Mutemo wakajairwa wemunhu ane hunhu: ipa nzira kune vafambi vane vana. Zvese zvinoita sezviri nyore, asi mubvunzo ndewokuti: kusvika zera ripi mwana asingakwanisi kumira akati wandei akamira munzira yepasi? Uye nei achikosha kupfuura, somuenzaniso, akaneta, kunyange zvazvo mukadzi muduku? Mutori wenhau uye mutungamiriri Elena Pogrebizhskaya anotaura nezveRussia mwana-centrism.
Mukadzi ane makore 55 ane mwana ane 7-8 years aifamba neni musubway, vangangove mbuya vake. Ndakanga ndine nzvimbo yokugara yakanyanyisa, apo vanhu vakamira pedyo neni nguva dzose vakatsamira pavaprista vavo. Kazhinji, vose vakamira ipapo, uye ndinonzwa hurukuro. Mukomana anoti: "Ndinoda kumira." Mbuya kwaari: "Ungagara pasi here?"
Kunyangwe pasina zvigaro zvisina chinhu zvakapoteredza. Mukomana wacho anopindura kuti: “Aiwa, ndinoda kusimuka,” uye ambuya vakamupindura kuti: “Eya, ipapo uchakura nokukurumidza.”
Ndinofunga kwandiri, iyo nhaurirano inofadza. Kazhinji, vakamira kweminiti chaiyo, ipapo ambuya vangu vakatsunga kuenda kumusikana akanga akagara pakatarisana neni ndokuti: "Tigadzirire nzvimbo!"
Musikana uya akabva angosimukawo, murume akanga akagara pedyo naye achibva asimukawo. Mbuya vakabva vagara pasi muzukuru ndokugara pasi. Saka vakatasva.
Classic Russian child-centrism: zvose zvakanakisisa zvevana, zvakanyanya kune vanhu vakuru
Mubvunzo: uye nekodzero ipi iyo mwana wemakore masere, uye kwete musikana wemakore makumi matatu, anofanira kuiswa mujeri? Uye nei, kana kamwe kamwe mukomana aneta, kuneta kwake kunokosha kupfuura kuneta kwemukadzi mukuru? Uye kana mukadzi akauya kwandiri ndokuti, "Wana nzvimbo!", ainzwa: "Aiwa, nei panyika?"
Izvi, mumaonero angu, ndeyekare yeRussia mwana-centrism: zvese zvakanakira vana, uye zvese zvakaipisisa zvevakuru, zvinoreva. Simuka, rega mwana agare pasi. Eya, ambuya vake vaduku panguva imwe cheteyo.
Ichi chaive chinyorwa changu paFacebook (sangano rinonyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia). Uye zvaisazombopinda mupfungwa dzangu kuti yaizokonzera dutu rei. Kutanga, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero vanhu vakatanga kufunga kuti vose mbuya nemukomana vanogona kurwara. Vanogona, hongu. Ko vanga vakatogara mumota padivi pavo vangarwara sei.
Chechipiri, zvakazove zvakakosha kuti mwana aive mukomana. Pano vanoti tinorera varume vakaita sei.
Chechitatu, fungidziro yevakawanda yakabva yagadzira mufananidzo wechembere yakaremara, isina simba ine muzukuru mucheche. Kutaura zvazviri, akanga ari mukadzi mukuru, ane makore anopfuura 50 uye asina mukuru. Saka, hezvino izvo zvavakandinyorera vachipindura kune iyo post.
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Elena, ndinogovera zvizere pfungwa dzako. Iyi ndiyo imwe mhando yehusiku huzhinji, uye hatisi kutaura chete nezve "kupa nzira yekufambisa", asi nezvepfungwa ye "zvese zvakanakira vana". Sei zvakanakisisa? Vanhu vakuru havakodzeri zviri nani here? Hafu yezvigadzirwa inoti “Mwana. Safe.» Uye kazhinji, mafungiro akaipa aya "iwe mudiki, saka akakosha" anouraya munhu. Phew. Akataura achibuda.
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Zivai kuti mbuya vakasimudza musikana kuti vagadzirire muzukuru wavo nzira. Future man! Aya ndiwo magadzirirwo ehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Inoumbwa naamai vakadaro naambuya vakagadzirira kuzvipira ivo nevamwe vanhukadzi vese kumwana wavo akaneta.
Uye zvino inotanga - "vanhu vose imbudzi", "hapana varume vakasara vasara" ... Uye vanobva kupi, kana kurerwa kwakadaro. Varume vanorerwa kubva pakuzvarwa!!!!!
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Mbuya vanoendesa zvavanoda kumuzukuru wavo, vachifuratira chishuwo chake ... Semujee uya: “Unofanira kuva nemafungiro ako, uye zvino amai vachakuudza kuti ndeipi.” Ndaisabvuma.
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Zvisinei nedambudziko nemusana wangu, ini pachangu ndinogara ndakamira - sarudzo yangu, asi ... Sei mumwe munhu achisungirwa kupa nzira kune mumwe munhu? Zvakadini nekusarudza kwepanyama? Zvakakodzera kufunga: zvichida munhu haafaniri kuenda chero kupi zvako kana (a) asingakwanisi kumira netsoka dzake?
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Ndinobvuma zvachose. Handisati ndanzwisisa kuti sei vabereki vasingaise vana vavo pamakumbo avo. Kazhinji ndinoona amai vakamira, uye mwana akagara. Zvichida ini handizivi chimwe chinhu pamusoro pevana, pamwe ivo vari crystal uye vanogona kutsemuka.
Uye iwe unofungei nezvemamiriro ezvinhu aya uye iwe pachako ungasimuka here kana mbuya ava vakauya kwauri nemashoko okuti "Ipa"?