Mukati
Musi waFebruary 2, Netflix yakaburitsa chinyorwa "The Tinder Swindler" nezve mutsotsi weIsrael uyo akabatwa nevakadzi kubva kuCentral neNorthern Europe waakasangana naye paTinder. Mhedzisiro yevazivikanwi ava kune heroines yakagara yakafanana - mwoyo wakaputsika, kushaya mari uye kutya kwehupenyu hwavo. Ndedzipi mhedziso dzatingatora kubva munyaya iyi?
Inotungamirirwa naFelicity Morris, iyo firimu yakatonzi shanduro yemazuva ano yeSteven Spielberg's Catch Me If You Can. Iwo akafanana chaizvo: vatambi vakuru vanobudirira kunyepedzera sevamwe vanhu, vanonyepera magwaro, vanorarama nemari yemumwe munhu uye vanoramba vasinganzwisisike kumapurisa kwenguva yakareba. Chete pano hazvigoneke kunzwira tsitsi munyengeri weIsrael. Tinokuudza chikonzero.
Murume Akakwana
Simon Leviev mwanakomana webhirioni uye CEO wekambani yake yekugadzira madhaimondi. Chii chinozivikanwa nezvake? Pamusana pebasa rake, murume wacho anomanikidzwa kufamba zvakanyanya - Instagram yake (sangano rinotyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia) rakazara nemifananidzo yakatorwa pama yachts, jets yega uye mumahotera anodhura. Uye anoda kuwana mudiwa.
Pakupedzisira, anomuwana paTinder - mumunhu weNorway Cecile Fellhol, akatamira kuLondon. Pashure pokunge asangana kunwa kofi, murume wacho anomukoka kuBulgaria, uko iye, pamwe chete neboka rake, vaifanira kuenda kubasa. Uye mushure memazuva mashoma vanova vaviri.
Sezvo ari munzendo dzebhizimisi nguva dzose, Simon aisakwanisa kuona musikana wake nguva dzose, asi airatidzika semudiwa akakodzera: aigara achitaura, aitumira mavhidhiyo akanaka uye mameseji ekuteerera, akapa maruva uye zvipo zvinodhura, akati anomuona sewake. mudzimai naamai vevana vake . Uye pashure pemwedzi mishomanana, akatozvipira kugara pamwe chete.
Asi munguva imwe chete zvinhu zvose zvakachinja zvikuru
Vavengi — vakwikwidzi mubhizimusi remadhaimani, avo vakatyisidzira Simon, vakaedza kumuuraya. Nekuda kweizvozvo, murindi wake akakuvara, uye muzvinabhizinesi akamanikidzwa kusiya maakaundi ake ese nemakadhi ekubhangi - kuti asatsvakwa.
Saka Cecile akatanga kubatsira mumwe wake nemari, nekuti aifanira kuramba achishanda, achikwira negotiations, chero zvodii. Akapa kadhi rekubhanga rakatorwa muzita rake, ndokutora chikwereti, chechipiri, chetatu… Uye mushure mechinguva akaona kuti aigara nezvikwereti zvipfumbamwe uye nevimbiso dzaSimon dzekuti “aizongopedza” kusunungura maakaundi. uye dzorera zvose.
Shimon Hayut, se "millionaire" anonyatso kunzi, hongu, haana kudzoka chero chinhu uye akaramba achifamba-famba muEurope, achinyengera vamwe vakadzi. Asi zvakadaro, akabatwa - nekuda kwebasa rakabatana revatapi venhau, mapurisa nevamwe vakawirwa nenjodzi, vane nyaya dzatinoziviswawo nemutungamiriri.
Tinder yakaipa here?
Pakuburitswa kwaro, bhaisikopo rakawedzera rondedzero yeNetflix yevhiki nevhiki yemapurojekiti akatariswa zvakanyanya uye yakatora nzvimbo yekutanga mumitambo yekufambisa basa muRussia - mazuva mashoma apfuura yakaenda panzvimbo yechipiri nekuda kwekutevedzana nezvemubiridzira wekuRussia.
Nei achizivikanwa zvikuru? Pakarepo nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda. Kutanga, nyaya dzevanobiridzira dzerudo dzaive dzisina kujairika makore gumi apfuura, uye ikozvino. Chii muEurope, chii muRussia. Iyi inyaya inorwadza.
Kechipiri, nekuti nyaya yemunhu wese akabatwa inotanga nemunhu waanoziva paTinder. Iyo gakava pamusoro pekuti sei kufambidzana maapplication achidikanwa uye kana zvichikwanisika kuwana mudiwa mavari anoita seasingapere.
Uye iyo bhaisikopo rakaburitswa rakava nharo nyowani kune avo vasingatendi mukufambidzana maapp.
Nekudaro, ivo vakabatwa pachavo havapi mhosva Tinder mubidzi zvachose - Cecile anotoramba achiishandisa, sezvo achiri kutarisira kusangana nemunhu ari padyo mumweya uye zvaanofarira. Naizvozvo, haugone kumhanyisa kubvisa application. Asi dzimwe mhedziso, dzakavakirwa pane zvakataurwa navakadzi vakanyengerwa, dzakafanira kuita.
Sei chitsotsi chakashanda
Ma heroine emufirimu akasimbisa kakawanda kuti Simon airatidzika kwavari semunhu anoshamisa. Sekureva kwavo, ane magineti echisikigo zvekuti mushure meawa yekukurukurirana zvaiita sekunge vaive vazivana kwemakore gumi. Angangove akadaro: aiziva kutsvaga mazwi akakodzera, aiziva nguva yekutama kuti mumwe wake afinhike uye awedzere kunamatira kwaari. Asi akaverenga nyore nyore apo zvakanga zvisina kukodzera kusundira - somuenzaniso, haana kuomerera paukama, achiziva kuti aigona kuwana mari kubva kwaari seshamwari.
Sezvo nyanzvi yepfungwa uye nyanzvi yehukama Zoe Clus anotsanangura, kubatanidzwa kwaSimon mu "kubhomba kwerudo" kwakaita basa rinokosha pane zvakaitika - kunyanya, akakurudzira kuti vakadzi vaende nokukurumidza sezvinobvira.
“Kana zvinhu zvichimhanya zvakanyanya, mafaro atinosangana nawo anodarika pfungwa dzedu dzinoziva, dzine musoro, uye dzine musoro wopinda mundangariro. Asi iyo subconscious haigone kusiyanisa chokwadi nekufungidzira - apa ndipo panotanga matambudziko, nyanzvi inodaro. “Nekuda kweizvozvo, zvese zvinoita senge zvechokwadi. Izvi zvinogona kuita kuti uite sarudzo dzakaipa. ”
Zvisinei, pane zvimwe zvikonzero nei vakadzi vakatenda mukororo kusvika pakupedzisira.
Kutenda mungano
Kufanana nevazhinji vedu vakakurira paDisney uye ngano dzechinyakare nezvemachinda nemachinda, Cecile aitenda muchishamiso mumoyo make - kuti murume akakwana aizoonekwa - anonakidza, akanaka, akapfuma, aizo "isa nyika patsoka dzake. » Hazvina mhosva kuti vanobva mumapoka akasiyana emagariro. Cinderella anogona here?
Rescuer Syndrome
“Ndiye munhu anoda kuponeswa. Kunyanya kana vane basa rakadaro. Chikwata chese chaivimba naye,” anodaro Cecile. Pedyo naye, Simon aive akavhurika, airondedzera zvaakasangana nazvo, airatidza kusachengeteka uye kushushikana kwaaiita.
Ainzi aitarisira kambani hombe, yechikwata chake, uye ainzwa akachengeteka chete pedyo nemudiwa wake.
Uye Cecile akazviona sebasa rake kumudzivirira kana kumuponesa. Kutanga uchimupa rudo rwako rwese nerutsigiro, wozomubatsira nemari. Mharidzo yake yaive nyore: "Kana ndikasamubatsira, ndiani achazviita?" Uye, zvinosuruvarisa, haasi iye ega aifunga kudaro.
Uye zvakadaro isu tinodzokera kune iyo nyaya yemakirasi emagariro. Simon haana kusarudza vakadzi avo, saiye, vaibhururuka majeti ega uye vakazorora mumaresitorendi epamusoro. Akasarudza avo vakagamuchira muhoro wepakati uye vaingove neruzivo rwese uXNUMXbuXNUMXbhupenyu hwe "elite".
Nekuda kweizvi, zvaive nyore kuti vanyepe. Taura nezvematambudziko ekunyepedzera mubhizinesi remhuri, usaende mune zvakadzama nezveakaundi ekubhangi. Ita nyaya nezvesevhisi yekuchengetedza. Vaya vakabatwa naye vakanga vasinganzwisisi izvo zvinogoneka uye zvisiri zveavo vanogara pamwero wepamusoro. Hapana chavaiziva nezve manejimendi emakambani, kana kuti varidzi vawo vanowanzoita sei kana paine njodzi. “Kana mumwe munhu akaberekwa uye akakurira mumamiriro ezvinhu aya akati zvinofanira kudaro, saka ndingakakavara sei?”