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Uye iyi stereotype pamusoro pepabonde ichiri kugara mupfungwa dzevarume nevakadzi vakawanda. Zvinorambwa nenyanzvi dzedu, nyanzvi dzezvepabonde Alain Eril naMireille Bonyerbal.
Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Pano tiri kutarisana zvachose nengano dzeJudeo-Christian civilization, iyo, ichivimba nekunyengera kwakawanda, vakadzi vanodzvinyirirwa pasi pechikonzero chokuti, nekuda kwekusagutsikana kwavo kwevakadzi, havafaniri kubvumirwa kufara zvachose. Muzana ramakore rechiXNUMX, nzanga yakatonyanya kunetseka pazvakazoonekwa kuti pane imwe chikamu chekutenderera, mukadzi aisakwanisa kubata pamuviri. Izvi zvinoreva kuti panguva ino, bonde kwaari harina kururamiswa nekubereka, nepo murume anogona kubata mwana nekubuda chero kupi.
Sei vakadzi pane mamwe mazuva vasiri pasi pemaitiro ekubereka? Mubvunzo uyu wakakonzera kunetseka. Zvino nyaya iyi ine clitoris yakawanikwa zvakare - nhengo inounza mufaro, asi neimwe nzira haina maturo zvachose!
Varume vanokwanisa kuwana mafaro ane simba zvakanyanya, uye hapana chikonzero chekufunga kuti manzwiro evakadzi akasimba.
Vakadzi vanowana mafaro vave kwenguva refu vasingagamuchiriki munzanga. Zvinonzwisisika kuti nei varoyi (vaitenda kuti vanoenda kusabata kuti vanobatana nadhiyabhorosi muchimiro chembudzi) vairatidzwa vakatasva mutsvairo - zvakaoma kufungidzira chiratidzo chakajeka chephallic. Hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti vakadzi vazhinji vakapisirwa pamatanda vachivapomera kuti varoyi.
Mireille Bonierbal, chiremba wepfungwa, nyanzvi yezvepabonde:
Iyi stereotype inoreva pfungwa yemukadzi sechisikwa chisingaguti chinodya vamwe. Asi kunze kwaTiresias, svikiro renhoroondo kubva kuPhoebus, aive nerombo rakakwana rekuve mukadzi kwemakore manomwe uye akadzidza kubva mukati mehunhu hwekunakidzwa kwepabonde kwevaviri, hapana anokwanisa kukoshesa kuenzaniswa kwesimba rekunzwa neruzivo. yenyaya.
Masayendisiti (somuenzaniso, Austrian psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich) akaedza kuyera kusimba kwemafaro, asi mhedzisiro yezviyero zvakadaro inozviisa pasi. Varume vanokwanisa kuwana mafaro ane simba zvakanyanya, uye hapana chikonzero chekufunga kuti manzwiro evakadzi akasimba.