Mukati
MuHollywood mafirimu, mazororo imhuri ine hushamwari patafura imwe chete, rudo rwakawanda uye kudziya. Uye vamwe vedu nekushingairira gadzira patsva mufananidzo unofadza muhupenyu hwedu. Asi neiko, ipapoka, kune vakawanda zvikurusa vaavo vanobvuma kuti mazororo inguva inosuruvarisa zvikurusa nokuda kwavo? Uye kune vamwe zvinotova nengozi. Nei paine mirangariro yakawanda kudaro inorwisana?
Vamwe vanotenda kuti zororo racho rinowedzera, zvishamiso uye zvipo, vanoritarisira, vachiendesa gadziriro huru. Uye vamwe, pane kudaro, vanouya nenzira dzekutiza, kungodzivirira kupopotedzana uye makorokoto. Kune avo mazororo anokonzeresa zvishuvo zvikuru kwavari.
“Ndakagara muhostele nevabereki vangu kwemakore 22,” anoyeuka kudaro Yakov ane makore 30. “Muhuduku hwangu, mazororo akanga ari mazuva emikana, ngozi, uye chinjo huru. Ndainyatsoziva nezvedzimwe mhuri gumi nembiri. Uye ndakanzwisisa kuti pane imwe nzvimbo unogona kudya chimwe chinhu chinonaka, kutamba pasina vanhu vakuru, uye mune imwe nhasi vacharova mumwe munhu, nemhere uye mhere-mhere ye "Uraya!". Nyaya dzakasiyana-siyana dzakaitika pamberi pangu. Uye kunyange ipapo ndakaona kuti hupenyu hwakanyanya kuwanda kupfuura mufananidzo uri pakadhi rezororo.
Musiyano uyu unobvepi?
Scenario kubva kare
“Pakati pevhiki nemazororo, tinobereka zvatakamboona, tichiri vaduku, mumhuri yatakakurira nokurerwa. Mamiriro aya uye nzira yataishandisa "kumisa" matiri," anotsanangura kudaro Denis Naumov, chiremba wepfungwa anonyanya kuongorora kutengeserana. - Mumwe munhu mukambani inofara akaunganidza hama, shamwari dzevabereki, akapa zvipo, akaseka zvikuru. Uye mumwe munhu ane zvimwe zviyeuchidzo, umo zororo rinongova chikonzero chekunwa, uye somugumisiro, kurwisana kusingadzivisiki uye kukakavara. Asi isu hatigone chete kuburitsa iyo yakambogamuchirwa mamiriro, asi zvakare kuita zvinoenderana neyakapokana-mamiriro.
"Ini ndaida chaizvo kusadzokorora mumhuri yangu zvandakaona muhuduku: baba vainwa mukati mevhiki, uye pazororo zvinhu zvese zvakatonyanya kuipa, saka hatina kupemberera mazuva ekuzvarwa kuti tisaronga mabiko zvakare, kwete kutsamwisa baba, ” anogovera Anastasia ane makore 35 okukura. “Uye murume wangu haanwe doro uye anondimbundikira. Uye ini ndakamirira mazuva ekuzvarwa kwete mukufunganya, asi nemufaro.
Asi kunyangwe vamwe veavo vane nhoroondo yemhuri isina zviitiko zvakaoma vanosangana nezororo pasina kushingairira kukuru, vachizvipira kwavari sechinhu chisingadzivisiki, kudzivirira kuungana kweushamwari uye kwemhuri, kuramba zvipo nemakorokoto ...
Zororo haisi nzira yekudzosera mufaro ku "mudiki" wako, asiwo mukana wekugadzirisa hupenyu.
Denis Naumov anoenderera mberi achiti, “Vabereki vanotipa shoko ratinoparidza muupenyu hwedu hwose, uye shoko iri ndiro rinoratidza mamiriro ezvinhu muupenyu. Kubva kuvabereki kana kuti vanhu vakuru vanokosha, tinodzidza kusagamuchira rumbidzo, kwete kugoverana “pats” nevamwe. Ndakasangana nevatengi vaifunga kuti zvainyadzisa kupemberera zuva rekuzvarwa: “Ikodzero yei yandiinayo yekuzviteerera? Kuzvirumbidza hakuna kunaka, kuzvirumbidza hazvina kunaka. Kazhinji vanhu vakadaro vasingazivi kuzvirumbidza ivo pachavo, ndapota, vape zvipo ivo pachavo, vanotambura nekuora mwoyo mukukura. Imwe nzira yekuzvibatsira ndeyekupuruzira mwana wako wemukati, ari mune mumwe nemumwe wedu, kutsigira uye kudzidza kurumbidza.
Kugamuchira zvipo, kuzvipa kune vamwe, kuzvibvumira kupemberera zuva rekuzvarwa, kana kungozvipa rimwe zuva rekuzorora - kune vamwe vedu, iyi ndiyo aerobatics, iyo inotora nguva yakareba uye kudzidza zvakare.
Asi mazororo haasi nzira chete yekudzorera mufaro kune "mudiki" wako, asiwo mukana wekugadzirisa hupenyu.
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Wese munhu anouya munyika ino neyoga yekutanga kuwanikwa - nguva. Uye hupenyu hwedu hwese tinoedza kumubata nechimwe chinhu. "Kubva pakuona kwekuongorora kwekutengeserana, isu tinoda chimiro: isu tinogadzira chirongwa chehupenyu, saka yakadzikama," anotsanangura kudaro Denis Naumov. -Kutevedzana kwenguva, nhamba, maawa - zvese izvi zvakagadzirirwa kuti neimwe nzira kurongedza, kuronga izvo zvakatitenderedza, uye zvese zvinoitika kwatiri. Pasina iyo, tinonetseka, tinorasikirwa pasi pasi petsoka dzedu. Mazuva makuru, mazororo anoshanda kune rimwe chete basa repasi rose - kutipa chivimbo uye kuvimbika kwenyika uye hupenyu.
Kuvimba kuti, zvisinei, pahusiku hwaDecember 31 kusvika Ndira 1, Gore Idzva richauya, uye zuva rekuzvarwa richaverenga danho idzva muhupenyu. Naizvozvo, kunyangwe isu tisingadi kuronga mabiko kana chiitiko chikuru kubva pazuva dzvuku rekarenda, aya mazuva anogadziriswa nekuziva. Uye manzwiro atinoavara nayo ndeimwe nyaya.
Isu tinopedzisa mwedzi gumi nemiviri yapfuura, tinonzwa kusuwa, tichiparadzana nezvakaitika kare, uye tinofara, tichisangana neramangwana.
Mazororo ndiwo anotibatanidza nemasikirwo, anodaro muongorori wepfungwa Alla German. “Chinhu chekutanga icho munhu akacherekedza kare kare kwaiva kutenderera kwezuva nemwaka. Pane mapoinzi mana akakosha pagore: muchirimo nematsutso equinoxes, nguva yechando neyezhizha solstices. Mazororo akakosha akasungirirwa kune idzi pfungwa dzerudzi rumwe norumwe. Semuenzaniso, Krisimasi yeEurope inowira panguva yechando. Panguva ino, maawa emasikati ndiwo mapfupi. Zvinoita kunge rima rava kuda kukunda. Asi nokukurumidza zuva rinotanga kubuda nesimba. Nyeredzi inopenya mudenga, ichizivisa kuuya kwechiedza.
Kisimusi yeEurope inoremerwa nechirevo chekufananidzira: ndiko kutanga, chikumbaridzo, pekutangira. Panguva dzakadaro, tinopedzisa mwedzi gumi nemiviri yapfuura, tinonzwa kusuruvara, kuparadzana nezvakaitika kare, uye kufara, kusangana neramangwana. Gore rega rega harisi rekumhanya mumadenderedzwa, asi kutendeuka kutsva mukutenderera, nezviitiko zvitsva zvatiri kuyedza kunzwisisa panguva idzi dzakakosha. Asi izvi hazviiti nguva dzose. Sei?
Chii vanhu vokuRussia vanoda kupemberera?
Iyo All-Russian Public Opinion Research Center (VTsIOM) muna Gumiguru 2018 yakaburitsa mhedzisiro yeongororo pamazororo anofarira muRussia.
Mazororo ekunze – Halloween, Chinese New Year neSt. Patrick’s Day – haasati apararira munyika medu. Zvinoenderana nemhedzisiro yeongororo, ivo vanocherechedzwa chete ne3-5% yehuwandu. Iwo epamusoro 8 mazuva anodiwa nevakawanda vekuRussia ndeaya:
- Gore Idzva - 96%,
- Zuva Rokukunda - 95%,
- Zuva reMadzimai repasi rose - 88%,
- Defender of the Fatherland Day - 84%,
- Isita - 82%;
- Kisimusi - 77%,
- Zuva reChirimo neYebasa - 63%,
- Zuva reRussia - 54%.
Ndawanawo mavhoti akawanda:
- Zuva reNyika Rekubatana - 42%,
- Zuva reValentine - 27%,
- Zuva reCosmonautics - 26%;
- Eid al-Adha - 10%.
Ndiro inofashukira
“Dzimwe nguva tinouya kuzororo tizere neruzivo nezviitiko. Hatina nguva yekugadzirisa zvinhu izvi, saka kunetsana kunoramba kuripo, - anodaro Alla German. - Unoda kuidira pane imwe nzvimbo, neimwe nzira ibudise. Naizvozvo, kune kurwa, kukuvara uye kuchipatara, izvo zvakanyanya kuwanda pamazororo. Panguva ino, doro rakawanda rinopedzwa zvakare, uye rinoderedza censorship yemukati uye inoburitsa Mimvuri yedu - hunhu husina kunaka hwatinovanza isu pachedu.
Mumvuri unogonawo kuzviratidza mukurwisana nemashoko: mumafirimu akawanda eKisimusi (somuenzaniso, Love the Coopers, inotungamirirwa naJesse Nelson, 2015), mhuri yakaungana inotanga kukakavara, uye yozoyananisa mukupedzisira. Uye mumwe munhu anoenda kuzviito zvenyama, kusunungura hondo chaiyo mumhuri, nevavakidzani, shamwari.
Asi kune zvakare eco-hushamwari nzira dzekufuridza mhepo, sekutamba kana kutora rwendo. Kana kuti ita pati ine chikafu chinoshamisira uye zvipfeko zvemhando yepamusoro. Uye kwete hazvo pazororo, kunyangwe kazhinji yakarongedzwa kuti ienderane nechiitiko chinokonzera manzwiro akasimba muvanhu vazhinji.
Sunungura Mimvuri yako pasina kukuvadza vamwe - nzira yakanakisa yekusunungura kapu yako inofashukira
Nyanzvi yepfungwa inokurudzira kuyeuka Mutambo weNyika, wakaitika muzhizha ra2018: "Ndinogara pakati peMoscow, uye masikati takanzwa kuchema kwemufaro uye kufara, ipapo mhuka dzomusango dzakadzvova," anoyeuka kudaro Alla German, "zvizere. manzwiro akasiyana akabatanidzwa munzvimbo imwe uye manzwiro. Vese vateveri nevaya vari kure nemitambo vakatamba kurwisana kwekufananidzira: nyika ichirwisana nenyika, timu ichipesana nechikwata, yedu ichipesana kwete yedu. Kutenda kune izvi, vanogona kunge vari magamba, kurasa izvo zvavakaunganidza mumweya yavo nemuviri, uye kuratidza zvese zvepfungwa dzavo, kusanganisira mumvuri.
Nenzira imwecheteyo, mumazana emakore apfuura, ma carnival aiitwa muEurope, uko mambo aigona kupfeka semupemhi, uye mukadzi akazvipira semuroyi. Kusunungura Mvuri wako pasina kukuvadza avo vakakukomberedza ndiyo nzira yakanakisa yekusunungura mukombe wako uri kufashukira.
Nyika yemazuva ano yatora danho rekupenga. Kumhanya, kumhanya, kumhanya… Kushambadza kubva mumasikirini, maposta, mahwindo ezvitoro zvinotikurudzira kutenga, kutikwevera nekukwidziridzwa uye kuderedzwa, kunoisa dzvinyiriro pakuva nemhaka: wakatengera vabereki, vana zvipo here? Vlada ane makore makumi matatu nemasere anozivikanwa. - Sosaiti inoda kupopotedzana: kubika, kugadzira tafura, zvichida kugamuchira vaenzi, kudana mumwe munhu, kukorokotedza. Ndakaona kuti pazororo zviri nani kuti ndiende kuhotera iri pamhenderekedzo yegungwa, kwausingakwanise kuita chinhu, kungova nemudiwa wako.
Uye Victoria ane makore makumi mana, zvakare, aimbove akasurukirwa mumazuva akadaro: iye achangobva kurambana uye haachakodzeri mumakambani emhuri. "Uye ipapo ndakatanga kuwana mukunyarara uku mukana wekunzwa zvandinoda chaizvo, kufunga uye kurota kuti ndaizorarama sei."
Haisati iri tsika chaiyo kuti isu tipetedze zvabuda zuva rekuzvarwa risati rasvika uye kuita zvirongwa zvenguva yemberi. "Asi mudhipatimendi reakaunzi chero, kunyangwe kambani diki, bhajeti rinoderedzwa uye bhajeti regore rinotevera rinogadzirwa," anodaro Alla German. Saka wadii kuita zvimwe chetezvo muupenyu hwako? Semuenzaniso, panguva yekupembererwa kweGore Idzva rechiJudha, itsika yekupedza "mazuva ekunyarara" - kuva wega iwe pachako uye kugaya ruzivo rwakaunganidzwa uye manzwiro. Uye kwete chete kugaya, asiwo kugamuchira zvose kukunda uye kukundikana. Uye hazvisi nguva dzose zvinonakidza.
Kamwe sarudza uye rega kumirira, semuhuduku, kune zvishamiso nemashiripiti, uye uzvigadzire nemaoko ako
“Asi ichi ndicho chirevo chinoyera chezororo, apo vanopikisa vanosangana. Zororo rinogara riri matanda maviri, ndiko kuvharwa kwechikamu chimwe uye kuvhurwa kwechitsva. Uye kazhinji mazuva ano tiri kupinda mudambudziko, - anotsanangura Alla German. "Asi kugona kuona iyi polarity kunotibvumira kuona catharsis nekududzira zvakadzika zvinoreva mairi."
Chii chichava zororo, kufara kana kusuruvara, isarudzo yedu, Denis Naumov anogutsikana: "Iyi ndiyo nguva yekusarudza: wandinoda kutanga naye nhanho itsva yehupenyu, uye ndiani asina. Kana tichinzwa sokuti tinoda kuva toga, tine kodzero yokuva. Kana kuti tinoitisa ongororo uye tinoyeuka vaya vakambogamuchira zvishomanana nguva pfupi yapfuura, vaya vanodikanwa, vafonere kana kuti shanyira. Kuita sarudzo yakatendeseka iwe pachako nevamwe dzimwe nguva kwakaoma kwazvo, asiwo kunonyanya kukosha. "
Somuenzaniso, kana ukasarudza uye kurega kumirira, semuhuduku, kune chishamiso nemashiripiti, asi gadzira nemaoko ako pachako. Daria ane makore 45 okuberekwa anozviita sei. “Mumakore apfuura, ndakadzidza kubatanidza zororo romukati. Kusurukirwa? Zvakanaka, ipapo, ndichabata ruzha mairi. Dzakavhara? Saka, ndichafara kutaurirana navo. Pane mutsva asvika here? Zvakanaka, zvakanaka! Ndakarega kuvaka tarisiro. Uye zvikuru kwazvo!
Sei kusagumbura vadikani?
Kazhinji tsika dzemhuri dzinorayira kupedza mazororo nehama. Dzimwe nguva tinobvumirana kunze kwemhosva: kana zvisina kudaro ivo vachagumburwa. Nzira yekutaurirana nevadiwa uye kwete kukanganisa zororo rako?
“Ndinoziva nyaya dzakawanda apo vana vatokura vanomanikidzwa kuenda kuzororo nevabereki vavo vakwegura gore negore. Kana kuti kuungana patafura imwe chete nehama, nokuti itsika mumhuri. Kutyora tsika iyi kunoreva kuita zvinopesana nazvo,” anotsanangura kudaro Denis Naumov. “Uye isu tinosundira zvatinoda kumashure kuti tifadze zvinodiwa nevamwe. Asi manzwiro asingataurwi achabuda nenzira yekutaura kwecaustic kana kunyange kukakavara: shure kwezvose, zvakaoma zvikuru kuzvimanikidza kuti ufare kana pasina nguva yekufara.
Kuratidza hutano egoism haigoneki chete, asiwo inobatsira. Zvinowanzoita sekuti vabereki havatinzwisisi kana tikataura navo pachena. Uye kutanga kukurukura kunotyisa zvikuru. Kutaura zvazviri, munhu mukuru ane rudo anokwanisa kutinzwa. Kuti tinzwisise kuti tinozvikoshesa uye zvichauya zvechokwadi rimwe zuva. Asi tinoda kupedza Gore Idzva iri neshamwari. Kukurukurirana uye kuronga kurukurirano somunhu mukuru nomunhu mukuru ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yokudzivisa nayo kunzwa kwokuva nemhaka kworutivi rwako uye kutsamwira mumwe.