Mukati
Vanessa, 35, amai vaGabriel, 6, uye Anna, 2 nehafu. Recruitment and training officer
“Ndakange ndaita zvibvumirano zvenguva yakatarwa semukuru wezvekufambiswa kwemashoko uye ndaifanira kusimbiswa mushure mekudzoka kwangu kubva kuzororo rekusununguka. Asi ndakagamuchira tsamba mazuva mashomanana ndisati ndandiudza kuti zvaisazova zvakadaro. Saka ndaifanira kudzokera kubasa kwemavhiki maviri, nguva yekugadzirisa kondirakiti yangu yekupedzisira.
Husiku hwakaipa sei hwandakapedza zuva rapfuura! Uye mangwanani, ndakanga ndine bundu mudumbu mangu. Yakanga iri mavhiki maviri asina kugadzikana zvakanyanya ehupenyu hwangu hwese hwebasa! Vandinoshanda navo vakafara kundiona. Asi handina kukwanisa kudzosera mafaera angu mumaoko, haana kuita rhyme nechero chinhu. Ndakambotenderera pakati pemahofisi kuti nditaure nyaya yangu. Mazuva aya akagara nekusingaperi. Sezvineiwo Gabriel akachengetwa namai vangu saka kuparadzana kwacho hakuna kunyanyonetsa.
Zvisinei, vasati vanzwa mashoko akaipa aya, zvose zvakanga zvakanaka. Basa iri ndairida. Ndakanga ndatumira munhu wese chiziviso chekuzvarwa, ndakachengeta mameseji akanaka, ndakagamuchira tsamba yekukorokotedza kubva kuvakuru vangu. Muchidimbu, yaive shawa inotonhora. Ndakaverengazve tsamba yacho kagumi. Ichokwadi kuti mumwe mushandi akanga atobhadhara nokuda kworudzi urwu rwokurapwa, asi ndakanga ndisingazvitarisiri zvachose. I had only sticking my pay leave with my maternity leave, I had no intention of asking for parental leave kana part time, but I imagine that was the kind of fear yavainayo.
Ndakanga ndiri pamoto, ndakapa zvose!
Ndakanga ndashatirwa zvikuru, ndakaodzwa mwoyo, mukuvhunduka, asi handina kuparira nyadzi. Ndaisada kusiya chimiro chakashata kwandiri, ndakasarudza kutaura zvakanaka kuvanhu chinyararire. I had invested so much in this position, I was sure that I was going to be established. Kunyange panguva yemimba yangu, ndaipisa moto, ndaipa zvose, kusanganisira mangwanani-ngwanani kana pakupera kwevhiki. Ndakanga ndawedzera kuonda uye ndakanga ndasununguka mwedzi nehafu pachine nguva.
Dai zvakaitika kwandiri nhasi, zvingave zvakasiyana! Asi maitirwo emutemo, dai ndakanga ndatanga, akavimbisa kuti aizononoka. Uye ndakanga ndapera simba. Gabrieri akanga akarara zvakaipa.
Ndakanyanya kufunga nezvekutsvaga kwangu basa. Uye mushure mekubvunzurudzwa katatu kwandakaitwa kuti ndinzwisise (zvishoma pakati pemitsetse!) Kuti kuva nemwana ane mwedzi mitanhatu okuberekwa kwakanditadzisa kukodzera, ndakatanga kudzidziswazve ... muvanhu. Mushure mekuita basa rakabatikana mukambani yekupinza vanhu basa (kushushikana, kudzvanywa, maawa marefu, zvifambiso zvakawanda), ndinoshanda mudhipatimendi reHR renharaunda. “
Nathalie, ane makore 40, amai vaGabriel, 5 makore, Concept uye Merchandising maneja mune imwe kambani hombe.
"Ndinorangarira zuva racho zvakanaka, wanga uri Muvhuro Kubvumbi 7, Gabriel aive nemwedzi mitatu. Pakupera kwevhiki, ndakatora nguva ndiri ndega, ndaiitwa massage. Ndaida chaizvo. Kusununguka kwangu (mwedzi nehafu kare kupfuura zvaitarisirwa) hakuna kufamba zvakanaka. Chikwata chevakadzi vanosununguka - muzviito zvavo nemashoko - zvakandisiya ndiine pfungwa yekusagadzikana yandakanga ndisati ndambonzwa.
Kwaari kwaive kurasisa
Ipapo, ndakava nedambudziko rakawanda kuwana mhinduro yekuchengeta Gabi. Kwaingove vhiki chete kuti kutangazve kwandakawana muchengeti weimba yangu. Kusununguka chaiko! Kubva pakuona uku, kudzokera kwangu kubasa kwakanga kusina kunyanya kuoma. Handina kumhanya kuseni kunosiya ndave nechivimbo.
Asi kubva pandakazivisa kuti ndine pamuviri, ukama nasupervisor wangu hwakanga husina kumira zvakanaka. Zvaakaita “Haungandiiti izvi! akanga andiodza mwoyo. Kwaari, kwaiva kunyengera. Pasinei nekumira kwangu basa pamwedzi mitanhatu yekuzvitakura nekuda kwechirwere cheshuga chekuzvitakura, ndakashanda kubva kumba kusvika zuva risati rasununguka, zvichida zvishoma kunze kwemhosva. Uye ndakazonzwisisa nguva yapera kuti kambani yaisazombondipa chenji yemari yangu ... Pamusoro pezvo, ndakanga ndawedzera huremu panguva yekuzvitakura (22 kg) uye chimiro chitsva ichi (nembatya dzakasununguka dzandaienda nadzo. hide) haina kukwana zvakanyanya nemhepo yebhokisi rangu ... Ndichisvika kubasa hapana chainge chachinja. Hapana akanga abata desk rangu. Zvese zvainge zvaramba zviri panzvimbo yazvo sekunge ndainge ndabva nezuro wacho. Kwakanga kwakanaka, asi neimwe nzira, kwakaisa dzvinyiriro huru. Kwandiri, zvaireva kuti "Iwe une basa rako rakakunakira iwe, hapana atora nzvimbo kubva zvawakaenda". Vandaishanda navo, avo vakafara kundiona ndichidzoka, vakandigamuchira nounyoro uye kudya kwemangwanani kwakanaka zvikuru. Ndakadzorera mafaira angu, ndakagadzirisa maemail angu. Ndakatambirwa neHRD kuti nditaure.
Ndaifanira kudzokorora ma proofs angu
Zvishoma nezvishoma, ndakanzwisisa kuti handikwanise kutora chimwe chinzvimbo kana kushanduka sezvandaida, ndaifanira "kudzokorodza humbowo hwangu", "kuratidza kuti ndakanga ndichiri kugona". Mukuona kwevakuru vangu, ndakanzi “amai vemhuri” uye ndaiva nechido chokumbozorora. Izvi zvakandivhiringidza zvikuru, nokuti chokwadi, ndakambova amai, ndakanga ndisisina chido chokushanda ovhataimu manheru, asi zvakanga zviri kwandiri kuti ndisarudze kuti ndorega here kana kuti kwete, kwete kune vamwe. kumanikidzira sefait accompli. Ndakazosiya basa pashure pemakore maviri. Mubhizimisi rangu idzva, ndakabva ndazviisa pachangu uye ndakatora mutoro saamai uyewo senyanzvi yakazvipira, nokuti mumwe haadzivisi mumwe. “.
Adeline, 37, amai vaLila, 11, naMahé, 8. Mubatsiri wekuchengeta vana
“Ndakanga ndatora mwedzi mitanhatu yezororo revabereki. Ndakanga ndiri mubatsiri wechinangwa, kureva kuti ndakapfura pane akati wandei emunisiparati, maererano nezvinodiwa. Asi ndakanga ndichiri kubatanidzwa kune mumwe wavo kunyanya. Ndisati ndatangazve, ndakatumira chiziviso kukireshi yekumba kwangu, ndakapa Lila kune vandaishanda navo avo vakandikorokotedza uye vakandipa zvipo zvidiki. Chinongonetsa ndechekuti zvakatora nguva yakareba kundizivisa nezve nursery yangu yekumba itsva. Uye handina kuziva kuti ndaigona riini kuisa pasi maRTT angu maviri pamwedzi. Ndakafona kuti ndiwane ruzivo, asi hazvina kumbobvira zvanyatsojeka.
Ndakafara kuona vanhu
Paivawo nehanya yerudzi rwekuchengeta vana. Ndaiva nechokwadi chokuti ndaizowana nzvimbo mukireshi yemhuri, asi mwedzi mumwe chete ndisati ndatangazve, ndakaudzwa kuti kwete. Taitofanira kutsvaga nanny nekuchimbidza. Kugadzirisa kwakatanga svondo risati rasvika kavha yangu yepamutemo. Asi neChina, njodzi, ndaifanira kuenda kuchipatara. Ndakanga ndine ectopic pregnancy! Mazuva aitevera zvaindishungurudza. Lila kuna nanny uye ini ndega pamba ...
Ndakazodzokera kubasa kwapera mavhiki matatu pane zvandaitarisira, Lila aine mwedzi 9 chaiyo. Chakanakira nyaya iyi ndechekuti mangwanani aisachema, kana neniwo. Isu tainge tatojaira. Pakupedzisira, handina kuchinja nzvimbo yevabereki. Ndakatora pamusoro pe80%, handina kushanda neChishanu, kana imwe Chipiri chega chega. Lila aiita mazuva mapfupi: baba vake vakauya kuzomutora kuma16 manheru
Zuva rokutanga, ndaifanira kutarisira mumwe Lila muduku, masaona anosetsa! Ndinoyeuka kuti chikamu chakaomesesa chaive mangwanani, kugadzirira, kudya kwemasikati, kumutsa Lila, kumuisa pasi, kusvika nenguva… Kana zviri zvimwe, ndine rombo rakanaka! Mukireshi, macurves uye zvipfeko zvinotonhorera hazvivhunduse chero munhu! Uye ndakafara kuwana vandaishanda navo, kuona vanhu. Chokwadi ndechokuti nokuva amai, ndakava anoshivirira vabereki! Ndinonzwisisa zvirinani kuti sei tisingagone kushandisa misimboti yedzidzo yatinotenda mazviri… "