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Teddy bears, armfuls of roses, mabhokisi emasiwiti muchimiro chemoyo… Pre-horiday fever ichabata maguta munguva pfupi iri kutevera. Zuva rino harisi kungotsamwisa kushandisa zvisina kufanira, asi zvakare rinoyeuchidza avo vava vega: iwe wakanyanyisa kupemberera hupenyu. Saka, zvichida iwe unofanira kusiya zororo rine utsinye kana kuchinja tsika dzayo?

Kunyangwe isu tichida kana kusada, Zuva raValentine rava pedyo. Nepo vamwe vari kutarisira muchato uye mhete yedhaimani kutanga, vamwe (vashoma asi vari kushingaira) vanoronga kudzima nyonganyonga yese iyi. Zvakanaka, kana zvisina kubviswa, saka zvinoisa miganhu yezera: tichabvumira zororo iri kuti ripembererwe kusvika mugiredhi rechina - pazera rino, vana vanopa "valentines" kune wese anogara munharaunda. Zvakanaka, kana iwe uchida chaizvo, unogona kudzokera kuzororo mushure memakumi matanhatu.

Asi zvakadini nevamwe vose? Tichaita zvakanaka pasina iye.

Murairidzi uye nyanzvi yokupfimbana Jay Cataldo anoyeuka, kuti: “Kupa valentines kwaifadza somwana. Asi nekufamba kwemakore, ndakatanga kudanana nezororo iri. Mukuona kwangu, anongogadzira matambudziko muhukama, pane kuvasimbisa. Vaviri pazuva iri vanopopotedzana nekuda kwetarisiro isina kuzadziswa. Mukuwedzera, zuva raanoita seanopembedza kushaikwa kwerudo mumazuva 364 asara. Uye kana iwe usina munhu, saka kutarisa kune vakaroorana vachifamba uye maruva anotumirwa kune vaunoshanda navo zvinongogumbura. Zororo racho rinochinja kuva nhandare isina maturo.”

Zororo rinoita kuti vanhu vafunge kuti hupenyu hwavo hahusviki padanho rinodiwa rerudo.

Mutori wenhepfenyuro Dean Obeidalla anobvuma kuti: “Handifariri kumanikidzwa. Kutengeserana uye kukwidziridzwa muzvitoro kunokurudzira: kana iwe usingabatanidzi mune izvi, saka hausi rudo uye hauna hanya neimwe hafu yako. Zviri nani kushandura tsika dzezororo rino. Rega vane murume nomudzimai vape zvipo kune vakasurukirwa kuti vasanzwa vakanyanyisa pamusi uyu.

Kune muridzi weresitorendi, Zena Pauline, zororo iri harina kufadza kaviri: kwete chete kuti haana kuroora, asiwo vashanyi veresitorendi pazuva rino kazhinji kazhinji vanowana kukanganisa nebasa. “Kunze ndiKukadzi, kunze kuchitonhora, hamuna vaviri, hamuna kumira zvakanaka. Wanga usingabudiriri kushandura chimwe chinhu kwemwedzi yakati wandei. Uye izvi zvese zvinoperekedzwa ne "parade" yevanofara vakaroora. Zuva reValentine rinonyadzisa chete vanhu vasina kuroora."

Makore matatu apfuura, sekuratidzira, Pauline akaunza yakakosha "Kwete" menyu kuZuva raValentine. Inosanganisira zvinhu zvakadai, semuenzaniso, "Unfortunate Betty" cocktail uye inopisa "Pasina peya yezvido zvako".

Nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu yepaYunivhesiti yeRutgers Deborah Carr, inodzidza nezvenyaya dzevakadzi, inotsanangura chikonzero choruvengo rwacho achiti: “Zororo racho rinoita kuti vanhu vafunge kuti upenyu hwavo hahusi kusvika pamwero wavanoda wokudanana. Kunyange vaya vane vakaroorana vanganzwa vaodzwa mwoyo kana vakasakorokotedzwa nenzira yavanoda. Kune vanhu vazhinji, inongova dambudziko. Inongobatsira chete maresitorendi nevagadziri vemakadhidhi. "

Sekuona kwake, zvinhu zvakatonyanya kuipa mumakore achangopfuura nekuda kwekuwedzera kukurumbira kwemasocial network. Iye zvino munhu wose ari kuedza kufadza. Hapana anozotumira mufananidzo wakashata kana chipo chakaipa kubva muchitoro chiri pakona.

Yakanga iri nhau yekudya paFacebook (sangano rakanyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia) iro rakakurira kushivirira kwemugadziri wemifananidzo Scott Manning. Makore mashomanana apfuura, akanga achiedza kupora kubva pakurambana nemusikana, uye ipapo zororo rakasvika. Tepi yose yakanga izere nemaruva uye zviziviso zvepachena zverudo.

Zuva reZuva raValentine rakawandisa muyedzo wehukama huchangotanga.

Sejee, Manning akanyoresa peji uye akaritumidza kuti "Chikumbiro Chekukanzura Zuva reValentine". Vanhu vanosiya ipapo mameseji anoruma uye mifananidzo isinganzwisisike padingindira rezororo. Munyori anogashira wongororo dzakasiyana. Vamwe vanoda kuronga rally chaiyo mumugwagwa. Vamwe vakatsamwa kuti Manning akapinda muzororo rakanaka kudaro. Muchokwadi, Manning haana hany'a nezvakataurwa. Peji yake inonyaradza uye inovaraidza mumwe munhu, uye ichi ndicho chinhu chikuru.

Zvisinei, akapinda mune rimwe dambudziko. Akasangana nemusikana uye netsaona akaita rimwe remazuva ake ekutanga paZuva raValentine. Achiona izvi, Manning akavhunduka. Asi vakazokurukura zvose uye vakasarudza kuti zuva iroro rakanga rakaoma zvikuru muyedzo weukama huchangotanga. Saka Manning akazvimisa uye akafunga kupedza zuva nenzira yakakodzera: "Ndichagara kumba ndichiona mafirimu anotyisa."

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