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"Mwanasikana wangu aifunga kuti takaberekwa tiri vachena uye kuti takakura tiri vatema sezvataikura ..."
Uchapupu hwaMariam, makumi mana nemaviri, naPaloma, gumi
Ndakatora Paloma mushure mekunge mwana wamai vangu afa. Paloma akanga ava nemakore anopfuura matatu. Achiri mudiki aifunga kuti wakaberekwa uri muchena uye kuti waikura uri mutema. Aiva nechokwadi kuti ganda rake raizofanana nerangu. Akaodzwa mwoyo zvikuru pandakamutsanangurira kuti zvakanga zvisina kudaro chaizvoizvo. Ndakamuudza nezvekusawirirana, vabereki vangu, mhuri yedu, nhoroondo yake. Ainyatsozvinzwisisa. Akandiudza rimwe zuva "Ndinogona kunge ndakachena kunze, asi ndakasviba mumoyo mangu." Munguva ichangopfuura, akandiudza kuti “chinokosha ndizvo zviri mumwoyo”. Unstoppable !
Kufanana nevasikana vaduku vose, anoda chaasina. Paloma ane vhudzi rakatwasuka uye zviroto zvekuva nemakarukwa, akawedzera, vhudzi rakaputika "segore", senge afro hairstyle yandaive nayo kwechinguva. Anoona mhino yangu yakanaka kwazvo. Matauriro ake, matauriro ake, anenge akafanana neni. Muchirimo, takasviba, tinomutora kuti tiite rudzi rwakasanganiswa uye hazvishamisi kuti vanhu vafunge kuti mwanasikana wangu wekubereka!
Takagara muMarseille kwandakatsvaga chikoro chakaenderana nezvachinoda, kunhoroondo yacho inorema. Ari muchikoro chemhando dzakasiyana-siyana chinoshandisa Freinet pedagogy, nekudzidza kunoenderana nemwana wega wega, nemakirasi akarongwa nembiri, uko vana vanopihwa simba, vanodzidza zvakaringana vakazvimiririra uye nekumhanya kwavo. . Zvinoenderana nedzidzo yandinomupa uye inondiyananisa nechikoro, izvo zvandakavenga pachangu. Zvese zviri kufamba zvakanaka, ane vana vanobva kwakasiyana siyana. Asi ini ndinomugadzirira zvishoma kukoreji, kumibvunzo inogona kubvunzwa kwaari, kune fungidziro dzaanokwanisa kunzwa.
Pane kutaura kwakawanda pamusoro perusaruraganda, pamusoro pekuti ruvara rweganda runogona sei kuziva kuti munhu achabatwa sei. Ndinomuudza kuti saamai mutema, pamwe ndichatariswa zvakasiyana. Tinotaura pamusoro pezvese, colonialism, George Floyd, ecology… Kwandiri, zvakakosha kumutsanangurira zvese, hapana chirevo. Zvandiri kusangana naPaloma zvakatosiyana nezvandakasangana nazvo naamai vangu vari murungu. Aifanira kuenda kumberi nguva dzese, kundirwira, kutarisana nepfungwa dzerusaruraganda. Nhasi, handizivi kana imhaka yekuti Paloma ane ganda rakareruka, kana ari tsoka dzangu nhanhatu uye musoro wangu wakaveurwa unoumanikidza, unorayira ruremekedzo, kana iri yekutenda kuMarseille siyana, asi zviri kufamba zvakanaka. “
“Ndinoona sekuti zviri nyore kuvana vangu, kana zvichienzaniswa nezvandakasangana nazvo ndichiri mwana. “
Uchapupu hwaPierre, ane makore makumi matatu nemanomwe, baba vaLino, vane makore gumi nematatu okukura, Numa, makore gumi uye Rita, 37 makore
Pandaiva mudiki, nguva dzose zvaifungwa kuti ndakarerwa nevabereki vasiri vavo. Zvaitoda kutsanangura kuti chokwadi ndaiva mwana wababa vangu nekuti murungu. Pataienda kunotenga zvinhu, baba vangu vakatozozvipembedza kuti ndiripo nokutaura kuti ndiri kuvaperekedza. Zvaiva zvakajairika kuti vanhu vanditevere muchitoro kana kutarisa kubvunza. Patakaenda kuBrazil, kunobva amai vangu, baba vangu vaifanira kuratidza mubereki wedu zvakare. Zvaipedza simba. Ndakakurira munzvimbo yakapfuma, isina kunyanya kusanganiswa. Nguva zhinji ndini ndaiva ndega mutema pachikoro changu. Ndakanzwa mashoko akawanda emuganho, achigadziriswa ne "oh asi iwe, hazvina kufanana". Ini ndaiva kunze uye mashoko aya anofanira kutorwa serumbidzo. Ndinowanzotaura, kuseka, kuti dzimwe nguva ndine pfungwa yekuve "fake", chena mumuviri wevatema.
Ndine fungidziro yekuti zvakasiyana kuvana vangu, matatu mablondes madiki! Iko hakuna yakawandisa iyi fungidziro yekurerwa nenzira iyoyo. Vanhu vanogona kushamisika, vanogona kunge vakaita se "hey, havana kufanana", asi ndizvozvo. Ndinonzwa kutaridzika kwekuda kuziva kana tiri tese pane imwe nzira yekufamba uye mumwe wavo anondidaidza kuti daddy. Asi zviri kutoita kuti ndiseke. Uye ini ndinoiridzawo: Ndakadzidza kuti mwanakomana wangu mukuru akanga achinetswa kuchikoro. Ndakaenda kunomutora rimwe zuva ndabva kucollege. Ne afro yangu, ma tatoo angu, mhete dzangu, zvaive nemhedzisiro. Kubva ipapo vana vakamusiya ega. Zvakare nguva pfupi yadarika, Lino akandiudza, pandakaenda kunomutora kudhibha: “Ndine chokwadi chekuti vanokutora semuchengeti wemba kana mutyairi wangu”. Zvinorevesa: aya anosarura vanhu. Handina kuita zvakawanda panguva iyi, ndiko kekutanga kundiudza zvakadai, zvakandishamisa. Anofanira kunzwa zvinhu kuchikoro kana kuti kumwewo uye chingava chidzidzo, chinomunetsa.
Vamwe vana vangu vaviri vane chokwadi chokuti vakavhengana, seni, asi ivo vakachena uye vakanaka! Vanonyatsobatanidzwa netsika dzeBrazil, vanoda kutaura chiPutukezi uye kupedza nguva yavo vachitamba, kunyanya mwanasikana wangu. Kwavari, Brazil ndiyo Carnival, mimhanzi, kutamba nguva dzose. Havana kukanganisa zvachose… Kunyanya sezvo vakajaira kuona amai vangu vachitamba kwese kwese, kunyangwe mukicheni. Saka ndinoedza kuvapa iyi nhaka yakapetwa kaviri, kuvadzidzisa chiPutukezi. Taifanira kuenda kuBrazil zhizha rino, asi denda rakapfuura ikoko. Rwendo urwu runoramba ruri pachirongwa. “
“Ndaifanira kudzidza kugadzira bvudzi romwanasikana wangu. “
Uchapupu hwaFrédérique, ane makore 46, amai vaFleur, vane makore gumi nematatu.
Ndagara muLondon kwemakore anopfuura makumi maviri, uye Fleur akaberekerwa ikoko. Akasanganiswa dzinza nababa vake vanove Chirungu neScotland, vane Caribbean mabviro, kubva kuSaint Lucia. Saka ndaifanira kudzidzira kugadzira bvudzi remwanasikana wangu. Kwete nyore! Pakutanga, ndakaedza zvigadzirwa kuti zvivadyise uye nekuzviparadzanisa, zvigadzirwa izvo zvaisawanzo fanira. Ndakabvunza shamwari dzangu nhema kuti dzindipe mazano, ndakatarisawo kune zvitoro zvehunyanzvi munharaunda yangu kuti ndizive kuti ndezvipi zvigadzirwa zvekushandisa pabvudzi iri. Uye ndinobvuma, ndaifanirawo kuvandudza, sevabereki vazhinji. Nhasi, ane maitiro ake, zvigadzirwa zvake uye anoita bvudzi rake ega.
Tinogara mudunhu reLondon umo mune musanganiswa mukuru wetsika nezvitendero. Chikoro chaFleur chakavhengana zvakanyanya, zvese zvemagariro netsika. Shamwari dzemwanasikana wangu dzepamoyo ndiJapan, Scottish, Caribbean uye Chirungu. Vanodya kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, vanowana humwe hunyanzvi. Handisati ndambonzwa rusaruraganda pano pamwanasikana wangu. Zvinogona kunge zviri nekuda kwekusanganiswa kweguta, nharaunda yangu kana kuedza kunoitwa, zvakare kuchikoro. Gore rega rega, pachiitiko che "Black History Month", vadzidzi vanodzidza, kubva kuchikoro chepuraimari, uranda, mabasa uye hupenyu hwevanyori vatema, nziyo. Gore rino, Humambo hweBritish nekoloni yeChirungu zviri pachirongwa, nyaya inomukira mwanasikana wangu!
Nekufamba kwe "Black Lives Matter", Fleur akazununguswa nenhau. Akaita mifananidzo kutsigira sangano, anonzwa kunetseka. Nyaya idzi tinodzitaura takawanda kumba, nemumwe wanguwo anobatikana nenyaya idzi.
Pakanga pari mukati menzendo dzedu dzokudzoka nokuenda kuFrance apo ndakapupurira mirangariro yorusaruraganda pamusoro pomwanasikana wangu, asi zvakanga zviri, sezvineiwo, zvomenemene. Munguva ichangopfuura, Fleur akakatyamadzwa kuona mune imwe imba yemhuri chifananidzo chikuru chechikomba chitema, muchimiro chemuranda, chine magirovhosi machena. Akandibvunza kana zvaive zvakajairika kuti ndive neizvi kumba. Kwete, kwete chaizvo, uye zvaigara zvichindigumbura. Ndakaudzwa kuti kwakanga kusiri hazvo utsinye kana rusaruraganda, kuti rudzi urwu rweshongedzo rwaigona kuva rwakanga rwuri mufashoni. Iyi inharo yandisati ndambowana inogutsa, asi handisati ndashinga kutaura nemusoro wenyaya. Pamwe Fleur achashinga, gare gare… "
Hurukuro naSidonie Sigrist