Muhupenyu hwedu hwekubatikana hwakashongedzwa nebasa, ruzha uye zviitwa zvisingaperi, kudzoka kwemweya kunogamuchirwa. Zvizhinji zvezvinamato uye zvepanyika masangano anopa kutora zororo REAL kwemazuva mashoma. Kudzokera shure kwemweya kunosanganisirei? Nzira yekugadzirira sei? Ndezvipi zvinobatsira zvayo? Mhinduro naElisabeth Nadler, nhengo yeFoyer de Charité de Tressaint nharaunda, iri muBrittany.

Kutora zororo remweya kuzvibvumira kuzorora kwemazuva mashoma kubva pane zvese zvinoumba hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva. “Zvinosanganisira kumbozorora, nguva yako pachako, kuti ubatanidze kune yako yekunamata inowanzoregeredzwa”, anotsanangura kudaro Elisabeth Nadler. Chokwadi, ndezvekupedza mazuva akati wandei munzvimbo yakanaka uye yekuzorodza kuti uzviwane uye udzikise nhanho yakajairika. Imwe yemapoinzi akakosha ekudzokera shure kunyarara. Vanodzokera shure, sokudanwa kwavanoitwa, vanokokwa kuti vazvionere, nepavanogona napo, kuzorora uku mukunyarara. “Tinopa vakadzokera shure kunyarara sezvavanokwanisa, kunyangwe panguva yekudya panonzwika mimhanzi yakanyorovera. Kunyarara kunoita kuti uzviteerere iwe pachako asiwo kune vamwe. Kusiyana nezvaungafunga, unogona kusvika pakuziva vamwe pasina kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe. Matarisiro nemaitiro zvakakwana ”. Mukati meFoyer de Charité de Tressaint, nguva dzeminamato uye dzidziso dzechitendero zvinopihwa kune vanodzokera shure kakawanda pazuva. Hazvisi zvekumanikidzwa asi chikamu cherwendo rwemunhu nechomukati, inodaro Foyer, iyo inogamuchira maKatorike pamwe nevasiri maKatorike. “Zviri pachena kuti nzvimbo dzedu dzokuzorora dzomudzimu dzakazarukira munhu wose. Tinogamuchira vanhu vanonamata zvakanyanya, vanhu vachangobva kudzoka kukutenda, asiwo vanhu vanofunga nezvechitendero kana vanongotora nguva yekuzorora ”, anotsanangura Elisabeth Nadler. Kudzokera pamweya kunorevawo kutora mukana weiyi nguva yemahara kuzorora uye kuchajazve mabhatiri ako munzvimbo yakakura yakasikwa inokodzera kuzorora kana kuita zvemuviri kune avo vanoda kudaro. 

Pakutanga, kudzokera shure mune zvokunamata kwaiva nechokuita zvakasimba nechitendero. Zvitendero zveKatorike neBhudha zvinokurudzira kuti munhu wose adzidzise kuzorora mune zvokunamata. Kune maCatholic, ichasangana naMwari uye nekunzwisisa zviri nani nheyo dzekutenda kwechiKristu. MuchiBuddha chekunamata chekudzoka, vanodzokera vanokokwa kuti vawane dzidziso yeBuddha kuburikidza nekuita kwekufungisisa. Nekudaro, mazhinji ekuzorora pamweya aripo nhasi anoitirwa munzvimbo dzechitendero (anopa rubatsiro, abbey, maBhudha monasteries) uye anorongwa nevatendi. Asi iwe unogona zvakare kuita kuzorora kwako kwemweya munzvimbo isiri yechinamato. Mahotera akavanzika, misha yerustic kana kunyange hermitages inopa kuzorora pamweya. Vanodzidzira kufungisisa, yoga uye mamwe maekisesaizi emweya. Vangave vanonamata kana kuti kwete, zvese izvi zvivako zvine chinhu chimwe chete zvakafanana: zviri munzvimbo dzakanyanya kunaka uye dzakadzikama dzechisikigo, dzakagurwa kubva kune zvese kunze kwekunze kwatinogezera kwegore rose. Zvisikwa mutambi mukuru mukudzokera shure. 

Hapana imwe gadziriro yekuronga usati waenda kuzororo remweya. Zviri nyore, vakadzokera shure vanokokwa kuti vasashandise mbozhanhare, piritsi kana komputa mukati memazuva mashoma aya ekuzorora uye kuremekedza kunyarara zvakanyanya. “Kuda kuita zororo remweya kuda kutema chaiko, kuva nenyota yekuzorora. Ndiko zvakare kuzvipikisa, kugadzirira kuita chiitwa chingaite sechakaoma kune vakawanda: kuzviita kuti ugone kugamuchira uye kusave nechokuita zvachose. Asi munhu wese anozvigona, inyaya yekuzvisarudzira wega ”. 

Sarudzo yekuenda kuzororo rekunamata haimbouyi netsaona. Icho chinoda chinowanzoitika panguva dzakakosha dzehupenyu: kamwe kamwe nyanzvi kana kuneta manzwiro, kuparara, kufirwa, kurwara, muchato, nezvimwe. "Isu hatisi pano kuti tiwane mhinduro kumatambudziko avo asi kuvabatsira kutarisana nawo nesezvinogoneka nekuvabvumira kuti vasiyane kuti vatarise uye vazvitarisire". Kudzoka kwemweya kunokubvumira kuti udzoke zvakare newe, kuzviteerera uye kuisa zvinhu zvakawanda mumaonero. Zvipupuriro zvevanhu vakararama zororo remweya paFoyer de Charité muTressaint zvinosimbisa izvi.

Kuna Emmanuel, makumi matatu nemasere, kudzoka kwemweya kwakauya panguva muhupenyu hwake apo airarama mamiriro ake ehunyanzvi se “Kukundikana zvachose” uye aive mu “Kumukira kwechisimba” achipikisa baba vake vaimushungurudza paudiki hwake. “Ndakakwanisa kupinda muchirongwa chekuyanana neni uye nevaindirwadzisa, kunyanya baba vangu vandakakwanisa kuvandudza hukama navo. Kubva ipapo, ndave ndiine rugare rukuru uye mufaro. Ndakazvarwa patsva kuhupenyu hutsva ”. 

Kuna Anne-Caroline, ane makore 51, kuzorora mune zvokunamata kwakazadzisa chinodikanwa "Kumbozorora uye kuona zvinhu neimwe nzira". Mushure mekurega basa, amai vevana vana vakanzwa "Kunyanya kugadzikana uye kugadzikana kwakanyanya" uye bvuma kuti handina kumbonzwa zvakadaro “Zororo remukati”.