Zvinotendwa kuti masocial network ndiyo yakanakira nzira ye narcissists. Vanogona kuratidza mafoto avo uye zvavakaita kuzviuru zvevanhu, vachigadzira chimiro chakakwana. Ichokwadi here kuti vashandisi vanoshanda veFacebook ne Instagram vanozvikudza egocentrics vanoshuvira kuzivikanwa? Kana kuti inyika yedu inosundwa nebudiriro inotipa mipimo isingasvikiki yebudiriro?
Ko pasocial media ndiyo "nzvimbo" ye narcissists? Zvinoita kunge zvakadaro. Muna 2019, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzepaNovosibirsk Pedagogical University dzakaita ongororo, mhedzisiro yacho yakaratidza kuti ruzhinji rwevashandisi vesocial media vane hunhu hwekunarcissistic. Zvakazoitika kuti avo vanopedza online maawa anopfuura matatu pazuva uye vachishingairira kutumira zvirimo pamapeji avo, kuratidzwa kwakadaro kunonyanya kutaurwa kupfuura mamwe. Uye vanhu vane hunhu hunonzi narcissistic vanozvibata zvakanyanya mumasocial network.
Chii chinonzi narcissism? Chekutanga pane zvese, mukunyanya narcissism uye nekuzviremekedza kwakanyanya. Vanhu vakadaro vanopedza simba ravo pakurwisana kwekuzivikanwa, asi chido ichi chekukwana chinokonzerwa nekusaziva zviitiko zvakanaka: munhu anogadzira mufananidzo wekunze usina kukwana, nokuti anonyara kusingaperi pamusoro pake chaiye.
Unogona kuziva narcissist nezviratidzo zvakadai senyota yerumbidzo uye kutarisisa kwakawedzerwa, kufunga nezvemunhu wako pachako, kusadzivirirwa pakutsoropodza, uye kutenda muhukuru hwemunhu.
Narcissism pachayo haisi chirwere chepfungwa. Hunhu uhu hunozivikanwa nevanhu vazhinji uye ndihwo hunotipa shuviro ine hutano kutibatsira kukwira manera emakambani. Asi kusagadzikana kunogona kuita pathological kana hunhu uhu huchiwedzera uye hukatanga kukanganisa vamwe.
Virtual "showcase"
Sezvo rimwe remabasa makuru emasocial network arikuzvitaura, kune narcissistic hunhu uyu mukana wakanaka kwazvo wekuchengetedza, uye pamwe nekukudziridza, hunhu hwenarcissistic. Zvichienderana nezvakarongedzerwa, asi kure kubva kuchokwadi, mazano pamusoro pako, mumasocial network munhu wese anogona kugadzira nyore uye kuratidza nyika yakanakisa vhezheni yavo.
Kubvumirwa uye kukurudzirwa
Sezvineiwo, kuzviremekedza kwedu hakufanirwe kuenderana nemvumo yekunze, asi mhedzisiro yeongororo inoratidza kuti vashandisi vanoshanda vesocial network vanonyanya kuda kuyemurwa kubva kune vamwe, uye ichi ndicho chimwe chekuratidzwa kwenarcissism. Kunobva kudiwa kwakadaro, sekutonga, kusava nechokwadi kwemukati.
Mukuwedzera, avo vanoshingaira mumasocial network vanowanzowedzera matarenda avo, mano uye kubudirira. Vanogara vachikarira kuti vamwe vachaonga zvikuru basa ravo, pasinei zvapo neidi rokuti budiriro yacho kazhinji kazhinji haina kunyanyokosha. Ivo vanoratidzwa nechinzvimbo chepamusoro uye chepamusoro.
Narcissistic hunhu haatarise zvakakwana kugona kwavo uye hunhu, vachiwedzeredza kukosha kwavo uye chipo, uye vanoshingaira vashandisi vesocial network havangotumiri ruzivo rwemunhu pamusoro pavo, asi zvakare kutarisa zvirimo zvevamwe vashandisi.
Vazhinji vedu tinosarudza kugovera mifananidzo yakaringana yedu pasocial media, uye nekudaro kugara tichiona kubudirira uye kubudirira kwevamwe kunokonzera godo, kudzikira, kudzikisira kunowanikwa mune narcissists, uye zvakare kunogona kuvasundidzira kuti vawedzere kushongedza budiriro yavo uye kugona kwavo. Naizvozvo, kune rumwe rutivi, mawebhusaiti inzvimbo inofarira yekuzviratidzira kwevanhu vakadaro, uye kune rimwe divi, nzvimbo chaiyo inogona kuwedzera maitiro avo akaipa.
Nezve Mugadziri
Natalia Tyutyunikova - chiremba wepfungwa. Verenga zvakawanda pamusoro pake .