Kutaura kusina hanya kana kuti "pamucheto" pikicha yakatumirwa pasocial media inogona kugumisa basa kana kuparadza hukama. Vazhinji vedu hatizoregi shamwari yakadhakwa ichityaira, asi muchokwadi chemazuva ano, zvakangokoshawo kumuchengeta iwe pachako kubva mukutsanya nekukurumidza.
Nei tichiisa pasocial media chimwe chinhu chinogona kukonzera matambudziko? Isu chaizvo, pasi pesimba renguva, hatifungi nezvemhedzisiro zvachose, kana isu tinotenda kuti hapana munhu, kunze kweshamwari, anozoteerera kune yedu positi? Kana kuti pamwe, pane zvinopesana, isu tiri kudzingirira vanofarira uye reposts?
Advocate uye muongorori nezvemaitiro akachengeteka epamhepo Sue Scheff anokurudzira kufunga nezve mhedzisiro inogona kuitika ye "kudhakwa" kana zvinyorwa zvepfungwa zvakanyanyisa zvakatumirwa pasocial network. "Mufananidzo wedu paWebhu unofanirwa kuratidza zvese zvakanakisa zvatinazvo, asi vashoma vanobudirira," anodaro uye anosimbisa maonero ake, achitaura data rekutsvagisa.
Pasi pekufamba kwenguva
Ongororo yakaitwa neNew York University College yePublic Health yakawana kuti chikamu chimwe muzvitatu (34,3%) chevechidiki vakaongororwa vakaisa pamapeji enhau dzemagariro vakadhakwa. Vanenge chikamu chimwe muzvina (21,4%) vakazvidemba.
Izvi hazvingoshande pasocial media. Vanopfuura hafu yevanhu (55,9%) vakatumira mameseji ekukurumidza kana kufona vachiri pasi pesimba rezvinhu, uye chikamu chimwe muzvina (30,5%) vakazozvidemba. Mukuwedzera, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, tinogona kuiswa mumufananidzo wakazara pasina kunyeverwa. Inenge hafu yevakapindura (47,6%) vakadhakwa mumufananidzo uye 32,7% vakazvidemba pashure.
Vazhinji vashandirwi nhasi vanotarisa maprofile evanotsvaka basa mumasocial network
"Kana mumwe munhu akatora pikicha yedu takashata oisa kune veruzhinji, vazhinji vedu tinonzwa kunyara uye kunetsana nevaya vakaisa foto vasina kubvunza," anodaro Joseph Palamar, muongorori weCenter for Public Health. Zvidzidzo zvine chekuita neHIV, hepatitis C uye kushandisa zvinodhaka. "Zvinogonawo kukanganisa mabasa: vashandirwi vazhinji nhasi vanotarisa pasocial media profiles yevanotsvaga basa uye havafanirwe kufara kuwana humbowo hwekushungurudzwa."
Kutsvaga basa
Ongororo ya2018 yakaitwa nesaiti yebasa yepamhepo yakasimbisa kuti 57% yevanotsvaga basa vakarambwa mushure mekunge vangangove vashandirwi vaongorora maakaundi avo enhau. Zviripachena, positi isina kufunga kana kuti flippant tweet inogona kutidhurira zvakanyanya: ingangoita makumi manomwe neshanu muzana emakoreji ekuAmerica anotarisa zviitiko zvepamhepo zveanotarisirwa mudzidzi asati afunga kunyoresa.
Maererano nekudzidza, zvikonzero zviviri zvikuru zvekuramba ndezvi:
- mapikicha anotsamwisa kana asina kufanira, mavhidhiyo kana ruzivo (40%);
- ruzivo rwekuti vanonyorera vanoshandisa doro kana zvimwe zvinhu zvepfungwa (36%).
Joseph Palamar anotenda kuti zvakakosha kudzidzisa vanhu nezve njodzi dze "zvinyorwa zvakadhakwa" pasocial media: "Tinogara tichinyeverwa, semuenzaniso, nezve njodzi dzekutyaira wakadhakwa. Asi zvakakoshawo kutaura nezve chokwadi chekuti kushandisa smartphone munzvimbo isina kukwana kunogona kuwedzera njodzi yekuwira mumamiriro ezvinhu asingafadzi erumwe rudzi ... «
Iyo "moral code" yevashandi
Kunyangwe isu tatova nebasa, izvi hazvireve kuti tinogona kuzvibata paWebhu sezvatinoda. Proskauer Rose, kambani huru yezvemitemo yekuAmerica, yakaburitsa data inoratidza kuti 90% yemakambani akaongororwa ane yavo yemagariro media code of conduct uye vanopfuura 70% vakatotora matanho ekuranga vashandi vanotyora mutemo uyu. Somuenzaniso, kumwe kutaura kusina kufanira pamusoro penzvimbo yebasa kunogona kutungamirira kukudzingwa.
Dzivisa zvinyorwa zvisingadiwi
Sue Sheff anokurudzira kuva akachenjera uye kutarisira mumwe nomumwe. “Paunenge uchienda kumapati uine chinangwa chakasimba chekunwa, chenjerera pachine nguva kwete chete nemutyairi akadhakwa, asiwo nemumwe munhu kuti akubatsire kudzora midziyo yako. Kana shamwari yako ichiwanzotumira zvinyorwa zvinokakavadzana kana yapinda mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu, ramba wakamutarira. Mubatsire kuona kuti migumisiro yezviito zvakadaro ingasava yakanyanya kunakidza.
Heano matipi ake ekudzivirira rash online zviitiko.
- Edza kunyengetedza shamwari kudzima smartphone. Iwe unogona kusabudirira, asi zvakakosha kuti uedze.
- Edza kuderedza kukuvadza kunobvira. Tarisa marongero ekuvanzika ezvinyorwa, kunyangwe zvisingawanzo kuchengetedza. Ita shuwa kuti zviziviso zvinoshanda kana wakaiswa mumufananidzo. Uye, hongu, tarisa-tarisa kuti usapotsa nguva yauchazotorwa mifananidzo.
- Kana zvichidikanwa, vanza gadget. Kana mudiwa asingazvidzore paanenge akadhakwa uye zvisingachagoneki kukumbira kufunga, iwe uchafanirwa kutora matanho akanyanyisa.
Anosimbisa kuti zvinotumirwa nekukasira zvinogona kukanganisa ramangwana. Kuenda kukoreji, kungangoita internship, kana kurota basa-kutyora bumbiro remitemo kana kodhi isina kutaurwa yemaitiro inogona kutisiya tisina chinhu. "Mumwe nemumwe wedu ndeye kudzvanya kubva pakuchinja kwehupenyu. Ngavave vakanaka."
Nezve Munyori: Sue Scheff igweta uye munyori weShame Nation: The Global Online Hatering Epidemic.