Eugene Onegin: narcissist asingakwanisi kunzwira tsitsi?

Isu tinoziva kosi yechikoro mumabhuku echiRussia, takanyora zvinopfuura imwe rondedzero. Asi psychology yezvimwe zviito zvakaitwa nevatambi haisati yanyatsojeka. Tichiri nemibvunzo yezvidzidzo zvekare. Kutsvaga mhinduro kwavari.

Nei Onegin akawira murudo naTatiana pabhora, waakanga amboramba?

Onegin murume ane chimiro chisina kunaka chekunamatira. Zvinoita sekuti vabereki havana kufadza mwanakomana wavo nehanya: akatanga kurerwa naMadame, ndokuzoteverwa naMonsieur. Nokudaro, Eugene akava "musayendisiti" mune imwe indasitiri - "sayenzi yerudo runyoro" uye rudo, izvo zvaakaedza kuwana mumhuri, uye zvakare muhukama hwepabonde.

Murume wechidiki ajaira kuwana chero chaanoda. Nhaka yasekuru yakamupfumisa, nyaya dzerudo — dzisina basa. Zvisinei, mabhora uye amorous adventures zvakava zvinofinha, nokuti ipapo Eugene haana kuwana manzwiro - chete manipulations uye mitambo. Ipapo anosangana naTatyana. Kunyepedzera kutorwa kwaari, uye anoreurura rudo rwake kuna Eugene. Asi Onegin akauraya tariro mumweya wake, asingazvipi mukana kune imwe hukama, asingatendi kuti zvingadaro.

Saka sei, paakasangana naTatyana kubhora, akazova munhu anokosha kwaari? Chii "chinotendeuka" manzwiro ake? Chokutanga pane zvose, kusasvikika kwayo. Iye zvino ave kutonhorwa naye, uye Eugene ari kuyedza kunyungudutsa moyo wemusikana aimbove murudo naye uye nekubvisa rondedzero yevakundi.

Eugene anosundwa negodo risingazive uye makaro. Tatyana yakasununguka yakanga isingafadzi kwaari, mutorwa anotora pfungwa dzake dzose

Chechipiri, Eugene anoshandisa simba rake rose pakutsvaga kwekunzwa kutsva. Kubhowekana, kupera kwepfungwa, swing «dealization - devaluation» - izvi ndizvo zvinoumba narcissist. Dambudziko rake nderekushaya tsitsi. Kukunda kwaTatyana kuedza kunzwa kuti mupenyu zvakare. Panguva imwecheteyo, anofuratira manzwiro emusikana, haaoni kurwadziwa kwake uye kutambura, akafukidzwa nemasikisi ekusava nehanya.

Chechitatu, Eugene anosundwa negodo risingazive uye makaro. Tatyana yakasununguka yakanga isingafadzi kwaari, mutorwa anotora pfungwa dzake dzose.

Dambudziko reunhu hwebhuku nderekutadza kuda. Iyo yakakamurwa: chimwe chikamu chinoda hukama hwepedyo, chimwe chinodzikisira zvese. Tinomunzwira tsitsi, tichiziva kuti iyi haisi mhosva yeOnegin, asi nhamo yaOnegin. Pane nzvimbo yakaomeswa nechando mumweya wake, anoda rudo rwese kuti inyungudutse. Asi akazvisarudzira oga. Isu tinodzika Tatyana nemoyo yedu yese: madutu akatsamwa mumweya wake, anorwadziwa uye ari oga, asi aifanira kuroora, uye kukudzwa kunokosha kupfuura rudo.

Zvingadaro here?

Kana Eugene akatenda kuti hukama hwechokwadi hunogona kuitika, dai asina kuramba Tatiana, vaviri ava vangadai vakafara. Iye, akadzama uye akanyatsoverenga, ane rudo uye akatendeseka, aizogovera zvinonaka uye zvinofarirwa zveOnegin. Anogona kuva shamwari yake, mudiwa, murume, mudzidzisi - uye iye pachake aizochinja, kekutanga muupenyu hwake, achiziva kuti kushamwaridzana kwechokwadi chii.

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