“Mudiwa, tiri kuenda kuna amai vhiki ino!”
- Hongu, ndiwe chii? ndaisaziva...
“Ndakakuudza izvi kakawanda, haumbonditeerere.
Kunzwa nekuteerera zvinhu zviviri zvakasiyana. Dzimwe nguva mukuyerera kwemashoko "inobhururuka mune imwe nzeve, inobhururuka kunze kune imwe." Chii chinotyisidzira? Iko kunetsana muhukama, kusungwa kwevamwe, njodzi yekupotsa yakakosha. Funga zvakatendeseka - iwe uri mutauriri akanaka here? Munhu akanaka haazi iye anotaura zvakanaka, asi uyo anonyatsoteerera! Uye kana iwe ukaona kuti foni yako yakanyarara, hama dzinotaura zvakanyanya neshamwari kupfuura newe, saka yave nguva yekufunga - nei? Kugona kuteerera kunogona kuvandudzwa uye kudzidziswa mukati mako, uye ichi chichava kadhi yehwamanda mune zvese zvemunhu uye zvebasa.
Mutemo wekutanga: usaite zvinhu zviviri panguva imwe chete
Kukurukurirana chinhu chinoda kushushikana mupfungwa uye mupfungwa. Kuti zvibudirire, zvinotsausa zvinofanira kuderedzwa. Kana munhu achitaura nezvedambudziko rake, uye panguva imwechete iwe unotarisa foni yako miniti imwe neimwe, izvi zvinenge zvisingaremekedzi. Hurukuro yakakomba uchiona purogiramu yeTV haisati ichizova inovakawo. Uropi hwemunhu hahuna kugadzirirwa kuita zvakawanda. Edza kunyatsoisa pfungwa pane interlocutor, tarisa paari, ratidza kuti zvaakataura zvakakosha uye zvinonakidza kwauri.
Mutemo wechipiri: usatsoropodza
Kunyange kana iwe wakabvunzwa mazano, izvi hazvirevi kuti interlocutor anoda kuti iwe ugadzirise matambudziko ake. Vanhu vazhinji vane maonero avo, uye vanongoda kutaura uye kuwana simbiso yekururama kwezviito zvavo. Kana izvo zvaunonzwa zvichikonzera iwe manzwiro asina kunaka uye kurambwa, ingoteerera kusvika kumagumo. Kazhinji kare panguva yekukurukurirana, tinotanga kufunga pamusoro pemhinduro - izvi hazvina maturo, zviri nyore kupotsa zvakakosha zvisinganzwisisiki. Teerera kwete kumashoko chete, asiwo kune manzwiro emutauriri, dzikama kana akanyanyisa, fara kana akaora mwoyo.
Mutemo Wechitatu: Dzidza Mutauro Wemasaini
Imwe nyanzvi yepfungwa ine mukurumbira yakaita cherechedzo inofadza. Nekutevedzera maitiro emutauriri muhurukuro, akakwanisa kukunda munhu wacho zvakanyanya sezvaaigona. Kana uri kutaura wakatarisa kure nechitofu, hazvizobudiriri. Kana kuti isa zvinhu, zvakanaka, kana mbatatisi ikapisa, neruremekedzo ipa kuti uenderere mberi mumaminetsi mashoma. Usambofa watora "yakavharwa pose" pamberi pe interlocutor. Tarisa, masaini anogona kuona kana munhu ari kutaura chokwadi, kuti ane hanya sei, nezvimwe.
Mutemo wechina: farira
Pakukurukurirana, bvunza mibvunzo inojekesa. Asi dzinofanira kuvhurika, kureva kuti dzinoda mhinduro ine udzame. "Waita sei?", "Akati chii chaizvo?". Rega interlocutor anzwisise kuti iwe unobatanidzwa uye unofarira. Dzivisa mibvunzo yakavharwa inoda mhinduro dze “Hongu” uye “Kwete”. Usaite mutongo wakakasharara - "Donhedza iyi boor", "Siya basa rako." Basa rako harisi rekusarudza mafambiro evanhu, asi kunzwira tsitsi. Uye yeuka: "Zviri pachena" ishoko iro kurukurirano dzakawanda dzakaputswa.
Mutemo wechishanu: Dzidzira Kuteerera
Nyika yakazara nemanzwi anotakura ruzivo, tinonzwa chikamu chidiki chazvo. Famba-famba muguta usina mahedhifoni, teerera shiri dzichiimba, ruzha rwemotokari. Iwe uchashamisika kuti isu haticherechedzi sei, tinopfuura nenzeve dzedu. Teerera rwiyo rwavanozivikanwa kwenguva refu uye teerera kumashoko arwo, wakamboanzwa here? Fungisisa nemaziso ako akavharwa, regedzera inzwi senzvimbo yeruzivo nezvenyika yakakupoteredza. Inzwa panhaurirano dzevanhu vari mumutsara, mukutakura, edza kunzwisisa kurwadziwa kwavo uye kunetseka kwavo. Uye nyarara.
Makore makumi maviri nerimwe ane maitiro ayo. Takatanga kutaurirana zvakanyanya pamasocial network uye vatumwa ipapo, nyora zvakawanda uye kuisa emoticons pane kutaura. Kutumira amai SMS kuri nyore pane kuuya kuzotora kapu yetii.
Kuteerera, kutarisa mumaziso… Kugona kuteerera nekutaurirana ibhonasi hombe kune zvese zviri zviviri hukama hwemunhu nehwebhizinesi. Uye hazvina kumbonyanyononoka kuzvidzidza.