“Ndapedza basa rangu sababa! “
Ndainge ndisati ndambofungira kuti nguva yainge yadamburwa tambo yacho zvachose. Ndichiperekedzwa nanyamukuta anoshamisa, nguva iyi yave kwandiri nhanho iri pachena mukuzvarwa kwevanasikana vangu. Ndaifunga kuti ndiri kuita basa rangu sababa rinovawo rokuparadzanisa, rokusika wechitatu. Zvine katuni, asi ndainzwa saizvozvo. Ndakazviudzawo kuti nguva yakwana yekuti vanasikana vangu vararamewo zvavo. Rutivi rwe "organic" rwetambo haruna kundidzinga. Nekuicheka, ndakava nemafungiro ekusunungura uye "kubvisa" munhu wese! ”
Bertrand, baba vevanasikana vaviri
“Ndakaita shuviro kumwanasikana wangu nekuicheka. “
Mathilde akaberekera munzvimbo yekuzvarwa muQuebec. Isu tinogara munharaunda yeInuit uye mutsika yavo, iyi tsika yakakosha. Nguva yokutanga, shamwari yechiInuit yakamugura. Mwanakomana wangu ave kwaari “angusiaq” yake (“mukomana waakagadzira”). Annie akapa zvipfeko zvakawanda pakutanga. Mukutsinhana, achafanira kumupa hove yake yokutanga yabatwa. Zvemwanasikana ndakazviita. Pandakacheka, ndakamuitira chishuwo: "Uchave wakanaka pane zvaunoita", sekureva kunoita tsika. Inguva yakadzikama, mushure memhirizhonga yekusununguka, tinodzorera zvinhu muhurongwa. ”
Fabien, baba vemukomana nemusikana
“Inoita sewaya huru yefoni! “
"Unoda kucheka tambo here?" Mubvunzo uyu wakandishamisa. Ndaisaziva kuti taizvigona, ndakafunga kuti vachengeti ndivo vaizvichengeta. Ndiri kuzviona ini, nechigero, ndaitya kusabudirira. Nyamukuta akanditungamirira ndokungondirova nechigero. Ndaisatarisira kuti zvaizoita nyore kudaro. Mushure mezvo, ndakafunga nezvechiratidzo… Kechipiri, ndakava nechivimbo, saka ndakava nenguva yekuona zviri nani. Tambo iyi yakaita sewaya gobvu, yakamonyoroka kubva kunhare dzekare, zvaisekesa. ”
Julien, baba vevanasikana vaviri
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« Kucheka tambo kwave kuita kwekufananidzira, setsika yekuparadzana. Baba vanocheka chisungo “chemuviri” pakati pomwana naamai vake. Symbolic nekuti inobvumira mucheche kupinda munyika yedu yemagariro, saka kusangana nemumwe, nekuti haachabatiki kune mumwe munhu. Zvakakosha kuti vanababa vachauya vadzidze nezvechiito ichi. Kunzwisisa, somuenzaniso, kuti hatizokuvadzi amai kana kuti mwana kunonyaradza. Asi ndezvekupawo baba wega wega sarudzo. Usamumhanyira nokumupa chiito ichi pakarepo, mushure mokuberekwa. Isarudzo inofanira kutanga yatorwa. Muuchapupu uhu, tinogona kunyatsonzwa mativi akasiyana. Bertrand akanzwa kukosha kwe "psychic": chokwadi chekuparadzanisa. Fabien, nokuda kwechikamu chake, anotsanangura rutivi rwe "social" zvakanaka: kucheka tambo ndiko kutanga kwehukama kune imwe, munyaya iyi naAnnie. Uye huchapupu hwaJulien hunoreva "organic" dimension nekucheka chinongedzo chinobatanidza mwana naamai vake… uye zvinofadza sei! Kune vana baba ava, inguva isingakanganwike ... »
Stephan Valentin, chiremba mune zvepfungwa. Munyori we "La Reine, c'est moi!" kuti eds. Pfefferkorn
Mutsika zhinji dzechivanhu, guvhu rinotambidzwa kuvabereki. Vamwe vanoidyara, vamwe vanoichengeta yakaomeswa * ...
* Umbilical cord clamping ”, nyamukuta memoir, Elodie Bodez, University of Lorraine.