Tisingaverenge imbwa: kuti mhuka dzedu dzinorarama sei kugarwa

Kunze kwekunge iwe uri freelancer kana pamudyandigere, iyi ingangove nguva yekutanga iwe wanga uchipedza nguva yakawanda nemhuka dzako dzinovaraidza panguva yekuvharirwa. Mhuka dzinovaraidza dzinofara here? Pane hongu pane kwete, anodaro zoopsychologist, pet Therapist Nika Mogilevskaya.

“Chokwadi, mhuka dzinovaraidza dzinowanzogadziridzwa kuti dzikurukure nevanhu. Patinovatanga, pekutanga tinopa nguva yakawanda kwavari, tobva tatama, nekuti isu tine nyaya dzedu,” inotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi.

Kana muridzi wacho achigara ari oga maererano nechirongwa chakafanana nekare - anoshanda zvakanyanya, semuenzaniso - hapana chinoshanduka kumhuka. "Chipfuwo chako chiri kurarawo, chichiita chinhu chayo, chinongova ne "TV" yekuwedzera muchimiro chemunhu akasara kumba," anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

“Katsi yangu yekuBritain, Ursya, inonyatso kufara kuti ndinoshandira kure. Masvondo mashoma ekutanga haana kundinamatira — akaenda kunorara kumwe padhuze ini ndichishanda. Asi anoita kunge ari kuwedzera kusagutsikana nenyaya yekuti ndakagara palaptop pane kutamba naye. Vhiki rino, akashandisa nzira dzekukunda kukwezva kutarisa: akarembera uye akazununguka pamaketeni, akagera router uye akakanda laptop yake patafura kakawanda, "anodaro muverengi Olga.

Mukuvharirwa, muridzi anogona kubhadhara kakawanda kune chipfuyo pane asati avharirwa. Kubva pamhando ipi yekutarisisa - ine chiratidzo chekuwedzera kana nechiratidzo cheminus - zvinoenderana nekuti mhuka dzinofara nekuvapo kwedu.

“Tinotarisa zvakanaka patinobuda panze nembwa zvakare. Kana kuti kutamba nekatsi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, chipfuwo chinonyatsonakidzwa, "anodaro zoopsychologist.

Kana iwe uchida kufadza munhu akaora mwoyo, kunyangwe achifadzwa nehuvepo hwako, tekinoroji ichauya kuzonunura. "Zvakaomera imbwa yedu Pepe pasina mafambiro marefu akajairwa: hapana maonerwo akakwana, hapana chiitiko, ari kunetseka. Takasaina naye pamhepo stunt marathon - iko zvino tave kuzviita tese kuti apedze simba rake, "anodaro muverengi Irina.

Nehurombo, kutariswa kunoitwa mhuka dzinovaraidza iko zvino kunogona kuve kwakashata.

“Panogona kunetsana pakati pechikara nemuridzi wacho kuti vawane nzvimbo. Apo muridzi wacho akanga achishanda muhofisi, katsi yakazvisarudzira chigaro kana sofa. Uye zvino murume ari kumba uye haabvumi kuti mhuka ivate ipapo. Uye zvino inogona kusangana nekushushikana nekuti rhythm yakajairika yehupenyu, iyo yaisanganisira kurara mune imwe nzvimbo, inokanganiswa, "anotsanangura kudaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Kune nyaya dzinosiririsa futi. “Vamwe vanhu vari kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe vanonzwa kushushikana zvakanyanya nekuvharirwa mukamuri imwe chete nedzimwe nhengo dzemhuri uye mhuka dzinovaraidza. Zvakanakisisa, vanotaura nemhuka dzakashatirwa kana kudzidzinga, pakaipisisa, dzinoshandisa zviyero zvemuviri, izvo zvisingagamuchirwi, "anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Sezvingatarisirwa, mune iyi nyaya, mhuka dzinovaraidza hadzidi kugarwa kwevanhu zvachose.

Ndinokutarira sepagirazi

Mhuka dzinogona kunzwa mamiriro evaridzi vadzo. Chimwe chinhu ndechekuti manzwiro aya ndeega ega kumhuka yega yega: sevanhu, vane yakanyanya kana kushoma yakanyanya senitivity kune vamwe vanhu zviitiko uye manzwiro.

“Kusimba kwetsinga dzetsinga ndechimwe chezvimiro zvechiito chepamusoro chetsinga dzevanhu nemhuka, kugona kubata uye kugadzira ruzivo. Simba iri rakamboongororwa nenyanzvi yezvidzidzo Pavlov. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, isu nemhuka tinoona ruzivo rwekunze nekumhanya kwakasiyana.

Mhuka dzine hurongwa hwetsinga husina simba dzinowanzobatwa kune zvose zvakanaka uye zvakashata zvinokurudzira. Semuenzaniso, mune imbwa ine simba remagetsi risina simba, kurohwa kunofadza kuchakurumidza kutungamirira kune mufaro, mufambiro unofadza, asi kurohwa kusingafadzi kuchaita kuti vadzivise. Mhuka dzakadaro dzinogona "kubata" mamiriro emuridzi, edza kumunyaradza kana kunetseka naye.

Asi mhuka dzine simba retsinga dzakasimba, sekutonga, hadzina kunyanya kubatwa nezvinhu zvisinganzwisisiki. Muridzi anosuwa nguva dzese - zvakanaka, zvakanaka. Ndakaisa kuti ndidye - uye zvakanaka ... "- anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Kuti mafungiro emhuka emuridzi anotora kana kuti kwete zvinoenderana nemabatiro anoita munhu wacho. Kana akatanga kuchema, kutuka, kukanda zvinhu - ndiko kuti, anoratidza manzwiro ake zvakajeka mumafambiro - mhuka dzinotya, dzinotya.

“Kana mirangariro isingatauriki yomunhu isingatadzi mufambiro wake munzira ipi neipi, ipapo imhuka bedzi ine mirangariro ine tsinga isina simba inonzwa kuti chimwe chinhu chakaipa nomwene,” nyanzvi inodavira kudaro.

“Mwanasikana wangu anoridza nyere uye iye zvino ava kuita zvakawanda ari kumba. Kana aine nyere yepadivi mumaoko ake, katsi yedu Marfa inoteerera mumhanzi zvakanyanya uye inofarira kufarira chiridzwa. Uye apo mwanasikana wake anonhonga rekodha, Marita anonzwa kusagadzikana mukuziva: haagone kubereka aya manzwi. Anogara pedyo naye, anotarisa nehasha, uye anobva asvetuka ndokuruma mwanasikana wake pambongoro, "anodaro muverengi Anastasia.

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Ndinyaradze, shamwari ine furo!

Vanachiremba vezvipfuyo vanoziva maekisesaizi akawanda anosanganisira imbwa nekatsi. Kuvaita nemhuka dzedu dzinovaraidza, tinovandudza mafungiro edu, tinoderedza kushungurudzika, tinogona kushanda nemuviri wedu uye manzwiro kuburikidza nekukurukurirana nemhuka.

Pakutanga takanyora nezve matekiniki uye matekiniki ekurapa feline, chikamu chekurapa kwemhuka inopa kuporesa mweya nemuviri nekudyidzana nekatsi. Verenga nezve kupuruzira kwavo, kuona mafambiro avo uye kunyange kutevedzera maitiro avo kunotibatsira pano.

Kana iwe uine imbwa, unogona kufadza iye uye iwe pachako uchishandisa nzira yeTTuch.

“Nzira iyi inosanganisira kupuruzira, kukwiza dzimwe nhengo dzemuviri wembwa — makumbo, nzeve. Aya maekisesaizi achabvumira mhuka kuti isununguke, inzwe muviri wayo zviri nani, uye iwe uchanakidzwa uye unozadza chikamu chezuva nekukurukurirana kunobudirira nechipfuwo, "anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Kunyanya kuda

Mhuka dzinovaraidza dzinogona kuneta nekuwandisa kwedu uye nekunyanya kusangana nadzo? Zvechokwadi, shure kwezvose, isu pachedu dzimwe nguva tinoneta nekukurukura nevadiwa.

“Katsi yangu yaisafara kuti ndaive pamba. Ndaifanira kuenda naye ku dacha kuitira kuti neimwe nzira ndigadzirise ... Pane imwe imba, kwete imba yekamuri imwe chete, uye haana zuva rimwe chete asina kundiona. Inoita seinodya chikafu nguva nenguva. Ndine chokwadi chekuti pane imwe nzvimbo yaakagara achifara kwazvo, "anodaro muverengi Elena.

“Katsi pachadzo dzinosarudza kuva pedyo kana kusavapo: padzinoda, dzinouya, padzinoda, dzinoenda. Uye kune imbwa, zvakakosha kuisa imwe nzira yekukurukurirana, uye izvi zvinogona kuitwa nerubatsiro rwe "nzvimbo" yekuraira, Nika Mogilevskaya anoyeuka.

Kutarisisa kwatinopa mhuka dzedu dzinovaraidza kunogona kuve kunoshanda kana kungoitira chete.

“Kana chipfuwo chichida kutariswa, chinozvikwenya kwauri. Mupfure: kana chipfuyo "chichitendera" izvi nemafambiro ake, saka zvese zvakarongeka. Asi kana ukatanga kupuruzira katsi kana imbwa woona kuti dzinosuduruka, kana katsi ikatanga kukwenya muswe nekusafarira, zvinoreva kuti inongoda kuva newe, asi isingade kubatwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti zvino mhuka inoda kutarisisa kwedu, "anotsanangura kudaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Zoopsychologist inonyevera: haugone kubata mhuka kana iri panzvimbo yayo kana painorara. Vana vanofanirawo kudzidziswa izvi, kuitira kuti munhu wose agare mumhoteredzo ine rugare, yakadzikama uye kutsungirira zviri nyore kuparadzaniswa nevamwe.

"Zvakarambidzwa zvachose kushungurudza katsi yedu Barcelona Semyonovna chero nguva. Anovenga kana mumwe munhu akaedza kumutora, saka hapana mubvunzo we "kusvina" chero ipi zvayo: tine ruremekedzo, zvinongobvumirwa kumurova zvine ruremekedzo. Iye zvino zvatava kumba, haapotsa mukana wekuda chikafu chekuwedzera, uye kazhinji kuedza kwake kunoguma nekubudirira ... Asi tinowana kugadzikana kwekunakidzwa kwekunakidzwa kubva kwaari, "anogovera muverengi Daria.

Uyezve chii?

Mhuka dzichasuwa here kana kuvharika kwapera uye vagari vemba yavo vadzokera kuhurongwa hwavo hwemazuva ese?

“Sesu, vachajaira mamiriro matsva. Handifungi kuti ichave nhamo kwavari. Mhuka dzinogara newe kwenguva yakareba ndidzo dziri nyore kugadzirisa kuchinja. Paunodzorera hurongwa hwekare, chipfuwo chinochijairira nyore, nekuti chatova chiitiko chakafanana, "anotsanangura kudaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Asi kana ukafunga kuwana chipfuwo izvozvi, dosa kutarisisa kwaunopa. "Edza kuunza huwandu hwekukurukurirana pedyo nezvaunogona kupa chipfuwo chako kana kuvharirwa kwapera," anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Ipapo achaona "kubuda kwako kubva manheru" zviri nyore.

Maitiro ekubatsira mhuka dzisina pekugara panguva yekuvharirwa

Zvipfuyo zvedu zvine rombo rakanaka: vane imba uye varidzi vanozadza ndiro nechikafu uye vanokwenya kuseri kwenzeve. Zvakanyanya kuoma zvino kune mhuka dziri mumugwagwa.

“Imbwa nekatsi dzinogara mumapaki nenzvimbo dzemaindasitiri dzinowanzopihwa chikafu nevanhu vakura avo vave panjodzi uye havabvi mudzimba dzavo. Uye isu tinogona kuvatsiva - semuenzaniso, nekujoinha sekuzvipira purojekiti "Nyourish"anoshanda muMoscow. Vazvipiri vanopiwa zvitupa, vanounza chikafu kune katsi nembwa dzisina pekugara,” anodaro Nika Mogilevskaya.

Kana iyi sarudzo isingakodzeri iwe, saka unogona kutora mhuka dzakanyanya kuratidzwa. "Izvozvi zvakakosha kuti titarise kudivi rekuvanda, kutariswa zvakanyanya: kwete kutenga mhuka, asi kuitora. Ipapo vazvipiri vachakwanisa kubatsira vamwe, avo vasati vawana musha wavo, "Nika Mogilevskaya ane chokwadi.

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