PSYchology

Munhu haagone kurarama asina kunetseka zvachose - nekuda kwehunhu hwake. Kana pane chimwe chinhu, achazvigadzira pachake. Kwete nekuziva, asi zviri nyore kubva mukusakwanisa kuvaka miganhu yega. Tinobvumira sei vamwe kuomesa upenyu hwedu uye zvokuita nezvazvo? Nyanzvi yepfungwa dzemhuri Inna Shifanova anopindura.

Dostoevsky akanyora chimwe chinhu pamwe chete nemitsara ye "kunyange kana iwe ukazadza munhu negingerbread, achangoerekana azvitungamirira kumagumo akafa." Iri pedyo nekunzwa kwe "Ndiri mupenyu."

Kana hupenyu hwakafanana, hwakadzikama, pasina kuvhunduka kana kuputika kwemanzwiro, saka hazvisi pachena kuti ndiri ani, zvandiri. Kushungurudzika kunotiperekedza nguva dzose - uye kwete nguva dzose isingafadzi.

Iro iro izwi rekuti "kushushikana" riri pedyo neRussia "kuvhunduka". Uye chero chiitiko chakasimba chinogona kuva icho: musangano mushure mekuparadzana kwenguva refu, kukwidziridzwa kusingatarisirwi ... Pamwe, vazhinji vanoziva nekunzwa kunoshamisa - kuneta nekunyanya kunakidza. Kunyangwe kubva kune mufaro, dzimwe nguva unoda kuzorora, shandisa nguva uri wega.

Kana kushungurudzika kukawanda, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare chirwere chinotanga. Chinoita kuti tinyanyonetseka kushaikwa kwemiganhu yakachengeteka yomunhu oga. Isu tinotora yakawandisa nemari yedu pachedu, tinobvumira chero munhu anoda kutsika-tsika ndima yedu.

Isu tinopindura zvakanyanya kune chero kutaura kunotaurirwa kwatiri - kunyangwe tisati tatarisa zvine musoro kuti kwakanaka sei. Tinotanga kusava nechokwadi nekodzero yedu kana mumwe munhu akatitsoropodza kana nzvimbo yedu.

Vakawanda vanoita zvisarudzo zvinokosha zvichibva pakuda kufadza vamwe vasingatombozivi.

Zvinowanzoitika kuti kwenguva yakareba hationi kuti inguva yekutaura zvatinoda, uye tinotsungirira. Tinovimba kuti mumwe munhu achafembera zvatinoda. Uye haazivi nezvedambudziko redu. Kana, zvichida, anotinyengedza nemaune - asi ndisu tinomupa mukana wakadaro.

Saka vanhu vazhinji vanoita sarudzo dzehupenyu zvichienderana nechishuvo chekusaziva chekufadza vamwe, kuita "chakanaka", kuva "chakanaka", uye ipapo vobva vaona kuti vakapesana nezvido zvavo uye zvavanoda.

Kusakwanisa kwedu kusununguka mukati kunoita kuti titarisire pazvinhu zvese: zvematongerwo enyika, murume, mukadzi, mukuru ... . Asi iyi itsigiro isingavimbike. Chero chiremera chinogona kukundikana nekuodza mwoyo. Tiri kuomerwa nazvo.

Zvakanyanya kuoma kuvhiringidza mumwe munhu ane musimboti mukati, uyo anoziva kukosha kwake uye zvaanoda pasinei nekuongorora kwekunze, uyo anoziva nezvake kuti munhu akanaka.

Zvinetso zvevamwe vanhu zvinova mamwe manyuko okufunganya. “Kana munhu achinzwa zvakaipa, ndinofanira kumuteerera.” Uye tinoteerera, tinonzwira tsitsi, tisingafungi kana tine zvakakwana zvesimba redu romweya pachedu nokuda kweizvi.

Hatirambi kwete nekuti takagadzirira uye tinoda kubatsira, asi nekuti hatizivi sei kana isu tinotya kuramba nguva yedu, kutarisisa, tsitsi. Uye izvi zvinoreva kuti kutya kuri shure kwekubvumirana kwedu, uye kwete mutsa zvachose.

Kazhinji kazhinji vakadzi vanouya kwandiri kuzosangana vasingatendi mukukosha kwavo kwekuzvarwa. Vanoedza nepavanogona napo kuratidza kubatsira kwavo, semuenzaniso, mumhuri. Izvi zvinotungamirira kumakakatanwa, kune chinodikanwa chenguva dzose chekuongorora kwekunze uye kutenda kubva kune vamwe.

Vanoshaya rubatsiro rwemukati, pfungwa yakajeka yekuti "ini" inopera uye "nyika" uye "vamwe" inotanga. Ivo vanonzwa nekuchinja kwezvakatipoteredza uye vanoedza kuzvifananidza, vachigara vachishushikana nekuda kweizvi. Ndinocherechedza kuti vanotya sei kubvuma kwavari vamene kuti vangava nemirangariro “yakashata”: “Handimbotsamwi,” “Ndinokanganwira munhu ari wose.”

Zvinoita sekuti hazvinei newe here? Tarisa kana uri kuyedza kupindura nhare dzese? Unombonzwa sokuti haufanirwe kuenda kunorara kusvikira waverenga tsamba yako kana kuona nhau? Izvi zviratidzo zvakare zvekushaikwa kwemiganhu yemunhu.

Zviri musimba redu kudzikamisa kuyerera kweruzivo, kutora "zuva rekuzorora" kana kujaira munhu wese kufona kusvika imwe nguva. Gurai zvisungo mune izvo zvatakasarudza isu pachedu kuti zvizadzise, ​​uye izvo zvatakaisirwa nemumwe munhu. Zvose izvi zvinogoneka, asi zvinoda kuzviremekedza kwakadzama.

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