Sei mukadzi asina kuroorwa aionekwa semusikana webasa pamakore makumi maviri nemaviri, uye zvepabonde vasati varoorana zvakarambidzwa? Nei vakaroorana makore 22 apfuura? Uye maonero atinoita muchato akachinja sei panguva ino?
Kusimudzirwa kwemaindasitiri, kusunungurwa kwevakadzi, uye chimurenga cha1917 zvakasimudzira nzanga uye zvakaparadza pfungwa dzagara dziripo dzemhuri newanano. Kweanopfuura makore zana, iwo akasandurwa kwazvo zvokuti mizhinji yemitemo yacho inongoratidzika kuva isina maturo.
Chii chachinja?
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MuRussia pakutanga kwezana remakore rechi18, mutemo weumambo wakashanda wakasimbisa zera rekuroorana: kuvarume kwaiva nemakore gumi nematanhatu, kuvakadzi - 16. Asi vamiririri vemapoka akaderera kazhinji vakatendeukira kuvakuru vechechi nechikumbiro. kuti varoore vanasikana vavo zuva remutemo risati rasvika. Izvi zvaiwanzotsanangurwa nenyaya yekuti muenzi aidiwa pamba pechikomba. Panguva imwecheteyo, pazera remakore 22-23, musikana panguva iyoyo akanga atoonekwa se "akagara" uye kuguma kwake kwaiva, kuisa zvinyoro, zvisingagoneki.
Nhasi, Mhuri yeMhuri yemazuva ano muRussia inobvumira kuroorana kubva pazera remakore 18. Muzviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana, unogona kusaina pa16, kana kunyange kare. Sezvo mutemo, hwaro hweizvi pamuviri kana kuberekwa kwemwana. Zvisinei, nhamba dzinoratidza kuti kuroorana kwevaduku kwazova kushoma. The latest Demographic Yearbook of Russia for 2019 inosimbisa kuti vakawanda vakaroorana vanonyoresa hukama vane makore 27-29. Varume nevakadzi vakawanda vanoroora kekutanga mushure memakore 35. Uye kutaura kwokuti "chembere yemusikana" kunokonzera kunyemwerera kunoshamisa.
Maonero pahukama
Kuita zvepabonde musati maroorana makore 100 apfuura kwaionekwa sechivi, kodzero yekuita zvepabonde yaipiwa chete nemhiko tsvene, yakasimbiswa nechechi. Danho rekupfimbana pachena rakatanga chete mushure mekubatana kwepamutemo. Asi kunyange muchiitiko ichi, mwenga nechikomba vaisawanzokwanisa kuva voga. Pedyo, amai, tete, hanzvadzi zvechokwadi vaitenderera - kazhinji, mumwe munhu wechitatu. Zvaikwanisika kuroora uye kuroora chete nemvumo yevabereki: vanhu vashoma vakatsunga kuita zvinopesana nekuda kwababa vavo.
Zvino zvakatiomera kufungidzira kuti zvinobvira kubatanidza kufanorongerwa nomunhu watisingazivi chaizvoizvo. Asi sei kusangana, kutaura, kufamba noruoko, kumbundira uye kutsvoda, kuedza kugara pamwe chete, pakupedzisira? Muchiitiko ichi, kazhinji, vabereki vanongoiswa pamberi peidi.
Kutarisirana
MuRussia pre-revolutionary, hapangavi nemubvunzo wekuenzana kwewanano. Mukadzi aitsamira chose chose pamurume wake—zvose zviri zviviri munyama nomunzanga. Aifanira kutarisira imba, kubereka vana, “zvizhinji zvaachapiwa naMwari,” uye kuvarera. Mhuri dzakapfuma chete ndidzo dzaigona kuwana mwana nanny uye mutongi.
Mhirizhonga yemumba yakakurudzirwa zvinyararire, pakanga paine kutaura kwaishandiswa: "dzidzisa mukadzi wako." Uye izvi hazvina kutadza chete "rima" varombo, asiwo vanokudzwa varistocrats. Ndaifanira kutsungirira, zvikasadaro zvaisaita kuti ndidye ini nevana. Basa revakadzi rakange risipo: mushandi, musona, mushandi wefekitari, mudzidzisi, mutambi wemitambo - ndiyo sarudzo yese. Muchokwadi, mukadzi haaigona kunzi akazvimirira uye, zvinoenderana, anoda kuremekedzwa.
Ukama hweroorano hwazvino uno, chaizvoizvo, hwakavakirwa pakuvimbana, kupatsanurwa kwakanaka kwemitoro, uye maonero enyika akafanana. Hazvishamisi kuti murume nemudzimai vanowanzonzi vadiwa: vanhu vanotarisira ruremekedzo, kunzwisisa, tsigiro, hunhu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Kwete basa rekupedzisira rinoitwa nekugara zvakanaka kwemari, umo zvese zvakaiswa mari. Uye kana kamwe kamwe upenyu hwemhuri hukasabatana, iyi haisi njodzi, vanhu vaviri vakabudirira vanokwanisa kuzviziva vamene kunze kweroorano.
Wakaroorwei ipapo?
Zvaisambofungwa neimwe nzira. Tsika dzechitendero dzaidzora nzanga, dzichisimudzira kukosha kwewanano. Kubva vachiri vadiki, vana vaidzidziswa kuti kuva nemhuri ndiro basa guru muupenyu. Vanhu vakasurukirwa vaitariswa nekutongwa. Kunyanya pavakadzi - shure kwezvose, vakava mutoro kune hama.
Murume akanga asingakurumidzi kuwana akabatwa zvisina kufanira; Asi kumusikana, kuroora kwaiwanzova nhau yokurarama. Mamiriro emukadzi haana kungosimbisa kubatsira kwake, asi zvakare akavimbisa hupenyu huzhinji kana husingaregi.
Chaikosha zvikuru kwaiva kuva werimwe kirasi. Vana vanokudzwa vakapinda mumibatanidzwa nekuda kwezita, kubereka, kana kuvandudza mamiriro avo emari asina kusimba. Mumhuri dzevashambadzi, chinhu chakasarudzika chaive chinobatsira pakutengeserana: semuenzaniso, mukana wekubatanidza capital uye kuwedzera bhizinesi.
Varimi vakaroora zvakanyanya nekuda kwezvikonzero zvehupfumi: mhuri yemwenga yakabvisa muromo wekuwedzera, mukadzi akagamuchira denga pamusoro wake uye "chimedu chechingwa", murume akawana mahara mubatsiri. Chokwadi, michato yerudo yakaitwawo panguva iyoyo. Asi kazhinji kazhinji, yakaramba ichingova fungidziro yerudo, iyo yakapa nzira kune zvishuvo zvinoshanda chete.
Sei kuroora zvino?
Vamwe vanokarira kudavira kuti gadziriro yemhuri neroorano haichashandi uye yava nguva yokuibvisa seisina madikanwa. Sekupokana, nhamba iri kukura yevakaroorana inotaurwa vanoda hukama hwehurumende, michato yevaenzi kana hukama hwakasununguka.
Uye zvakare, tsika yekusununguka mwana yave kukura (chishuwo chekuziva chekusava nevana), pfungwa dzekushivirira kune transgender, mibatanidzwa yengochani uye mafomu asina kujairika senge, semuenzaniso, polyamory (hukama uko, pamwe nekubatana uye mvumo yekuzvidira yevadyidzani, munhu wese anogona kuita zverudo nevanhu vakati wandei).
Uye zvakadaro, vazhinji vachiri kutsigira mirangariro yetsika yokuva nomudzimai mumwe yetsika dzemhuri. Hongu, michato yekusununguka, michato isina kuenzana uye yenhema ichiri kuitwa. Nekudaro, zvido zve mercantile zviri kure nechikonzero chikuru chekuwana chitambi mupasipoti yako.