PSYchology

Yokutanga yaSeptember iri kuuya - nguva yekuendesa mwana kuchikoro. Mwana wangu, wandakarera nekumuchengeta kubva pakuzvarwa chaiko uye nakare. Ndakaedza kumupa zvakanakisisa, ndakamudzivirira kubva pamafungiro akaipa, ndakamuratidza nyika uye vanhu, nemhuka, uye gungwa, nemiti mikuru.

Ndakaedza kupinza kuravira kwakanaka maari: kwete cola uye fanta, asi majisi echisikigo, kwete katuni nekupopota uye kurwa, asi mabhuku akanaka akanaka. Ndakamuodha mitambo yedzidzo, taikwevera pamwe chete, takateerera mimhanzi, tichifamba mumigwagwa nemapaki. Asi ini handichakwanisi kumuchengeta pedyo neni, anofanira kuzivana nevanhu, nevana nevakuru, inguva yokuti azvimirire, adzidze kurarama munyika huru.

Uye saka ndiri kumutsvakira chikoro, asi hapana chimwe chaanozobuda chakazara neruzivo rwakawanda. Ndinogona kumudzidzisa chaiwo sainzi, zvidzidzo zvekubatsira vanhu uye zvemagariro muchikamu chedzidzo yechikoro pachangu. Pandisingakwanisi kurarama, ndichakoka mudzidzisi.

Ndiri kutsvaga chikoro chinodzidzisa mwana wangu hunhu hwakanaka pamusoro pehupenyu. Haasi ngirozi, uye handidi kuti akure achihura. Munhu anoda chirango - gadziriro yaacharamba ari mairi. Nheyo yemukati iyo ichamubatsira kuti arege kupararira pasi pesimba reusimbe uye kushuva mafaro uye kuti arege kuzvirasikirwa mumhepo yekuda kunomuka muhuduku.

Nehurombo, chirango chinowanzonzwisiswa sekuteerera kuri nyore kuvadzidzisi uye mitemo yechata, izvo zvinodiwa chete kune vadzidzisi ivo pachavo nekuda kwekunakira kwavo. Kurwisana nechirango chakadaro, mweya wakasununguka wemwana unopandukira, uye ipapo iye anodzvinyirirwa kana kuziviswa "ane utsinye anodheerera", nokudaro achimusundira kune hunhu hunopesana nevanhu.

Ndiri kutsvaga chikoro chinodzidzisa mwana wangu hukama hwakanaka nevanhu, nekuti iyi ndiyo hunyanzvi hwakakosha hunotara hupenyu hwemunhu. Ngaaone muvanhu kwete kutyisidzira uye makwikwi, asi kunzwisisa uye kutsigirwa, uye iye pachake anogona kunzwisisa uye kutsigira mumwe. Handidi kuti chikoro chiuraye maari kutenda kwechokwadi kwemwana kuti nyika yakanaka uye ine mutsa, uye izere nemikana yekufara nekuunza mufaro kune vamwe.

Handisi kutaura nezve "rose-ruvara magirazi", uye kwete pamusoro maonero, vakarambana kubva chokwadi. Munhu anofanira kuziva kuti mose muri muviri maari nomuvamwe mune zvose zviri zviviri zvakanaka nezvakaipa, uye anokwanisa kugamuchira nyika sezvairi. Asi kutenda kuti iye nenyika yakamupoteredza vanogona kuva nani kunofanira kuchengetedzwa mumwana uye kuva chinhu chinomukurudzira kuita chiito.

Iwe unogona kudzidza izvi chete pakati pevanhu, nokuti zviri maererano nevamwe kuti hunhu hwomunhu nezvose zvakanaka uye zvakaipa unhu hunoratidzwa. Izvi zvinoda chikoro. Chikwata chevana chinodiwa, chakarongwa nevadzidzisi nenzira yekuti vabatanidze vanhu vakasiyana vemumwe nemumwe kuita nzanga imwe.

Zvinozivikanwa kuti vana vanokurumidza kutora tsika dzevezera ravo uye hunhu hwavo uye vanoita zvakanyanya kuipa kutungamira mirairo kubva kune vakuru. Naizvozvo, ndiwo mamiriro ari muchikwata chevana ndiwo anofanira kunge ari nyaya huru yevadzidzisi. Uye kana chikoro chichidzidzisa vana kupfurikidza nomuenzaniso wakanaka wakagadzwa navadzidzi vechikoro chapamusoro navadzidzisi, ipapo chikoro chakadaro chinogona kuvimbwa nacho.

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