Mukati
Chekutanga zano: Taura, gara taura
Kana vaviri vacho vachichinjana, ndipo pavachakunda zviri nani rwendo urwu rwakaoma rwekubatsira kubereka (kubereka kunobatsira mukurapa), pasinei nokuti pane mwana ari mungozi kana kuti kwete. Iwe unofanirwa kutaura zvaunonzwa mumuviri wako uye mumusoro wako, kunyange kana zvichirwadza. Hazvina mhosva kana ikasimudza kusawirirana, inogona kugadziriswa nani. Murume ane zvaanotaura: ratidza mumwe wake kuti ari padivi pake, kuti vanotungamirira hondo iyi pamwe chete uye kuti aripo kuti amutsigire. Vakadzi, kune rumwe rutivi, vanofanira kubatsira mumwe wavo kutaura mirangariro yake. Nokumubvunza kana kutanga nokumuudza manzwiro avanoita. Kuteerera uku, tsinhano iyi uye chishuwo chakafanana icho chatinounganidzira chinogona chete kuunza vaviri ava pedyo pamwe chete.
Zano rechipiri: Ramba uchirarama zvakajairika
Chekutanga chisinganzvengeki chokwadi: isu hatidzore kubereka sezvo isu tichidzora kudzivirira kubata pamuviri. Nenzira yakanaka, varoorani vose vanofanira kuziva, kunyange vasati vasarudza kuva nomwana, kuti zvimwe vachafanira kumirira gore rimwe kana kuti maviri vasati vabata pamuviri. Zvechokwadi, pachava nemadzimai avo, mushure mokunge vapedza pakiti yavo yemapiritsi, vanopinda pamuviri. Asi kashoma, kashoma. Maererano neNational Institute of Demographic Studies (INED), zvinotora avhareji yemwedzi minomwe kuti vaviri vabate mwana. Mukuenda kumwedzi kwega kwega, mikana yekuve nepamuviri inenge 25% uye nhamba iyi inodonha kubva pazera re35. Saka kubata pamuviri hakusi iko iko. Munguva ino, saka zvakakosha kuti urambe uchirarama zvakajairwa, kuenda kunze, kuve nedzimwe nzvimbo dzekufarira. Uye kunyanya kusava nehanya nemwana uyu.
Chechitatu zano: bvuma kuona nyanzvi yekushaya mbereko
Kana pasina pamuviri pakaziviswa mwedzi 18 gare gare (kana kuti gore nokuda kwevakadzi vanopfuura makore 35), vaviri vacho vanofanira kutora danho rinowanzova rakaoma: kuchema mwana anonambwa nomuzvarirwo uye kukumbira rubatsiro. Hazvisi nyore, nekuti mukusaziva kwedu, mucheche anogara ari chibereko chekusangana kwenyama, yerudo tête-à-tête. Asi ipapo, vaviri vacho vanofanira kubvuma kuti chiremba anopinda zvakavanzika zvavo, achivabvunza, anovapa zano. Kuzvininipisa uye kuzvikudza dzimwe nguva zvinoshungurudzwa. Kuonana nachiremba kwekutanga uku, kunodaidzwa kuti kuongorora kushaya mbereko, kunodiwa usati watanga kosi yekubatsira kubereka.
Asi mutambo wakakodzera kenduru. Maererano neshumo yazvino kubva kuBiomedicine Agency, vana vanopfuura 23 000 vakazvarwa nekuda kwemedical assisted procreation (ART) muna 2011.. Uye vabereki vazhinji vanofara uye vakazadzikiswa nekusvika kwemwana wavo.
Kushaya mbereko kwemurume: kusakwana kwembeu
Chechina zano: rambai muri vadikani pasinei nezvose
Kune vakaroora vazhinji, kosi yePMA inoramba iri bvunzo, zvese mumuviri nepfungwa. Kudzokorora ultrasounds, kuneta, zvipingamupinyi zvekurapa uye kuchinja mumuviri wemukadzi hazvigadzirisi kusanganazve pamutsago. Uye zvakadaro, zvakakosha kuti vaviri vacho vakwanise kuchengetedza bonde rinotamba, risingaperi uye kure nekunetseka kwavo. Saka, usazeza kuwanza madhiri emakanduru, zvekuda getaways, masaja, nezvimwe. Zvese zvinokuswededza pedyo, zvinomutsa pfungwa dzako uye zvinorodza chishuwo chako.
Zano rechishanu: Bvisa mhosva
Muchiitiko chekubatsirwa kubereka (ikozvino kwave kuwanikwa kubva muna Chikunguru 2021 kune vakaroora kana kuroorwa asiwo kune vakadzi vakaroora nevakadzi vasina murume), vaviri vacho vanozoongororwa bvunzo dzakawanda kuyedza kuona chikonzero chekushaya mbereko uku. Tinofanira kurwisana nepfungwa yokuti chikonzero ichi "chikanganiso" mupfungwa dzeumwe kana mumwe. Kubva ipapo kusvika pakufunga kuti murume mudiki kana mukadzi mudiki nekuti haagone kubata mwana, pane nhanho imwe chete… Kana pasina chikonzero chaonekwa (mugumi muzana yezviitiko), zvinotonyanya kuipa sezvo mukadzi achiwanzotora. kushaya mbereko ari ega, agutsikana kuti zviri mumusoro make. Kutadza kubereka kunogona kukonzera kunetsana muvaviri uye, mune zvimwe zviitiko, zvinotungamirira kukurambana. Ndicho chikonzero nei tichifanira kuedza nepose patinogona napo kuvimbisana. Dzimwe nguva, mazwi echiremba wepfungwa kana psychoanalyst anogona kubatsira zvakanyanya mukubvisa kusawirirana uye kuongorora kuvharika kwemuviri uye kwepfungwa kubereka.