Mukati
- "Ndinoburitsa zvairarama baba vangu ...": Franco, baba vaNina, 4 makore, uye Tom, 2 makore.
- “Rutivi rwemurume rwakandisvota! »: Bruno, baba vaAurélien, 1 gore.
- Muvhidhiyo: Ko kana ndikaodzwa mwoyo nehukadzi hwemwana wangu?
- "Ndaida kuva nemwanasikana mumwe chete": Alexandre, baba vaMila, 5 makore, uye June, 6 mwedzi.
- Maonero enyanzvi: Daniel Coum *, chiremba wepfungwa uye psychoanalyst
"Ndinoburitsa zvairarama baba vangu ...": Franco, baba vaNina, 4 makore, uye Tom, 2 makore.
“Kumwana wangu wekutanga, ndaida mukomana. Ndakaona ndichitamba naye bhora. Patakaziva kuti aive musikana, ndakamboita kakutya. Ndaifunga kuti handingamuchenese hure rake kana kuti taizodanana zviri kure. Uye ipapo Nina akaberekwa. Zvese zvaive nyore kutaura chokwadi! Pamwana wedu wechipiri, takaziviswa kuva mukomana. Munhu wese akatikorokotedza “nekuda kwesarudzo yamambo”. Asi ndakapotsa ndaodzwa mwoyo! Ndaida mwanasikana wechipiri, pamwe ndaiziva kuzviita! Baba vangu vaive nemwanasikana kozoti vakomana. Ini ndinobereka zvaakararama: Iniwo ndinorarama hukama hwakanaka nemwanasikana wangu mukuru. ”
“Rutivi rwemurume rwakandisvota! »: Bruno, baba vaAurélien, 1 gore.
“Ndaida musikana. Ndiri mudzidzisi uye vakomana vaduku vanowanzoita mhirizhonga. Ini, ndine njere, ndinonzwisisa, rutivi rune huviri, runyoro "mamiriro evakomana" anondikurira nekukurumidza. Saka, ndainyanya kufunga nezvemazita ekutanga evasikana, hapana mukomana. Uye zvadaro, nekupihwa mibairo yakaipa pabvunzo-yetatu, amniocentesis yaifanira kuitwa. Mazuva mashoma anorwadza apfuura. Pane zvinyorwa, vanachiremba vakaratidza karyotype yake: mukomana. Asi takazorodzwa uye takafara kuita mwana ane utano zvakabva zvabvisa kushushikana kwangu nebonde zvinova zvidiki. “
Muvhidhiyo: Ko kana ndikaodzwa mwoyo nehukadzi hwemwana wangu?
"Ndaida kuva nemwanasikana mumwe chete": Alexandre, baba vaMila, 5 makore, uye June, 6 mwedzi.
“Pandakadzidza nezvebonde remwana wangu weramangwana pane maungira echipiri, ndinoyeuka ndichinzwa mufaro uye kurerukirwa. Ndaida musikana mumwe chete! Musikana, kwandiri, murume, zvakanyanya kushamisa, hazvizivikanwi, zvichienzaniswa nemukomana. Kamwe kamwe, zvakandibatsira kuti ndizvifungidzire ndimene, kufungidzira musikana wangu muduku womunguva yemberi uye kutonzwa zvimwe zvishoma nezvababa. Chechipiri, hatina kubvunza, takanga tichitarisira “mwana”! Ndakanga ndisingadi kudzidza nezvebonde. Patakaziva kuti murume kana mukadzi pakuzvarwa kwake, pakanga paine kushamisika uye mufaro mukuru. Asi isu tatova mune chimwe chinhu: tinowana mwana wedu! “
Vakomana 105 vanoberekwa gore negore muFrance pavasikana zana voga voga. Iyi ndiyo "sex ratio".
Maonero enyanzvi: Daniel Coum *, chiremba wepfungwa uye psychoanalyst
"Kushuva uye kutarisira mwana ibhizinesi revanhu vaviri vanofungidzira" pamwe chete mwana wekufungidzira. Nababa, kuva nemukomana kunowanzova kudivi re "sa". Nepo musikana ari kunyanya kunetsana nezvakasiyana, nepfungwa yekuti murume uyu ane musikana. Asi kosi imwe neimwe yakasiyana. Kuna Franco, iko kunetseka kutarisira kana kuna Alexandre, pane kufara. Dambudziko rekuzvarwa kwemwana chaiye, nehukadzi hwake, rinotsvedza muchokwadi. Pasinei nokuti takaora mwoyo kana kuti kufara, panguva yekuzvarwa, tichasangana nemwana chaiye. Vanababa vazhinji vachaisa mwana iyeye. Franco anobatsirwa nekuenderera mberi kwaanoona kunoona baba vake chaivo. Pakutanga, Bruno anobva pamwana wake nekuti haafunge kuendesa kunzwa kwake kumukomana wake… uyezve kutya hutano hwake kunomubatsira kuvaka hubaba hwake. Kune vamwe vanababa, avo vaizoramba vakaodzwa mwoyo zvikuru nokusava nechirume chavanoda, amai vanogona kushanda sepoindi yetsigiro. Ndiye anogona kubatsira baba ku invester mwana azvarwa. “
* Munyori we "Paternités", Presses de l'EHESP, 2016