Kunze kweguta, hatigoni kungofema mweya wakachena uye kunakidzwa nemaonero, asiwo tarisa mukati medu. Psychotherapist Vladimir Dashevsky anotaura nezve zvaakawana uye kuti zvisikwa kunze kwehwindo zvinobatsira sei mukurapa maitiro.
Zhizha rapfuura, ini nemudzimai wangu takasarudza kurenda dacha kutiza kubva kuguta guru, kwatakapedza tiri toga. Kudzidza zviziviso zvekurenda dzimba dzekumaruwa, takadanana nemufananidzo mumwe: imba yekutandarira inopenya, magonhi egirazi kune veranda, anenge makumi maviri emamita kure - dziva.
Handingati takabva tabvaruka musoro panzvimbo iyi tasvika pairi. Musha uyu hauna kujairika: dzimba dzegingerbread, sekuEurope, hapana mafenzi akakwirira, chete fence yakaderera pakati pezvirongwa, panzvimbo yemiti, madiki arborvitae uye kunyange lawn. Asi paiva nenyika nemvura. Uye ini ndinobva kuSaratov uye ndakakurira paVolga, saka ndagara ndichida kugara pedyo nemvura.
Dziva redu harina kudzika, unogona kufamba, uye kune kumiswa kwe peat mariri - haugone kushambira, unogona kungotarisa uye kufungidzira. Muzhizha, tsika yakagadziridzwa pachayo: zuva rakanyura kuseri kwegungwa manheru, takagara pavheranda, tichinwa tii uye tichiyemura kunyura kwezuva. Zvino nguva yechando yakasvika, gungwa rakanyura, uye vanhu vakatanga kutsvetera, kuserereka, uye kukwira ngoro pariri.
Iyi inyika inoshamisa, iyo isingagoneki muguta, kudzikama uye kuenzanisa kunomuka kubva pakuti ini ndinotarisa kunze nepahwindo. Zvinoshamisa zvikuru: pasinei nokuti zuva riripo, mvura kana chando, pane manzwiro ekuti ndakanyorwa mukufamba kwezviitiko, sekunge hupenyu hwangu huri chikamu chechirongwa chakafanana. Uye rhythms yangu, sekuda kana kusada, inopindirana nenguva yezuva uye yegore. Zviri nyore pane maoko ewachi.
Ndakagadzira hofisi yangu uye ndinoshanda online nevamwe vatengi. Hafu yezhizha ndakatarisa kuchikomo, zvino ndakashandura tafura ndokuona dziva. Zvisikwa zvinova fulcrum yangu. Kana mutengi aine kusagadzikana kwepfungwa uye mamiriro angu ari panjodzi, kutarisa kunze nepahwindo kwakakwana kuti ndiwanezve rugare rwangu. Nyika iri kunze inoshanda sechiyereso chinobatsira munhu anofamba patambo dzakakakama kuti arambe akagadzikana. Uye, sezviri pachena, izvi zvinoratidzwa mukutaura, mukukwanisa kusamhanya, kumbomira.
Handikwanise kutaura kuti ndinoishandisa ndichiziva, zvese zvinoitika zvega. Pane nguva dzekurapa pazvisinganyatso kujeka zvekuita. Kunyanya kana mutengi ane manzwiro akawanda akasimba.
Uye kamwe kamwe ndinonzwa kuti hapana chandinoda kuita, ndinongoda kuva, uyezve kumutengi ndinovawo, neimwe nzira, chikamu chechisikigo. Sechando, mvura, mhepo, sechimwe chinhu chiripo. Chinhu chokuvimba nacho. Kunoratidzika kwandiri kuti ichi ndicho chikurusa icho murapi anogona kupa, kwete mashoko, asi kunaka kwokuvapo kwomunhu mukusangana uku.
Ini handisati ndaziva kana tichizogara pano: mwanasikana wangu anofanira kuenda kukireshi, uye muenzi ane zvirongwa zvake zverangano. Asi ndine chokwadi chokuti rimwe zuva tichava nemusha wedu pachedu. Uye dziva riri pedyo.