Testimonials: vakadzi ava vasingafarire kuita mimba

“Kunyangwe nhumbu yangu yakafamba zvakanaka, kumwana nekwandiri zvakare (kunze kwezvirwere zvekare: kuda kurutsa, kurwadziwa nemusana, kuneta…), ndaisafarira kuva nepamuviri. Mibvunzo yakawandisa inomuka nekuda kwemimba yekutanga iyi, basa rangu idzva saamai: ndichadzokera kubasa mushure mezvo here? Kuyamwisa kuchanaka here? Ndichavepo zvakakwana masikati neusiku here kuti ndimuyamwise? Ndichaita sei nekuneta? Mibvunzo yakawanda kuna baba futi. Ndakanzwa kusuwa uye kunzwa kusanzwisiswa neshamwari dzangu. Zviri sekunge ndarasika... "

Morgan

"Chii chinondinetsa panguva yemimba?" Kushaya rusununguko (yekufamba nemapurojekiti), uye kunyanya iyo nzvimbo isina simba izvo zvinofungidzira uye zvisingabviri kuvanza! ”

Emilia

“Kuva nepamuviri ndiko nhamo chaiyo. Sokunge, kwemwedzi mipfumbamwe, takanga tisisipo! Ndakanga ndisiri ini, ndakanga ndisina chinhu chinofadza chokuita. Kuita kunge daze, hatisi kutenderera zvachose sebhora. Hapana pati, pasina doro, ndaigara ndakaneta, ndisina mbatya dzakanaka dzemukadzi ane pamuviri ... Ndakava nokuora mwoyo kwakatora mwedzi mipfumbamwe. Zvisinei, Ndinoda mwana wangu anopenga uye ndiri amai zvikuru. Shamwari yangu inoda mwana wechipiri, ndakamuudza kuti zvakanaka, chero ari iye akatakura! ”

Marion

" Handina kusatombofarira kuva nenhumbu, zvisinei nenhumbu yekuti vazhinji vaizondichiva. Ndakanga ndiine kusvotwa kwechivanhu uye kuneta kwekutanga trimester, asi handina kuzviona zvakanyanya, chikamu chemutambo. Zvisinei, mwedzi inotevera, inyaya yakasiyana. Kutanga, kufamba kwemwana, pakutanga ndakaona zvisingafadzi, uye nekufamba kwenguva, Ndakaona zvichirwadza (Ndakavhiyiwa chiropa, vanga rangu 20 cm uye, zvisingadzivisiki, mwana akanga achikura pasi payo). Mwedzi wapera, ndakamuka usiku ndichichema nemarwadzo ... Pashure pacho, hatichakwanisi kufamba zvakanaka, kupfeka bhutsu dzangu kwakanga kwatora nguva refu, ndakatozvikonya mativi ose kuti ndizoona kuti mhuru yakanga yazvimbawo. Uye zvakare, isu hatichakwanisa kutakura chero chinhu chinorema, kana isu tichisimudza mhuka, isu tinofanirwa kudana rubatsiro kune inosuruvarisa huswa, munhu anova anotsamira, hazvifadzi!

Handina kumboda kutaura kuti hunhu hwakashata, ndichitya kuvhundutsa vanhu. Munhu wose anofungidzira kuti kuva nepamuviri mufaro wakakwana, tingatsanangura sei kuti tinozviwana zvichisemesa? Uye zvakare, mhosva yekuita mwana wangu anzwe kudaro, izvo zvandaitoda kupfuura chero chinhu. Ndaiva nekutya kukuru kuti kasikana kangu kaizonzwa kusadiwa. Ndakaerekana ndapedza kutaura nedumbu ndichimuudza kuti haasi iye aindishungurudza asi kuti ndaingoona mudumbu mangu chaimo. Ndinobvisa ngowani yangu kumurume wangu, uyo ave achinditsigira nokundinyaradza panguva yose iyi, pamwe chete naamai vangu neshamwari yangu yepamwoyo. Pasina ivo, Ndofunga nhumbu yangu ingadai yakachinja kuita depression. Ndinopa zano vanaamai vese vemangwana vanozviwana vari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya kuti vataure nezvazvo. Pandakazokwanisa kuudza vanhu manzwiro andaiita, Ndakazonzwa vakadzi vazhinji voti “munoziva neniwo handina kuzvifarira”… Haufanire kuzvitenda izvozvo, nekuti haufarire kuve nepamuviri, hauzoziva kuda mwana wako…”

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