Aiwa, idzi hadzisi mhondi dzatakajaira kuona pamascreen. Uye kwete vanhu avo isu "zvatiri" tisingadi kushanda, kutaurirana kana kunyange kuva pedyo. Tisati tanyora munhu wese mumutsara, ngationei kuti imwe neimwe yeiyi pfungwa inorevei.
Narcissists uye psychopaths
Chekutanga uye chakakosha, yega yega psychopath ine narcissistic hunhu, asi kwete yega narcissist ndeye psychopath. Vazhinji vane hunhu hwekunarcissistic, asi avo vakaonekwa vaine narcissistic personality disorder vanoratidzwa nekusanzwira tsitsi uye nekunzwa kwehukuru hwavo. Uye vanhu vakadaro vanoda kukurumidzira kuyemurwa nevamwe.
Kuzviremekedza kwenarcissists kwakaremara: pasi pasi vanonzwa vakasununguka, uye naizvozvo zvakakosha kwavari zvokuti vanhu vakavapoteredza vakanga vasina kuchengeteka. Kudhonza vamwe vese kubva pachitsiko uye kusimuka vachipesana nekwavanobva ndiyo nzira yavo yekudzivirira. Kana narcissists vakaita chimwe chinhu chakashata, vanomuka vaine maungira asina simba ekunyara uye mhosva, nepo bviro yekunyadziswa kwavo iri maonero evamwe pamusoro pavo, mukana wekutongwa kwavari.
Uye uyu ndiwo mutsauko wavo wakakomba kubva kune psychopaths - izvo hazviitike kuti zvidembe. Havana basa kana mumwe munhu akakuvadzwa, havana basa nemigumisiro yezviito zvavo.
Mukuwedzera, vanhu ava havakwanisi zvachose kunzwira tsitsi, asi vanonyengedza vamwe (uye kazhinji vanoita sevanoyevedza panguva imwe chete), vashandise kuti vabatsire. Cunning ndiro zita ravo repakati.
Psychopaths uye sociopaths
Pane zvakawanda zvakafanana pakati pe psychopaths uye sociopaths - vese vanoonekwa vaine antisocial personality disorder. Musiyano wakakosha ndewekuti psychopaths inozvarwa, asi sociopaths inogadzirwa. Vekupedzisira vari panjodzi yekuve vana vanobva kumhuri dzisingabatsiri uye avo vakakurira munzvimbo ine mhosva. Vanogona kunge vasina kusununguka kuputsa mutemo uye kupikisana nemitemo se psychopaths, asi vakagara munzvimbo yakadaro kwenguva yakareba uye vakatanga kutora mitemo iyi yemutambo.
A psychopath inovaka hukama nekushandisa imwe chete nekuda kwezvinangwa zvake - zvemari, zvepabonde kana chero imwe. Sociopath, kune rumwe rutivi, inogona kuumba hukama hwepedyo, zvisinei, kunyange muhukama hwakadaro, achaita seanotonhora uye asina hanya. Sociopaths inonyanya kukurumidza, zviri nyore kumutsa mhenyu maitiro mavari.
Psychopaths inonyanya kutonhora uye yakangwara, hurongwa hwavo hwemitsipa hunowanzoita kune zvinokurudzira zvakasiyana pane zvedu: somuenzaniso, patinenge tichitya, mwoyo yedu inotanga kurova zvakanyanya, vadzidzi vanowedzera, dikita rinodurura muhova; tiri kugadzirira kurwa-kana-ndege mhinduro. Iwe hauzotombo cherechedza kuti psychopath inotya. Uropi hwake hunoshanda zvakasiyana, uye hazvisati zvazivikanwa kuti chii chinonyanya kukanganiswa pano - genetics kana nharaunda.
Vazhinji vedu tinowanzo kunzvenga zvinoita kuti titye. Psychopaths haatyi zvachose uye saka vanongoramba vachiita zvavanoda. Nenzira, zvingangoita kuti chishuwo chekunzwa chimwe chinhu, kanenge imwe echo yehutano hwekumutsa kwevamwe vanhu, inoita kuti vaedze maoko avo pazviitiko zvine ngozi - kusanganisira mitambo yakanyanyisa uye zviitiko pamucheto wekodhi yemhosva uye. zviri pachena. zvinoreva.
Sei zvakatokosha kuti isu tinzwisise musiyano pakati penarcissists, psychopaths uye sociopaths? Chokutanga pane zvose, kuitira kuti urege kubata munhu wose nebhurashi rimwe chete, kwete kunamatira mavara akafanana pane vanhu vakasiyana. Asi, zvichida, zvakakosha zvikuru kudzidza kuona zviratidzo zvinorondedzerwa pamusoro pevanhu vakakupoteredza - kutanga, kuitira kuti uvasundire zvinyoronyoro kuti vatsvake rubatsiro rwenyanzvi, uye chechipiri, kuti uve wakangwarira uye usatambura.