwa chakadzama kubva kuchidzidzo kuenda kuchidzidzo, chinoumba hwaro hwebasa chairo remuratidziri.

Chaizvoizvo, mhedzisiro yacho inonyatso kuchengetedza kweboka, uye kwete zvinyorwa pachazvo. Mukufamba, tinoona kuti zvidzidzo zvechidzidzo hazvidi chaizvo - izwi neshoko - kubereka, iwo hwaro uye inishuwarenzi (yemutungamiri wekutanga) yemakirasi chaiwo. Chakashata kumhepo yeboka ndiko kuberekana kwemakirasi maererano nerunyoro. Synthon mukudzidzira anotanga kurarama apo muratidziri anozadza script-inishuwarenzi nehupenyu huripo.

Chinyorwa chinotanga nepfungwa. Kutanga, neakanyanya general: chii ichi kana icho kutenderera, seminari, kosi ichave iri pamusoro pepfungwa yakafara. Kune akati wandei makosi muchirongwa cheSynton pachacho, kune zvakare zvirongwa zvine hukama. Zvirongwa zvezvirongwa zvinosiyana kwete mukurongeka kwezviitwa chaizvo, asi zvakanyanya mukududzirwa kwenyaya huru uye nzira dzinoumba musimboti - pfungwa yemukati.

Tinocherechedza pano kuti tinoshandisa shoko rokuti «pfungwa» kwete nenzira inotyisa ye "ideological", asi sechirevo chechirevo chezvizhinji, zvinyorwa zvemukati zvebasa. Semuenzaniso, iyo pfungwa yeArt of Pleasing kosi yaive yekudzidzisa vasikana ma psychological nuances ekuvaka hukama nevechidiki, uye chaiyo kuita kwaisanganisira hunyanzvi hwekuita.

Iyo synthon chirongwa chakazara, rega ndikuyeuchidze, "inoshanda mukukura uye budiriro, yekubudirira kushamwaridzana uye kuvhura kugona kwemunhu." Iyi ndiyo pfungwa yakajairika yeSinton.

Dzidzo dzakaparadzana dzinofunga nezve psychology yehukama iwe pachako, nevanhu vakatenderedza, kuvaka hukama hwepedyo hwemunhu.

Makosi anosanganisira makirasi (mabhuroko). Naizvozvo, padanho rechipiri, pfungwa, madingindira uye pfungwa dzemakirasi aya anoumbwa.

Kana tikafunga, semuenzaniso, iyo psychology yekudyidzana nevamwe, saka, toti, chidzidzo chimwe chinogona kutsaurirwa kune nzira yekukakavadzana uye nzira dzekugadzirisa; zvinotevera zvichange zviri pamusoro pekutarisira (kutarisira) senzira yekuumbwa kwehukama, kusanganisira mutsa (synthonic); zvichateverwa nechidzidzo pamusoro pekugona kutaurirana nekushandira pamwe, nezvimwe.

Nekuita kosi yekurukurirano inobudirira, tinogona kuwana nzvimbo yemakirasi ehunyanzvi hwekuteerera, kufamba uye kutungamira, kuratidza manzwiro, uye hunyanzvi hwekunyengetedza.

Tazvijekesera pachedu pfungwa yakajairika uye mazano ezviitwa chaizvo, pamwe nekutevedzana kwavo kunonzwisisika, tinogadzira chirongwa. Iyo chirongwa chekosi, kudzidziswa, kutenderera - idaidze chero chaunoda. Ipapo inosvika nguva yekuvandudza nzira.

MAITIRO ECHIDZIDZO CHINOITWA (BLOCK)

Chidzidzo chinogona kutora maawa matatu-3 (yakajairwa Sinton) kana kutambanudza kwezuva, kana kunyange mazuva akati wandei (yakasimba makosi). Naizvozvo, zviri nyore kutaura nezve thematic blocks yakagoverwa pahwaro hwemukati ideological kubatana.

Panogona kuva nebhuroko rinopfuura rimwechete muchidzidzo chimwechete, kunyangwe pachinyakare chidzidzo chimwechete chinopirwa kuchidzidzo chimwe. Panogona kunge paine asingapfuure mabhuroko maviri mukati memazuva maviri akanyanya. Nekudaro, kazhinji bhuroka rimwe rinoiswa mumaawa 3-4 chete. Izvo zviri nyore kune vese vatori vechikamu uye mutungamiri, uye kubva pakuona kwekugadzirisa basa.

  • Chimiro chebhuroka muchimiro chayo chakanyanya ndeichi: sumo yemusoro wenyaya - chikamu chikuru - kupfupisa (uye kuenda kune rinotevera bhuroko).
  • MuSyntonian chiteshi, izvi zvikamu zvinowanzo vakwa seizvi.
  • Kunyura mumhepo yechidzidzo (kukwazisa kwechinyakare, kumisikidza chinyorwa chemuratidziri).
  • Chiitwa chenhanganyaya chinosimbisa kukosha kwechinyorwa. Topic zano.
  • Hurukuro yemusoro. Vatori vechikamu vanotaura maonero avo. Kubvunza mibvunzo, kudzamisa musoro wenyaya.
  • Chiitwa chepakati, apo maitiro akajairwa ekuzvibata anoratidzwa uye vatori vechikamu vanotaura nezve mamiriro ehupenyu akafananidzwa (kuwana ruzivo chairwo).
  • Pfupiso, nhaurirano yechiitwa, tsinhiro dzemufambisi. (Hausisiri mubvunzo wekuti, semuenzaniso, kutyaira sei bharumu, asi maitiro chaiwo evatori vechikamu muchiitwa chakarongwa chinotevedzera hukama hwevanhu.)
  • Mukuwedzera - chiitwa chemhinduro kana kugona mamwe maitiro ehunhu, kuita kwehungwaru.
  • Kupedzwa kwechidzidzo (kuonekana kwechinyakare, kudzikiswa kwemamiriro ekudzidzira).

Zvechokwadi, chimiro cheimwe sangano kana chikwata chinogona kuva nekusiyana: basa repakati rinogona kuchinjwa neviri kana kunyange zvitatu, hurukuro yepakati inogona kuwedzerwa, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Nekudaro, mazhinji emakirasi anokwana muchirongwa chakarongwa.

MAITIRO ACHIITA

Nezwi rekuti "exercise" tinoreva chimwe chikamu chechidzidzo, chinoti: kurovedza muviri chaiko, nhaurirano (muboka rose, mumapoka madiki, vaviri vaviri, mu "carousel"), kugadzirisa zvinyorwa, mitambo uye mamiriro anotevedzera chokwadi. . Maekisesaizi akakamurwa zvine hunhu, hunhu uye mafungiro.

Icho chikuru chemukati chechiitiko mupfungwa yakafara yezwi (mupfungwa nhete ishoko rakafanana nerezwi rekuti "kudzidziswa") ndiko kukura kana kuongororwa kweimwe hunhu, shanda nemamiriro epfungwa (mood), ine hunhu. , nezvitendero, nemafungiro, nemufananidzo wenyika, - neshoko, nemaonero enyika. Isu tinodaidza chero chidimbu chakadaro chechidzidzo chiitiko.

Muchirongwa chechidzidzo chataurwa pamusoro, chikamu chega chega chinogona kunge chine chiitwa chimwechete kana kupfuura (kashoma kudarika maviri).

Zviri pachena kuti munenge muchiitwa chese pane zvinangwa zvakati (semantic layers): chinangwa chikuru chechirongwa cheSynton, chinangwa chechidzidzo, chinangwa chaicho chechiitwa pachacho.

Tinofanira kutaura ipapo ipapo kuti hachisi chese chiitwa chinoteedzera zvinangwa zvacho. Pasina kunzwisisa, nhaurirano uye kutaura, kudzidziswa kwepfungwa kunokurumidza kushanduka kuita tekinoroji yemitambo (kana ikaitwa zvine mutsindo) kana kungoita "mitambo". Izvi zvinoshandawo kuSinton. Muchidimbu, zvinogonekawo kuita "kutamba mitambo" kubva mairi, kana ukaregeredza zvepfungwa, chaizvo Syntonian chikamu. Ndakazviona.

Sezvineiwo, kubva pachiitwa chimwechete (maererano nekutevedzana kwakarongeka kwemabasa) nemhinduro dzakasiyana, munhu anogona kutora zvinhu zvakasiyana kwazvo zvekukurukura nekunzwisisa mamwe matambudziko. Muenzaniso wekare: chiitiko "Ibofu neMutungamiriri": pano zvese zviri zviviri kukurumidza kuumbwa kwenzvimbo yeboka (tactile kuonana kunobatsira), uye nzira yenyaya yekuvimba mune vamwe, zvakanyanya - kune vanhu, zvakanyanya - kusvika nyika; heino kuongororwa kwechirongwa chemaitiro munharaunda uye pasi rose, kuongororwa kwemaitiro emukati kune vanhu; kunewo ndima yekutaura pamusoro pekunzwisisana, nezvimwe.

Chekupedzisira, pane mamwe maviri akaturikidzana muzviitwa: zvine musoro (mupfungwa dzese dziri pamusoro) uye hurongwa nehurongwa (hutungamiri hweboka, kurongeka kwenzvimbo - uye, semhedzisiro, kugona nekubudirira kweboka).

Ndasangana nekudzidziswa uko zvine musoro maekisesaizi ari pachena uye gu.e. kuchinjanisa nevesangano. MuSynthon, izvi zvinowanzoitwa zvakatetepa. Kuvakwa kwechidzidzo (kutevedzana kwebasa) kunowanzofunga nezvezvinodiwa zveboka nzvimbo-nguva, asi nokuda kweizvi inoshandisa zvingangoitika zvezviitwa zvakafanana zvinopa chirevo. Zviripachena kuti musoro mumwe chete unogona kugadzirwa zvichibva pazviitwa zvakasiyana.

Zvinogara zvichitendwa kuti zviri nani kuti boka risave mumhando imwechete yebasa kwemaminetsi anopfuura 15-20. Zvisinei, iyo iri pedyo nepakati pechidzidzo, nguva yakawanda inogona kushandiswa pakuita basa rimwe chete: pakutanga, vanhu havana "kutenderera" zvakadaro, uye kusvika kumagumo, vakatoneta. Yakaomeswa, inopedza nguva maekisesaizi anowanzo kugadzirwa kuitira kuti mabasa acho apiwe nhanho nhanho (kureva kuti, mamero ezvimiro anopihwa) kana zviitiko zvakasiyana. Mienzaniso yakanaka maekisesaizi akaita seBalloon, Desert Island, kana Talent Game.

Chero kurovedza muviri kunowanzo kuve nezvikamu zvitatu: sumo, chikamu chikuru uye kubuda.

Munhanganyaya, mufambisi anotsanangura zvichazoitika uye nei, uye anopa "gadziriro" - inoumba mamiriro akakodzera ebasa. Ndiko kuti, inogadzira kukurudzira uye mamiriro ekudzidziswa.

Muchikamu chikuru, vatori vechikamu vanoshanda (kukurukura, mamiriro emuenzaniso, kuongorora, kuwana ruzivo, nezvimwewo).

Kubuda kwechiitwa kunoshanda kupfupisa mhedzisiro yepakati uye kuenderera kune chinotevera chiitwa (uyezve inova sumo itsva), kana yekuongorora kwakadzama kwebasa rakaitwa, zvirevo pamusoro pechiitiko chakawanikwa, nezvimwe. nyaya, kubuda kunova chikamu chikuru chine musoro chechiitwa, pasina izvo zvese zvakapfuura zvinongova zvekutamba.

Kudzidziswa kwepfungwa kunonyanya kuitwa nekuongorora uye zvinyorwa zvezvakaitwa, uye mupfungwa iyi, kuongorora uye kupfupisa ndizvo zvinyorwa zvechidzidzo, uye kwete izvi kana zvimwe zvisingakanganwiki zviitwa.

Nekudaro, chiitwa chinofanirwa kuita zvinangwa zvesesheni uye chirongwa, uye kwete kuitwa kunze kwebhuruu nekuda kwekuti pane nguva yacho. Chiitwa chinoda mamiriro (dzimwe nguva nekuratidzira, dzimwe nguva nezwi uye maitiro emuratidziri), inoda nzira yekubuda-kunzwisisa.

KUNO ZVINOITA, MAkirasi, MAPROGRAM ANOBVA

Chekutanga, muchirongwa cheSynton uye anoperekedza zvinyorwa zvekudzidzisa, makirasi anopereterwa zvakadzama. Nezviitwa zvese. Chechipiri, kune zvakawanda zvekuunganidza uye mabhuku mune zvakapfava (uye zvino mune zvakaoma) zvivharo, apo vanyori, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, vanotsanangura vaviri, kana kunyange akawanda emitambo.

Ndine akawanda emabhuku aya pamasherufu angu. Dambudziko chete nderekuti kazhinji maekisesaizi mavari anongounganidzwa mumutsara, uye akanyorwa chero zvakadaro, ndiko kuti, haana kukodzera kushandiswa kwakananga. Uye pano ndinoda kutaura chinhu chimwe chakakosha cheSinton (ini handisati ndaona izvi munharaunda ipi neipi yepfungwa): kune tsika yeruzivo rwakadzama uye rwemhando yepamusoro kurongedzerwa kwechiitiko chakabudirira: wakazviita iwe pachako - ita kuti hupenyu huve nyore kune Shamwari. Share! Nechinyakare, nyanzvi dzepfungwa, kunyanya dzine chekuita nekutengeserana, hadzikurumidze kugovera zviitiko kwete chete ne "vakwikwidzi", asiwo nevaya vanoshanda pamwe chete. Market! Murume kumurume - iwe unoziva ndiani.

Matambudziko anotanga kana iwe uchida kuita chimwe chinhu chingave chisiri muchirongwa cheSynton uye makosi esatellite, kana (kunyadzisa!) isina kupereterwa. Kune nzira mbiri: kutanga, iwe unogona kutora maitiro akagadzirirwa kubva mumabhuku (asi pane kazhinji chete "muviri" wekudzidzira), gadzirisa kuti uenderane nezvido zvako, zvinangwa, gadzirisa kugadzirisa uye kubuda; chechipiri - unogona kuita chiitwa chezvinangwa zvako.

Muchiitiko chechipiri, matanho anotevera anodiwa.

  • Isa chakajeka (mukati megadziriro yechidzidzo) chinangwa chechiitwa: kufanotaura musoro watinoda kuenda kwairi zvichienderana nemhedzisiro yayo.
  • Fungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo uye maitiro umo chinetso chekufarira kwatiri chinowanzozviratidza.
  • Tevedzera mamiriro ezvinhu umo maitiro akajairwa (maitiro emaitiro) anoonekwa mune akasiyana siyana.
  • Gadzirisa muenzaniso: kujekesa mamiriro akarongwa, mitemo, zvirambidzo, chinangwa chebasa, nguva.
  • Gadzirira marongero akakodzera (kusvika padanho rekuti pakutanga, nyora pasi zvinyorwa zvakadzama, uchiratidza madimikira anodiwa).
  • Funga kuburikidza nesarudzo dzinobvira dzehurukuro yekupedzisira-kunzwisisa.
  • Itai mapilot sessions (pakutanga 2-3 zvishoma kuti aparadzanise nguva kubva pamapatini akazara).
  • Nyora pasi rose zvinyorwa zvakadzama, uchifunga nezvekuchinja, kudiwa kweiyo inova pachena mushure mekuita chaiko.
  • Ita wakadzikama chiitwa mukushanda mode.

Heino imwe yeandinofarira maekisesheni ekuita semuenzaniso.

Dzidzira "Talent Game"

Vatori vechikamu vanova mudenderedzwa.

Kutungamira. Zvimwe unoyeuka mufananidzo wevaranda vomupfumi uyo, paakaenda, akavachengetesa pfuma yake. Mumwe akaviga mari, mumwe akaisa mukukura, wechitatu akatanga kutengesa. mwene akadzoka, akaripira mumwe nomumwe maererano namarenje ake. Asi kune dzimwe nzira dzekugadzirisa mari: zvose zvakapusa, uye zvakachenjera, uye zvakanyanya kunaka, uye, zvichida, mari yakawanda. Zvino mumwe nomumwe wenyu achakwanisa kubata basa revaranda ava.

Wana paUSD. (Kana asiri munhu wese ane mari, unofanirwa kugovera "matarenda" akafanogadzirirwa - mari yekufananidzira.)

Edza kugadzirisa dambudziko iri. Une maminetsi gumi ekugadzirira - unogona kushandira pamwe mumapoka, unogona kufunga mumwe nemumwe. Munguva ino, iwe unofanirwa kuwana nzira yakanakisa yekushandisa mari yako. Uku kutamba mahara. Funga. Asi rangarira - mazano ako anofanirwa kuitwa izvozvi, pasina kubuda mukamuri yekudzidzira. Une maminitsi makumi matatu ekuita izvi. Cu yako chete ndiyo ine kukosha chaiko. Zvimwe zvinhu uye imwe mari hazvigone kutora chikamu mumutambo uye hazvinzi zvakakosha.

Pane mutambo.

Kutungamira. Zvose, kubva zvino zvichienda mberi, kuendeswa kwemari kubva muruoko kuenda kune ruoko kunorambidzwa. Akagara mudenderedzwa. Ndiani chaizvo ane mari yakawanda sei? Kuombera maoko!

Zvino tauriranai kuti ndiani akaita uye nei. Chii chakashanda zvakanyanya uye chii chisina kushanda? Chii chawakawana chinofadza pamusoro pevamwe?

Pashure pehurukuro, mufambisi anotsinhira nezvemutambo.

Pane akati wandei akajairwa mazwi mumutambo uyu.

Kutanga, "kushandisa zvakanyanya" kunoonekwa se "kuwanza." Asi iyi ingori sarudzo. Mushure memumwe wemitambo, nhaurirano yakaitika nemusikana akazvibata nesimba uye nehasha, asinganyare kubvuta zana remaeuro (yekare) kubva mumaoko emunhu asina hanya kana kubira nhema nekutyisidzira: "Sei uchida izvi?" "Kuti uwane mari yakawanda." - "Zvechii?" "Kutanga bhizinesi rako." - "Zvechii?" "Kuti uwane mari yakawanda." - "Zvechii?" "Kuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka kune mumwe munhu." Inonakidza? Zvichakadaro, mukomana waakaba stow.e.evka (chii chiripo kare), akatamba nemumwe musikana uye akazevezera nomufaro. Mubvunzo: Kwakanaka here? - "Ehe". - "Zvinoratidza kuti unogona kuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka uye zvakananga?"

Chechipiri, chikamu kubva kune mumwe mutambo. Jaya rinopa zvine simba sarudzo dzekuita mari. Asi pano "yakapiswa". (Boka revasikana rakagadzira kambani yekudyara uye rakaparadza vazhinji.) Jaya rakanyarara uye rinogara pasina munhu mukona. Ipapo musikana anoswedera kwaari (uyo anomuda), uyo asati atora chikamu mumatsotsi uye haasi kupisa nechishuwo chakadaro. Vakabva vagara zvavo pasi kuti vataure. Mukomana wacho akanyarara uye anonzwa asinganzwisisiki (pasina mari - anorasikirwa?). Asi musikana akanga akachenjera. Nerudo, zvakasununguka, anokumbira rubatsiro mukugadzirisa stow.e.evka yake, kana kuti itore kuti ichengetedze. Kunyengetedzwa. Murume wacho haana kumhanyira ku "invest", akanga atova musayendisiti, asi akazova mupenyu, akatanga kutaura, uye pakupera kwemutambo vaviri ava vakanzwa zviri nani, vane chivimbo uye "vapenyu" kupfuura vamwe, kunyange. avo "vanopfekedza" munhu wese.

Vasikana! Yeuka kuti vechidiki (vanhu vakanaka) vasina mari vanowanzonzwa vakaderera. Kunyengetedza hakubatsiri nyaya yacho, nyangwe nharo dzako dziine hungwaru. Kukweretesa mari pachena uye nguva dzose - kukanganisa maitiro ake kwauri. Tsvaga mafambiro akachenjera. Vimba uye batsira. Kunze kwekuti, hongu, iwe unoda kuenderera mberi nehukama.

Kunyanya: musikana haana kutora kuwedzera, asi, mumaonero angu, akakwanisa mari yacho zvakanaka. (Kumubvunzo we "yakanakisa mufananidzo".)

Uye pakupedzisira, chechitatu. Vazhinji, kunze kwezvisingawanzo, vanoona mutambo uyu sebasa re "kuwana zvakawanda." Vatori vechikamu mumutambo vanomhanyira mberi, asi mushure memaminitsi gumi nemashanu hafu yakanaka inofamba nemaoko avo pasi - haishande.

Mafambiro makuru ekukurumidza kuwedzera kwehupfumi anowanzo anotevera: mutambo (thimble, makadhi), utsotsi hwemari (mhindu, chikwereti), kupemha («vasikana vakanaka», «zvakanaka zvakanaka»). Neshoko rimwe, kunyengera. Bhizinesi muzviitiko zvakawanda rinoonekwa sechitsotsi. Vanenge vechidiki vese vakapinda mumutambo uyu vakabatanidza pfungwa mbiri idzi kuita imwe. Kunze? Majaya mana ari kunyatsoshanda mubhizinesi rega. Ndivo vega vaibheja kwete nekunyengera, asi nekuita. Vanogona kunge vari mumutambo, asi vakatanga kuita bhizinesi (vakakunguruka pamaoko avo, vakatanga kuridza kune avo vaipisa, vakaedza kuita zviyeuchidzo). Uye vakaita mari.

Kuwedzera muchidzidzo, iyi musoro unogadzirwa - "kuita bhizinesi".

MANAGEMENT OF SYNTON GROUP

Kana tichitaura nezvekufambisa boka, tinoreva: kujoina uye kutonga boka, kushanda nesimba reboka (matanho ekukura nekuumbwa kweboka, zvinangwa zveboka, tsika nemaitiro), kushanda nenzvimbo yeboka, nezvimwewo Zvino, ndinoda kugara. pazvimiro zvechiitiko ichi mumapoka eSyntonian.

Kupinda muboka

Kupinda muboka, ndiko kuti, kuzvipa kuboka semutungamiri, kunogaroitwa panguva yekuumbwa kweboka. Saka kubva pakutanga kweboka, mutungamiri anove muzinda wekugadzira boka panotenderedza zvese zvinoitika. Panguva imwecheteyo, kukurudzira kweboka kushanda nemutungamiri uyu kunowanikwa nekupa vatori vechikamu sarudzo pakati pevatungamiri vakati wandei muchidzidzo chekuratidzira. Mushure make, vanhu vanoenda kune uyo anonyatsosangana nemazano avo nezve "mutungamiri wavo."

Zvadaro, mumwedzi wekutanga nehafu kusvika kumwedzi miviri, vatori vechikamu vazhinji vachashanyira makirasi nevatungamiri vakasiyana uye, semugumisiro, vachasarudza boka (uye mutungamiri iyeye) kwavanonyanya kugadzikana. Democracy uye rusununguko rwekusarudza!

Zvakakosha pano kuti vatungamiri muchikwata chimwe havasi marudzi emhando imwe chete (ipapo mutsauko uchange uri pachikamu “chakaipa” uye vanhu vanongoungana panzvimbo yemunhu mumwe), asi ivo vakasiyana. Izvi zvinopa kusiyana kwekugadzira mumaitiro ekuitisa, munzira dzemisoro yakafanana nezviitwa, uye nenzira dzekupa mazano.

Kubatana kwechinangwa, chimiro chekirasi uye nzira dzekutanga dzinopihwa nechirongwa cheSynton, uye kusiyana kwakasiyana kwevatungamiriri kunobvumidza iwe kushanda nemazvo nevanhu vakasiyana.

Kana paine mutungamiri mumwechete mukirabhu kana "vese semumwe", saka vanhu vese vane mbiri avo Sinton ari padyo, asi kuita chaiko hakuna kunyatso, vachasiya Sinton, uye kwete kubva kune mumwe mutungamiriri. Kana paine vatungamiriri vakati wandei (mumwe munhu anonyanya kufara, mumwe munhu akadzika, mumwe munhu akadzikama, mumwe munhu ane simba rakawanda), ipapo munhu wacho anogamuchira Sinton mune yakanyanya kumuitira kumuitira.

Vatungamiri muSinton vakasiyana! Asi kana mutungamiri weSinton mukirasi achiita chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose, semuenzaniso, anotungamirira boka rekuongorora kwekutengeserana, saka zvichida ari kuita zvakanaka, asi iyi haisisiri Sinton. Kutungamira Sinton kwakasiyana, asi vanoshanda zvinoenderana naSinton. Uye maGestalt anotevera Gestalt. Zvine musoro here?

Chidzidzo chekutanga chinogona kutorwa sedanho rinotevera rekupinda kwemutungamiri muboka. Nekuti chikamu chekuratidzira chakatungamirwa nevafambisi vakati wandei, uye pamwe mumwewo munhu akaisa inzwi.

Asi paChipiri ichi chekutanga (kana kuti Chishanu, kana Chitatu), vanhu vakatouya kuboka ravo, iro rinonyatsobatanidzwa nemutungamiriri uyu. Uye ichave sosi yeruzivo kune vatori vechikamu nezve izvo Sinton iri kuita uye kana zvakakodzera kuenda kwairi. Mutungamiriri anotarira vanhu, asi vanhu vanomutarisawo. Saka unotanga sei?

Nekufamba kwenguva, uyu hausisiri mubvunzo: vatungamiriri vane ruzivo havana dambudziko mukutungamira chidzidzo chekutanga sekunge hachisi chekutanga. Vatori vechikamu, senguva dzose, vakauya, mutungamiri, senguva dzose, anoshanda, tsika dzose, mitemo, zviito zvemutungamiri uye chokwadi chokuti boka rinoshanda zvakasimba zvakajairika uye zvakasikwa. Zvinoshamisa kana zvisiri.

Muchokwadi, basa remutungamiri nderekubva pakuongorora mutual kuenda kubasa renguva dzose kubva pamatanho ekutanga. Zvakajairika zvakadaro uye zvechisikigo kubva pamatanho ekutanga zvinowanikwa nekusangana zvinotarisirwa neboka uye kugadzira maonero ake echinyakare emutungamiri semutungamiri. Kwete mutungamiri wemweya uye guru, asi mumwe munhu anotanga uye anovimbisa maitiro. Ndiko kuti, inoshanda kuvanhu: inoshumira basa rayo nemigumisiro. Kusanganisira mibvunzo inonyengera uye mazano akangwara.

Kutevedza zvinotarisirwa nevazhinji kunovimbiswa: vanhu vaiziva kwavaienda, kutanga; vasina kuziva, vakaona pachidzidzo chekuratidzira - ichi ndicho chechipiri; Usipo, zvimwe haana kuuya, ndiye wechitatu. Naizvozvo, avo vasingatarisiri vakaguma vasina zvachose kwavanoda vashoma, uye ivo vachanyatsoita sarudzo yavo: havangauye nguva inotevera.

Hazvitore simba rakawanda kufadza munhu wese. Vazhinji vanotarisira kubva kumuratidziri chaizvo basa raakataura. Uye zvinoda kuitwa. Uye pano zvakakodzera kutora V.Yu. Bolshakova: “Muongorori wepfungwa haasungirwe kushandira munhu wese. Basa rake harina kukura zvakakwana kuti zvidaro. "

Nezvekudzidzisa vatori vechikamu tsika yekushanda pasi pekutungamirirwa kwemutungamiri, izvi zvinoitwa nenzira inotevera. Sezvo vanhu vakauya kuzoshanda, asi havasati vaziva kuti inogamuchirwa sei pano, mirairo yekutanga ichave inozviratidza. Uye kazhinji kazhinji zvichange zvakaita seizvi pakutanga (zvikumbiro zvemufambisi kuti aite chimwe chinhu zvinonzwisisika kubva mumamiriro ese echidzidzo), vanhu vachakurumidza kujaira kuti mufambisi anotaura uye anopa chaizvo izvo zvinodiwa. . Aya mazano uye zvikumbiro zvine mutsa uye zvakadzikama. Hazvitombokoshi "kupa mirairo" kana "kupa mirairo" - iyo fomu chaiyo inokonzeresa kuramba. “Kudzidza kurarama” zvimwe hakukoshiwo.

Rega zvikumbiro zvekutanga zvine chekuita nekurongeka kwebasa: "Ngatigarei (tisimuke) mudenderedzwa." Zvinonzwisisika kuti wadii kusimuka. "Tarisai zvakanyanya." Tingadai takazviita isu pachedu, asi pano - mvumo yakananga. Zvakanaka, zvakanaka. Tinotarisa. Uye mutungamiri ndiye anogona kugadzirisa.

Kuti zvive nyore kuti boka rishande, kurongeka kunodiwa. Kuti uite izvi, munhu wese anopihwa mapepa ane mibvunzo-mazano. Fine. Hongu, uye mazano mumamiriro ezvinhu apo zvinhu zvose zvisati zvajeka chinhu chakanaka. Munzira, zvinonzi tiri kushanda pano, kwete kutandara.

Mushoko, zvese zviito zvemuratidziri zvinotsanangurwa nemabhenefiti, kureruka uye kugona maererano nebasa uye mhedzisiro. Uye zvikumbiro zvake-zvikumbiro hazvidi kuti titanic kuedza kuzadzikiswa. Ndizvo zvishoma kudarika nguva dzose, kuisa pfungwa uye kutarisa. Saka izvi zvinonzwisisika, vatori vechikamu vari kushanda - kubva pamaminetsi ekutanga, uye mabasa ari nyore anongove ari kuvafinha.

Saka 15-20 maminetsi ekutanga chidzidzo pass, uye boka riri kutoshanda. Akabatikana nebhizinesi, uye ichi ndicho chiratidzo chepamusoro chekugona kwemuratidziri. Kunyanya, mubvunzo wakadaro haumuki zvachose. Zvose zviri kufamba sezvazvinofanira kuva: muenzi ndiye ari kutungamira, vatori vechikamu vari kushanda.

Kune vanoda chokwadi, tsananguro: pane dzidziso yakadaro pamusoro pekuziva dissonance. Maererano naro, ruzivo rutsva runonzwisiswa nyore nyore uye zvakasununguka, kana isingasviki chikamu chimwe chete muzvishanu chezvinotozivikanwa uye zvinogamuchirwa nemunhu.

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Nokudaro, boka rinotevera zviri nyore mirairo yemutungamiri maererano nechiitwa, kana zvisati zvaitika akanga atove akadzikama uye asina kukakavara achibvumirana nezvikumbiro zvake kanokwana kana. Semuyenzaniso, mutungamiri anoti: “Ngatimirei mudenderedzwa … itsika kwatiri kuti timire kuti vasikana vamire kurudyi nekuruboshwe kwevakomana (kana maumbirwo acho achibvumira). Vakomana vangafara kumira pedyo nemusikana, ndapota simudzai maoko enyu! Ndatenda. Ipapo simuka sevarume chaivo! Nenzira, nyemwerera mumwe nomumwe. Uye ngatitarisei zvakanyanya kune avo, nechido chekupedzisira, takapedzisira tasvika pano uye zvino. Vangava vanhu vakaita sei?

Zvinyorwa pamusoro pezvinangwa uye zvinangwa zvebasa rinoshanda nenzira yakafanana: "Takaungana pano kuti tiite muitiro wepfungwa: kudzidza kuzvinzwisisa isu nevanhu - chii chinotitungamirira, chii uye nei tichizviita, kunzwisisa hukama hwevanhu. , kujairana nehunyanzvi hwepfungwa nemiganhu. kushanda kwavo." Chero bedzi mufambisi achitaura izvo vanhu vanotarisira kunzwa, anogona kuva nechokwadi chokuti vatori vechikamu vachapindura zvakakwana kuzvikumbiro zvake nemabasa.

Kushanda neboka dynamics

Mutungamiriri, ari pazvidzidzo zvekutanga mutauriri wezvinangwa zvevatori vechikamu (zvatinoita), maitiro (nekuda kwezvatinoita) uye maitiro (maitirwo atinoita), anogona kuisa izvi zvimiso uye zvinangwa pachake (mukati memiganhu inonzwisisika, ndiko kuti, iye zvino zvose zvaanotaura, kazhinji, zvinoenderana nenheyo ye "chikamu chechishanu chezvakatogamuchirwa").

Kuti zvive zvakanyatsojeka, mufambisi anowana kodzero yekugadzira uye kutsanangura zvinangwa uye kupa mazano chaiwo maitiro ekubudirira kwavo. Uye kunyangwe nekuchenjera kupa sarudzo dzemaitiro kune zvakakosha. Kusanganisira dzakakosha sarudzo (ipo uchivimba nemakoshero eiyo yepamusoro odha).

Pano zvakakosha kuchengetedza hutsanana uye kuisa chete izvo zvimiro zvichatsigirwa. Zvinofanira kunyatsojeka kuvanhu kuti mutemo wakarongwa ungashandiswa sei kuzadzikisa zvinangwa zvine musoro. Tsika dzisiri dzechokwadi dzichafuratirwa neimwe nzira, uye hapagoni kuva nemhinduro ine simba: Sinton inhau yokuzvidira. Uyezve, chiitiko chekuregeredza zvakajairwa nemutungamiri zvinodzikisa chimiro chake chakazara. Naizvozvo, hapana chinopfuura mwero!

Haisi chakavanzika kuti chinzvimbo chakadaro chinowanzochengeterwa mutungamiri weboka. Muboka reSinton, kuwedzera kune mutungamiri, sekutonga, hapana mumwe mutungamiri. Vatori vechikamu vakasimba vanoshandira boka pamwe chete nemutungamiri, uye hapana kunetsana kwakakosha. Sezvakangoita pasina chirongwa chakagadziriswa chekugovera mabasa. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvimiro zveboka dynamics muSyntone.

Iyo yakajairwa yemaitiro eboka dynamics hunhu hweboka rakajairwa (kwete Syntonian). Kureva: kuwanda kwekuumbwa kweboka - 9-12 vanhu, inenge isingashanduki; boka panguva yekuvapo kwaro rinosangana nguva dzose (zvakakodzera, vatori vechikamu vari pamwe chete nguva iyo boka rinoshanda); haina chimiro chepamutemo, ndiko kuti, hukama uye zviitiko zvinokura zvega; mutungamiri (nemamwe mamiriro ekunze) haapindire mukufamba kweboka (mutungamiri angave asina kwaakarerekera zvine mutsindo kana kuti anosanganisirwa muchirongwa ichi akaenzana nevamwe).

Boka rakadaro rinoratidzwa nematanho anotevera ekukura: kuzivana-kupesana-kuita-kufa. Kugovanisa basa kunowanzo kunotevera: mutungamiri, boka retsigiro, nyanzvi, mumwe mutungamiri, anodzingwa, mamwe mabasa. Iyo yakasarudzika nzira yekuumbwa kwehunhu, zvibodzwa uye zvimiro inoitika muboka (iro rinoshanda sehwaro hwekurwira kugoverwa kwechikamu munhanho yekupokana uyezve kugadzirisa chimiro chekupedzisira chevatori vechikamu, sekutaura, chinopa hwaro hwepfungwa. yechimiro chisina kurongeka cheboka) uye zvimwe zviitiko zvakajairwa zvekuchinja kweboka.

Boka reSynton rine misiyano yakakosha inotevera. Kutanga, haina kuvharwa uye, semugumisiro, kuumbwa kwayo hakuna kugadzikana. Mugore, vanhu vatsva vanoonekwa, vane ruzivo vanoenda. Chechipiri, kune mapoka makuru muSinton (kazhinji vanhu vanopfuura 20-25). Chechitatu, muSinton kune nheyo yekuronga - script, uye kune mutungamiri akajeka uye mutungamiri weboka - mutungamiri. Zviripachena, saka, iro boka rekuchinja muSyntone harina mwero. Ndiko kuti, ichiripo, uye mapatani ayo anoshanda. Asi kwete zvakananga sezviri muboka revanhu.

Izvo zvinodaidzwa kuti controlled group dynamics inoitika muSyntone. Uye inodzorwa nemugamuchiri (kana ichishanda sezvainofanirwa).

Chii chinomupa mukana wakadaro?

Kusununguka kweboka uye kugara uchiuya kwevanhu vatsva, pamwe nekungoshandura kuumbwa chaiko kweboka kubva pachidzidzo kuenda kuchidzidzo, hazvibvumidze vatori vechikamu kuti vapfuure nematanho ekukura kweboka. Boka iri panguva imwe chete muchikamu chekugadzira-kuzivana, uye muchikamu chekukakavadzana-basa rekugovera, uye muchikamu chekushanda kwakagadzikana. Uye nhanho yekukonana ndiyo ishoma kuratidzwa. Hwaro hwayo hwemukati (yemukati) - kupatsanurwa kwesimba kuburikidza nekurwira kodzero yekumisikidza zvimiro nehunhu - hazvina basa: sezvatakambotaura, mazhinji emukati-boka tsika, zvinangwa uye zvimiro zvinotsanangurwa (zvakavakirwa. pane vatori vechikamu uye ruzivo rwavakawana muzviitwa) nemutungamiri pachake. Anoitawo semutungamiri uye senyanzvi yakakungurutswa mune imwe.

Dzimwe nguva, zvisinei, mukufamba kwebasa, mutungamiri anotsauka, achiendesa hutungamiri muboka kune mumwe munhu anogona uye anoda kuhushandisa mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Iye pachake anotumira, iye pachake anotora shure kana nguva yakagoverwa yebasa yapera. Nechinguvana, zvese zvakajairika zviri kuitika muboka uye mabasa ari kugoverwa. Asi nguva dzese dzakafanana nekutanga. Mune mamwe maekisesaizi evatungamiriri vakajeka, mufambisi anonyima nemaune kutaura kana kunyange mukana wekutora chikamu kuitira kuti vamwe vese vasave nechido chekupomera chinhu chiri chose pamunhu akakurumbira.

Kazhinji, mufambisi anogadza zvose zviri zviviri tsika nezvinangwa, pamwe chete nekugovera basa muboka. Ndiko kuti, anoshingairira kuzvibata pahwaro hwechirongwa chekunyora. Asi mune mamwe mamiriro chaiwo, boka rinosangana nehupenyu hwese, pasina inishuwarenzi yemutungamiri, anotama kwenguva. Naizvozvo, kunyangwe paine vazhinji vakajeka uye vanoshingaira vatori vechikamu mumapoka eSyntonian, isu kazhinji haticherechedze hutungamiriri hwemunhu. Uye izvo zvinoreva kukakavara kwakaziviswa kwenguva refu.

Chokwadi, pane kusawirirana kwemamiriro ezvinhu. Uye kana dzichibatsira, mutungamiri anodzishandisa. Haazvirwi. Anobvunza mibvunzo uye makomendi, achinzvenga peremptory uye categorical. Ndiyo mamiriro ezvinhu anoita kuti boka reSynton rigone kurongeka uye kushanda zvakanaka kusvika pakupera kwekudzidziswa.

Nzvimbo yeboka uye chinzvimbo chemutungamiri

Muhoro munoshanda boka reSynton, sarudzo dzakadai dzekuronga nzvimbo dzinowanzo shandiswa.

  • Denderedzwa rekugara (kazhinji pahurukuro). Mutungamiri anogona kugara nemunhu wese uye kutora chikamu munhaurirano, kana anogona kunge ari kunze kwedenderedzwa achikanda mibvunzo nemabasa.
  • Denderedzwa rakamira (zvirongwa uye kuvhota nekukurumidza). Mutungamiri anogona kumira pamwechete nemunhu wese kana kuva mukati medenderedzwa (asina kumira panzvimbo imwechete, asi asingabwaire futi).
  • "Carousel" - madenderedzwa maviri akanyanya, apo vanhu vanowanzotarisana. Basa rinoenda vaviri vaviri, asi ne periodic shanduko yemudiwa. Muratidziri kazhinji ari kunze kwekarosi, kunyangwe zvichiitika kuti ari mukati.
  • Kugara denderedzwa-microgroups (hurukuro yenyaya, kujekeswa kwemaonero, kuumbwa kwemafungiro akafanana kana mhinduro). Mutungamiri anogona kugara pasi kuita madenderedzwa, uye anogona kufamba kubva kune rimwe boka kuenda kune rimwe.
  • Akamira mamicrogroups-timu (kazhinji maekisesaizi ane chekuita nekuita kwakananga). Mutungamiriri pano anotungamira hurongwa, saka ari padivi.
  • Kutenderera kwemahara uye misangano yevatori vechikamu. Kazhinji pamisangano yakadai-mini-hurukuro, misoro-mibvunzo inokurudzirwa. Uye muenzi anofamba achitenderedza horo pakati pevatori vechikamu uye anochengeta mamiriro ekushanda.
  • Vateereri vakatarisana nemugamuchiri, kana kuti "nhanho" (yekutamba, "goridhe" uye "black" chair, dzimwe "hurukuro-kumwoyo"). Kana mutauriri akatora pasi, angave ari panzvimbo yemukurukuri, uye kana achingoronga zviri kuitika, saka kazhinji pane imwe nzvimbo pamucheto we "stage".

Zvose izvi zvinzvimbo zvinosiyana kwete zvepamutemo chete, asiwo zvinokanganisa mafungiro uye maonero evatori vechikamu emabasa acho pachavo uye basa remufambisi.

PARTICIPANTS

Takatoona kuti vanhu vemuSinton chinhu chekuzvidira chete. Asi zvinobvepi zvakadaro? Kunyanya, maererano nehurukuro yedu, tinoiwana kupi uye sei?

Pane nzira nhatu dzechinyakare dzekukwezva vanhu kumapoka eSinton:

- zviziviso zvinonzwisisika;

- "shoko remuromo", apo avo vakatoshanyira chikwata vanounza vavanozivana navo neshamwari;

- anoronga mumabhuku eNI Kozlov. Vanhu vanoverenga mabhuku, kufona, kubvunza, huya kukirabhu.

Mukati mebasa, sezvatakambotaura, vamwe vanouya, vamwe vanoenda. Chokwadi, hapana ari kuzvidzora. Mubvunzo wekuti ungatsvaga kupi chinhu chinobatsira uye chakangwara chehupenyu hwako, munhu wese anozvisarudzira. Pano Synthon ndeimwe yesarudzo. Zvisinei, sarudzo yakanaka.

Zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti munhu mumwe chete haaendi makirasi muSinton kweanopfuura makore maviri (kashoma matatu). Hatina chinangwa chekuchengeta vanhu kwenguva yakareba sezvatinogona. Munhu anouya kuzozvitorera chimwe chinhu, ochitora, oti “mazvita” uye anoenderera mberi muupenyu, achishandisa zvaakagamuchira. Zvose zvakanaka. Synton yehupenyu (uye kumunhu), uye kwete zvinopesana.

Hazvigoneki kuti muenzi anofanira kunetseka kana munhu, apedza kosi, akarega kuuya kukirabhu. Kuzvidya mwoyo kunogona kukonzerwa nekuti Syntonian ari "kurembera" muchikwata, kana hupenyu hukuru huri kuitika kune munhu pano. Zvisinei, izvi kazhinji hazviitiki. Uye kana paine chero chinhu, muenzi anogona kutaura, kubvunza mibvunzo, kupa kufunga ...

KUSVIRA KWASYNTON KUMUNHU

Zviripachena, vezvepfungwa vanoshanda muSinton vane chimwe chinhu chakafanana munzira yavo kune vanhu, kubasa ravo, mumaonero avo epasirese uye mune zvesainzi uye zvedzidziso tsika.

Nhasi, semanzwisisiro andinoita, zvinowanzoomera varatidziri, kunyanya vanotanga, vachipesana nehunhu hunoshamisa hwesimba uye hunobudirira hwe "baba vakavamba" kuparadzanisa izvo muSynton zviri general Synton uye izvo zviri pachezvako Kozlov, kupusa uye kupusa kukopa nekubereka. Uye zvinokuvadza. KwaSinton uye neni pachangu. Vanhu vakasiyana, uye Nikolai Ivanovich - munhu.

Zvirongwa zvikuru zvemaitiro echisyntonian kumunhu (izvo, mumaonero angu, zvakadanwa zvakakodzera mubhuku rinonzi «Formula of Personality») ndezvizvi.

Mumunhu wese mune zvinopokana kwazvo vavariro nemaitiro. Hazvina kufanira kukudziridza zvose zvisina tsarukano. Naizvozvo, Sinton anofunga kushanda pane izvo hunhu hunoita kuti hupenyu hwemunhu huve hune hungwaru, hunyoro uye hunowedzera zvibereko kune vadiwa, kune vamwe uye, mune yakafara pfungwa, kune nzanga.

Panguva imwecheteyo, Sinton anodzivirira kudiwa kwemahara uye nekuziva kugamuchirwa kwechero sarudzo, ndiko kuti, anosarudza kusatyaira murunako uye pfungwa dzakajairika nedzidziso uye zvinodiwa. Izvi zvinonyatsoratidza zvose zvingasarudzwa uye zvinogona kuitika zvenguva pfupi uye kwenguva refu. Chinonyanya kukosha kuna Sinton kunaka, uye kwete kunyudzwa kusingaperi mukati mako, kubudirira kwemunhu, kumativi ose - kusanganisira kusachengeteka - kuzviziva, nezvimwewo. Izvi, zvisinei, hazvirevi kuti kunyudza, kubudirira kwemunhu, nezvimwewo (the nzira ndeyechokwadi) ndeyemwe kune nzira yeSinton. Iyi nzira yezvinokosha inoita kuti Sinton ienderane neAdler's personal psychology. Rangarira "kufarira kwake munharaunda"?

Sinton anorangarira kuti vanhu vakasiyana, uye hazvikodzere munhu wese nechiyero chimwe. Dai munhu wese ararama hupenyu hwakanaka sezvaanogona muchokwadi. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvichava nani pane kurega kuita zvakanaka zvachose. Uye ndiani anogona kuita zvakawanda - ngaaite zvakawanda. Mupfungwa iyi, hapana quantitative tsika. Chimiro igwara rehupenyu.

Syntone inotarisa pakukura kwemunhu ari pakati nepakati, uye kwete parutsigiro rweavhareji yemunhu anoshaya. Kutaura idi, ikoku kunoreva kuti Sinton haabatwi nokutarira munhu ane utano hwendangariro: “Munhu akanaka sei, murume mukuru sei!” Ichi hachisi chinangwa, ichi chinhu chakajairika. Murume mukuru? Fine. Uri kuitei nehutano uhwu? Uri kuishandisa kupi? Uye kazhinji - unoishandisa here kana kuzvitakura iwe pachako muhupenyu - uye ndizvo zvese?

Zvose izvi hazviregi kudiwa kwekuisa kurongeka kune avo vasina mupfungwa "vatano" zvakadaro. Asi budiriro haigumiri ipapo. Iyi inzira chiteshi. Vakaisa muhurongwa - zvinoreva kuti vakaunza pakutanga. Uye zvino rwendo runotanga. Rudyi?

Kuzvinatsiridza muSinton hachisi chinangwa, asi nzira. Nei munhu achizviita ari nani? Sinton anotenda kuti kana kugara kwemunhu munyika kwakanakira iye chete, saka wekupedzisira haazorasikirwi chero chinhu kubva pakubviswa kwemunhu akadaro kubva munyika. Ipapo munhu chishamiso chakavharika paari pamuviri wehupenyu. Kuti iye (akavandudzwa kana kuti ane nhamo), kuti haasi. Munhu anotanga kuva munyika paanotora chikamu mune chimwe chinhu chikuru kumupfuura.

Vanoti, "munhu wese akakosha semutengo wezvaanopokana nazvo." Uye ipapo kuvapo kwechokwadi munyika kunotanga kubva panguva apo munhu anotanga kudhura kupfuura iye pachake. Paanenge achinyanya kufarira chimwe chinhu uye mumwe munhu kunze kwake, mudiwa. Kunzwisisa uku kunoita kuti Sinton ienderane nepfungwa yaMaslow yekuzviita.

Zvisinei, zvose zviri pamusoro apa zvinogoneka chete pamwero womunhu anozvigadzirira, ndiko kuti, uyo akapfuura nepakati pechinhano chokufarira zvikuru munhu wake amene. Uye Synton anobatsirawo kupfuura izvi. Chaizvoizvo, Sinton, sekutonga, anowana munhu wese anouya kukirabhu pane imwe nhanho yekukura kwemunhu, apo munhu akamira nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana (zvakaoma, hazvisi pachena kuti chii chinotevera, usimbe, kuvhiringidzika mutsika - asi iwe. handizive chii). Vanhu vane matambudziko akasiyana, uye Sinton anobatsira kupfuura nedanho razvino kuenda kune rinotevera. Uye buritsa pfungwa yekuti nhanho inotevera (uye dambudziko) haisi yekupedzisira.

Sinton's "munhuwo zvake" ndiye uyo, paanenge achishumira kuvapo kwake zvakanaka, anoona mazviri kwete magumo pachayo, asi hwaro hwekudzoka kune mutsa uye kugadzira munyika. Azvipa amene mugove unodikanwa wengwariro (uye agamuchira kubva munyika icho chinodikanwa nokuda kweizvi), anoendesa kunze kumwe kwasara kwoushamwari, rudo, mutsa uye simba rokuchenjera.

KO SYNTHON INOFANIRA

Chirongwa

Ini handioni chikonzero chekuunza ese aripo Synthon zvirongwa kune imwe vhezheni. Asi, zvinodikanwa kuratidza kwavo nuances-misiyano uye kupa varatidziri mukana wekunyora zvirongwa zvavo. Kurudzira kubuda kwezvisarudzo zvitsva, asi bvunza vanyori kuti vape tsanangudzo yakadzama: nei zviri nani, zviri nyore uye zvinobudirira.

Nokufamba kwenguva, iwe unogona kusvika pamwero wekunzwisisa kwechisarudzo chega chega: yezera ripi uye mararamiro evanhu, kune zvikumbiro zvipi, nokuda kwemaonero enyika yevatungamiri.

Pamusoro pezvo, ndinoda kuona zvinyorwa zvakatemwa uye zvirongwa zvepedyo-Synthonic kudzidziswa zvichiramba zvichionekwa. Wakaita zvakanaka - tsanangura uye rega vanhu vashandise.

Zvinotungamira

Ini ndinofunga tinofanira kubvuma chokwadi chekuti vatungamiriri muSinton ndevematanho akasiyana. Iwo asina kusimba kwazvo anobviswa mukati mebasa (vanorega kuenda kwavari), mamwe anodhonzwa zvishoma nezvishoma (hupenyu hunovamanikidza). Zvakakosha kuti maworkshops, masemina ekudzidzisa, nekutsinhana kweruzivo zvikure.

Ndinofungidzira kudzidziswa kwevatungamiri sezvinotevera.

  • Basic seminar, kuzivana nechirongwa cheSynton (kana ndima yacho, kana zvichibvira).
  • Wekishopu, masemina epamusoro akasiyana (uye kunze kweSinton, kana kusati kwave muSinton, uye pamwe kuchave kusisipo), kuwedzera hunyanzvi hwese uye kuishandisa kune Sinton chaiyo.
  • Kuvandudza uye maitiro emakirasi ega, makosi, masemina muchirongwa cheSynton kana kuwedzera pairi.
  • Kudzidzisa vamwe izvo mutungamiri mukuru pazviri.
  • Kuwana kune iyo nhanho yekuvandudza ideological uye kusimudzira kweSinton.

Zviripachena, zvinofanirwa kugamuchirwa kuti muSynthon panofanirwa kunge paine nzira dzakasiyana dzekuita zvinhu. Kutanga, mumvuri wega wega munzira yakajairika, uye nekufamba kwenguva, yavo "zvikoro" zvavo.

Handicraft

Neizvi ndinoreva kushanda zvinoenderana netemplate, pasina mweya.

Ndakaona basa revadzidzi-vanodzidza nezvepfungwa uye nevanoshanda navo zvakanyanya. Imwe muenzaniso iri pachena pano: kushaya ruzivo kunozadzwa nechido. Kutaura zvazviri, kana achitungamirira boka, munhu anotanga, zvishoma, kutaura «mwoyo nemwoyo» nenzira yaachiri kuziva kuita, asi iye zvino anonzwa «zvakarurama». Ndiko kusaka richipinda mumweya wemunhu. Kubva pane zvakanakisisa zvezvinangwa, zvakajeka uye zvinogutsa. Chete haisi yakachengeteka nguva dzose: mweya weachangobva kuumbwa waunoshanda naye kazhinji hauna kugadzirira kupindira kwakadaro, uye kazhinji hauna kutariswa kune maonero emumwe. Kazhinji, mutungamiri mutsva anozviwana mune imwe (zvichida kunzwisisa kwake, uye kunyange zvake, sezvavanotaura, matambudziko) uye anoita izvi.

Nokudaro, chikamu chekutanga chekudzidzira kweunyanzvi mubasa repfungwa chinonyanya kuenderana nekuisa hutano hwakadaro hwemhizha: hapana chinhu chega - iwe uri kubasa!

Ini ndinosimbisa zvakasimba: hapangave nehukama hwemunhu nemutengi. Mutungamiri inyanzvi, basa rake nderekushandisa nemazvo maturusi uye kuwana mhedzisiro. Tsitsi kunzwira munhu tsitsi, uye kwete kumukwevera mumhepo yake yemukati.

Maiwe, zvidziviriro zvakadaro zvekuchengetedza zvinoruramiswa: vazhinji veavo vepfungwa vandinoziva vane hunhu chaizvo mukuti vanochengeta mweya yavo nezvose zviri kuitika mairi kure nemunhu akauya kuzobatsirwa.

Nenzira, maitiro mazhinji anoshanda nemaitiro emaoko. Kazhinji izvi zvakakwana. Hapana chinhu chinoshamisa pano: hari yakagadzirwa nemhizha yakanaka uye ine ruzivo inogonawo kuzadzwa nemvura, pamwe chete nendiro, iyo ibasa rekugadzira.

Saka sarudzo yakadaro yekudzidzira, apo chirongwa chacho chinowanzo "kubudiswa" pahutano hwakanaka hwemhizha, inogona kazhinji kuva nani (maererano nemigumisiro uye kubva pakuona kwehutsika) pane kukanda kwechisimba kwemanzwiro ekudonha. Ndakasangana neavo uye nevamwe uye ndinovimbisa kutaura: zviri nani kuve neavhareji yakanaka pane nemweya, asi yakaipa. Ndiani ari nani? Kune vavanoshanda navo.

Zvisinei, ndinotenda kuti kuchine «nyanzvi uye nemweya» sarudzo. Ndokunge, kana iyo tekinoroji uye hunyanzvi nhanho payakanyanya kunaka, uye mweya wakaiswa mari. Ipapo ndipo pazvinobuda kuva basa riri pedyo nehunyanzvi - kwete chete kune bhenefiti, asi kunaka kunozvarwa. Zvisinei, izvi hazvisi nguva dzose uye kwete kwose kwose. Vanhu vapenyu. Zvichida hapana matambudziko makuru, asi kune ayo ari "pano uye ikozvino". Uye ipapo hunyanzvi hunonunura virtuoso.

General mhedziso: kana nyanzvi inogona kuita chimwe chinhu nemweya, regai aite. Uye kana zvinhu zvose zvisina kunaka mumweya, saka regai nyanzvi ishande, uye kwete matambudziko ake epfungwa.

  mamiriro

Simba chairo repakati riri musimba rayo (kureva, mukuchengetedza kunaka kwebasa revatungamiriri, mukuvandudzwa kutsva, mukuronga nhamburiko uye mukutsigira avo vari munzira yekuve) uye muhupamhi hwemiganhu uye zvigadziriso zvinobvumira zvinhu zvakawanda kuti zviedzwe, zvitsvake uye zviwanikwe zvakanakisa nechivimbo murutsigiro rwenzvimbo ino. Nokudaro, chimiro chemazuva ano - mapoka, makirabhu, nzvimbo dzakapoteredza nyika - ichachengetedzwa.

Ndinotenda kuti zvakanaka kukurudzira kusarudzwa kwezvisiri zvekutengesa (kureva kuti, kwete pamitengo ye "zvakaraswa") makosi esatellite echirongwa cheSynton chevadzidzi vavo veSynton. Pane mabhenefiti matatu pano: vanhu vanowana zvavanoda uye izvo zvisina kufanira muchirongwa cheSynthon (semuenzaniso, masemina ekudzidzisa chete), Synton anowana mukurumbira pakati peavo vasina kunyatsoifarira, uyezve, sezvo mazhinji ekudzidziswa uku ari. pane umbozha pane hupenyu hwemazuva ese, mari. Iyo yekupedzisira ichaita kuti zvikwanise kuchengetedza mari yenhengo yeSynton yakaderera. Zvinobuda payback pasina kubira.

vanhu

Muchokwadi chaicho, ndinovimba kuti hapana chichachinja: vanhu vachakwanisa kurarama vasina Sinton, asi Sinton acharamba achiedza kuita zvakanaka zvakanyanya sezvinobvira. Uye vanhu vari pano vachagamuchira nokuzvidira izvo zvichavabvumira kuita kuti hupenyu hwavo uye avo vakavapoteredza hudziye, hungwaru, hunyoro uye hunobudirira.

Kana iri yemhando yekuumbwa, ndinotenda kuti miganhu yezera (17-40 yemakore) haizoshanduki zvakanyanya. Asi hushamwari hwevadzidzi pamusoro pevashandi vechidiki, sezviri pachena, huchadzikira. Pachave nevakawanda veavo vari kutoita chimwe chinhu muhupenyu, uye saka havafariri "zvizhinji zvehupenyu", asi zvakananga: "ndingaita sei (kurarama) kuitira kuti ...". Nokudaro, pachava nekugadzirisa zvinangwa zvine musoro, zvinoreva kuti pachava nemigumisiro yakadzama.

Mazano netsika

Uye izvi zvese zvichange zviri muSinton, uye zvese izvi zvichave Sinton. Nokuti pano hwaro chinhu chimwe: kutarisira vanhu uye chido kuti vararame akajeka, munyoro, akachenjera zvose mukati mavo uye nomumwe. Mune mamwe mapoka, izvi zvichange zvichibva mukukudziridza tsika yekukurukurirana, pane imwe nzvimbo - pakunzwisisa hupenyu hwehupenyu uye ruzivo rwevamwe, pane imwe nzvimbo - pane ruzivo rwakakwana uye rune chinangwa chehukama hwevanhu, pane imwe nzvimbo - pakunyudzwa mukati menyika yemukati. Asi chinhu chikuru chicharamba chiripo: hazvina kukwana kusaita zvakaipa, hazvina kukwana kunyange kurwisana nezvakaipa, munhu anofanira kuita zvakanaka. Uye kuzviita nesimba uye zvinogoneka. Uye kusimba chete.

Asi kwete nechisimba. Mhirizhonga yakapfava, ine mutsa (kana kumanikidza, kana uchida) inogoneka kana vanhu vakatarisira nzira iyi, kurudzira, uye nekushingaira kuibatsira. Asi izvi hazvina kufanana neakaomesesa masisitimu uye zvirevo zvekupedzisira: "zvingave zvakadaro kana kwete zvachose." Muchiitiko chekupedzisira, chekutanga, vazhinji vanongosiya uye vasina chavanowana; chechipiri, panogona kunge paine kurasikirwa kwakanyanya - kugona uye chido chekuzviita iwe pachako. Ipapo uya anopfura anofanira kumira ari pedyo nguva dzose kuitira kuti imwe sando irege kutyaira mune chimwe chinhu chake.

Tinoda kubatsira vanhu kuzvigadzira. Aya ndiwo manzwire azvinoita mumakirasi edu: “Sarudzo yako ibhizinesi rako. Uye yangu ndeyekukubatsira iwe kuita sarudzo yakasununguka: ndiko kuti, kuziva kuti chii chaunosarudza, chii chinotevera uye chii chauchafanira kubhadhara. Asi iwe unosarudza. Uye ndiwe une mhosva pazviri.”

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