"Kwete Kungoneta": Kuziva uye Kukunda Kushungurudzika Kwepashure

Musi waNovember 11, 2019, muMoscow, mumwe mukadzi ane makore 36 akadonha nepahwindo reimba aine vana vaviri. Amai nemwanasikana wavo muduku vakafa, mwanakomana ane makore matanhatu okukura ari muchipatara. Zvinozivikanwa kuti asati afa, mukadzi akadana ambulensi kakawanda: mwanasikana wake muduku akaramba kuyamwisa. Maiwe, zviitiko zvinotyisa zvakadaro hazvishamisi, asi vanhu vashomanana vanotaura nezvedambudziko rekuora mwoyo kwepashure. Isu tinoburitsa chidimbu kubva mubhuku raKsenia Krasilnikova "Kwete kungoneta. Nzira yekuziva uye kukunda kushungurudzika kwepashure.

Nzira Yokuziva Sei Kana Zvakaitika Kwauri: Zviratidzo zvePostpartum Depression

Ndaifungidzira kuti postpartum depression inenge vhiki ndasununguka. Gare gare, ndakaona kuti ndaive ne80% yezviratidzo zvinokwana zvakakwana mukirasi yekiriniki mufananidzo wechirwere. Zviratidzo zvinowanzoitika zvekuora mwoyo kwepashure pekusununguka ipfungwa dzakaora mwoyo, kunzwa kwokunyanyisa kuti uri mubereki akaipa, kuvhiringika kwekurara uye kuda kudya, uye kuderera kwekutarisa. Vakadzi vakawanda vane chirwere ichi vanouya nemafungiro akasiyana pamusoro pekukuvadza mwana wavo (kusiyana kunoreva pfungwa dzakanyanya kusiyana nezvinoshuviwa nemunhu. - Approx. science ed.).

Kana kuora mwoyo kusina kuwedzerwa ne psychosis, mukadzi haakundikani kwavari, asi vanaamai vane chimiro chakakomba chechirwere, pamwe chete nemafungiro ekuzviuraya, vangatouraya mwana wavo. Uye kwete nekuda kwehasha, asi nekuda kwekuda kuita kuti hupenyu huve nyore kwaari nemubereki akaipa. “Ndaiita semuriwo, ndaigona kurara pamubhedha zuva rose,” anodaro Margarita ane makore 20. — Chinhu chakaipisisa kwaiva kunzwisisa kuti hapana chinogona kugadziriswa. Mwana anogara nokusingaperi, uye ndaifunga kuti upenyu hwangu hausisiri hwangu. Kubata pamuviri kwakauya sechishamiso kuna Margarita, mamiriro acho ezvinhu akaomeswa neukama hwakaoma nomurume wake uye mamiriro ezvinhu emari akaoma.

Zviratidzo zvechirwere chepashure pekusununguka zvinoita sechimwe chikamu chekuva amai

“Nhumbu yanga iri nyore, isina toxicosis, kutyisidzira kupfupfudzika, kuzvimba uye kuwandisa. <...> Uye apo mwana akanga ane mwedzi miviri yokukura, ndakatanga kunyorera shamwari dzangu kuti upenyu hwangu hwakanga hwava hero. Ndaigara ndichichema,” anodaro Marina ane makore 24. - Ipapo ndakatanga kurwiswa nehasha: Ndakarova amai vangu. Ndaida kuponeswa kubva pakuva amai vangu uye kugoverana neni nhamo nematambudziko. Apo mwana aiva nemwedzi mishanu, zvinhu zvose zvakanga zvakaoma kwandiri: kufamba, kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, kuenda kudziva. Marina aigara achirota mwana; kuora mwoyo kwakaitika kwaari akanga asingatarisiri kwaari.

“Upenyu hwangu, hwandakavaka zvidhina nechidhinha sezvandaihuda, hwakangoerekana hwaparara,” aya ndiwo mashoko aSofia ane makore 31 okukura. “Zvese zvakakanganisika, hapana chakandimirira. Uye handina kuona tarisiro ipi neipi. Ndaingoda kurara ndichichema. "

Sophia akatsigirwa nehama neshamwari, murume wake akabatsira mwana, asi akanga asingakwanisi kurarama nekuora mwoyo pasina rubatsiro rwechiremba. Kazhinji, zvirwere zvepfungwa mushure mekusununguka hazvizivikanwi nokuti zviratidzo zvavo zvinowanzoitika (zvakadai sokuneta uye kushaya hope) zvinoratidzika sechikamu chehuamai kana kuti zvinosanganiswa nemafungiro emadzimai ekuva amai.

“Wanga wakatarisira chii? Zvechokwadi, vanaamai havarari usiku!", "Waifunga here kuti izororo?", "Chokwadi, vana vakaoma, ndakasarudza kuva amai - iva nemoyo murefu!" Zvese izvi zvinogona kunzwika kubva kuhama, vanachiremba, uye dzimwe nguva kubva kune vanobhadhara nyanzvi sevanoyamwisa vanachipangamazano.

Pazasi ini ndakanyora zviratidzo zvepashure pekusununguka. Rondedzero yacho yakavakirwa paICD 10 data pamusoro pekuora mwoyo, asi ndakaiwedzera netsananguro yemanzwiro angu.

  • Kunzwa kusuruvara/kusava nechinhu/kuvhunduka. Uye hakugumiri pakunzwa kwokuti kuva amai kwakaoma. Kazhinji kacho, pfungwa idzi dzinoperekedzwa nekutenda kuti haugone kurarama nemamiriro ezvinhu matsva.
  • Kuchema pasina chikonzero.
  • Kuneta uye kushayikwa kwesimba risingazadziswe kunyangwe iwe wakakwanisa kurara kwenguva yakareba.
  • Kusakwanisa kunakidzwa nezvaimbove mufaro - masaja, bhati rinopisa, bhaisikopo rakanaka, kurukurirano yakanyarara nemwenje wekenduru, kana musangano wakamirirwa kwenguva refu neshamwari (rondedzero haiperi).
  • Kuoma kuisa pfungwa, kurangarira, kuita zvisarudzo. Haikwanise kuisa pfungwa dzako, mazwi haauye mupfungwa kana iwe uchida kutaura chimwe chinhu. Haucharangariri zvawakaronga kuita, mumusoro mako munogara muine mhute.
  • Mhosva. Iwe unofunga kuti unofanira kuva amai vari nani kupfuura zvauri. Iwe unofunga kuti mwana wako akakodzera zvakawanda. Unoshamisika kana achinzwisisa kuoma kwemamiriro ako ezvinhu uye anonzwa kuti hausi kuwana mufaro wokuva naye.

Zvinoita kwauri kuti uri kure nemucheche. Pamwe unofunga kuti anoda vamwe amai.

  • Kusagadzikana kana kufunganya zvakanyanya. Icho chinova chiitiko chekumashure, kubva icho hapana sedative zvinodhaka kana nzira dzekuzorora zvachose. Mumwe munhu panguva ino anotya zvinhu zvakananga: rufu rwevadiwa, mariro, njodzi dzinotyisa; vamwe vanovhunduka zvisina musoro.
  • Kusuruvara, kushatirwa, manzwiro ehasha kana kutsamwa. Mwana, murume, hama, shamwari, chero munhu anogona kutsamwa. Pani isina kugezwa inogona kukonzera hasha.
  • Kusada kuona mhuri neshamwari. Kusashamwaridzana kungasakufadza iwe nehama dzako, asi hapana chinogona kuitwa nezvazvo.
  • Zvinetso pakugadzira hukama hwepfungwa nemwana. Zvinoita kwauri kuti uri kure nemucheche. Pamwe unofunga kuti anoda vamwe amai. Zvakaoma kuti iwe uteerere kumwana, kukurukurirana naye hakukuunzi chero mufaro, asi, pane zvinopesana, kunowedzera mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kunowedzera kunzwa uine mhosva. Dzimwe nguva unogona kufunga kuti haudi mwana wako.
  • Kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pekugona kwavo kuchengeta mwana. Iwe unofunga kuti uri kuita zvinhu zvose zvakaipa, kuti ari kuchema nokuti hausi kumubata zvakanaka uye haugoni kunzwisisa zvaanoda.
  • Kurara nguva dzose kana, zvakasiyana, kusakwanisa kurara, kunyange kana mwana akarara. Zvimwe zvinokanganisa kurara zvinogona kuitika: somuenzaniso, unomuka usiku uye haugone kurara zvakare, kunyange iwe wakaneta zvikuru. Iva sezvazvingaite, kurara kwako kunotyisa - uye zvinoita sekunge izvi hazvisi chete nekuti une mwana anopopota husiku.
  • Kuvhiringidzwa kwekudya: unogona kugara uchinzwa nzara, kana kuti haugone kupinza kunyange chikafu chidiki mauri.

Kana ukacherechedza zviratidzo zvina kana kupfuura kubva pakurongwa, iyi inguva yekutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kuna chiremba

  • Kusafarira zvachose zvepabonde.
  • Musoro uye mhasuru kurwadziwa.
  • Kunzwa usina tariro. Zvinoita sekuti nyika iyi haifi yakapfuura. Kutya kunotyisa kuti zviitiko zvakaoma izvi zvinewe zvachose.
  • Pfungwa dzekuzvikuvadza iwe uye/kana mwana. Mamiriro ako ezvinhu anova asingatsungiririki zvekuti kuziva kunotanga kutsvaga nzira yekubuda nayo, dzimwe nguva yakanyanya kuoma. Kazhinji mafungiro epfungwa dzakadaro anokosha, asi chitarisiko chavo chakaoma zvikuru kutsungirira.
  • Pfungwa dzekuti kufa kurinani pane kuramba uchinzwa manzwiro ese aya.

Yeuka: kana uine pfungwa dzekuzviuraya, unoda rubatsiro nokukurumidza. Mubereki mumwe nomumwe angava nechiratidzo chimwe kana zviviri kubva pane zvakanyorwa pamusoro apa, asi izvi zvinowanzoteverwa nenguva dzokugara zvakanaka uye dzokuva netariro. Avo vanotambura ne<em>postpartum depression vanowanzowana zvizhinji zvezviratidzo zvacho, uye dzimwe nguva zvose panguva imwe chete, uye hazviperi kwemavhiki.

Kana iwe ukacherechedza zviratidzo zvina kana kupfuura kubva pane zvakarongwa mukati mako uye ukaona kuti wanga uchigara navo kweanopfuura mavhiki maviri, iyi inguva yekutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kuna chiremba. Yeuka kuti kuongororwa kwekuora mwoyo kwepashure kunogona kuitwa chete nenyanzvi, uye kwete bhuku rino.

Maitiro ekuzviverengera wega: Iyo Edinburgh Postpartum Depression Rating Scale

Kuti vatarise kuora mwoyo kwepashure pekusununguka, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzeScottish JL Cox, JM Holden naR. Sagowski vakagadzira inonzi Edinburgh Postpartum Depression Scale muna 1987.

Iri ibhuku remibvunzo rine zvinhu gumi. Kuti uzviedze, tsikira mhinduro inonyatso enderana nemanzwiro awakaita mumazuva manomwe apfuura (zvakakosha: KWETE manzwiro auri kuita nhasi).

1. Ndakakwanisa kuseka uye kuona rutivi runonakidza rwehupenyu:

  • Kazhinji semazuva ese (0 mapoinzi)
  • Zvishoma pane zvakajairika (1 point)
  • Zvechokwadi zvishoma pane zvakajairwa (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete zvachose (3 points)

2. Ndakatarira kunguva yemberi nomufaro:

  • Kusvika pamwero wakafanana semazuva ese (0 mapoinzi)
  • Zvishoma pane zvakajairika (1 point)
  • Zvechokwadi zvishoma pane zvakajairwa (2 mapoinzi)
  • Zvinenge zvisingaite (3 points)

3. Ndakazvipa mhosva nenzira isina musoro apo zvinhu zvakakanganisika:

  • Hongu, kazhinji (mapoinzi matatu)
  • Hongu, dzimwe nguva (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete kazhinji (1 point)
  • Zvinenge zvisingaite (0 points)

4. Ndainetseka uye ndichinetseka pasina chikonzero chaicho:

  • Zvinenge zvisingaite (0 points)
  • Kashoma kwazvo (1 point)
  • Hongu, dzimwe nguva (2 mapoinzi)
  • Hongu, kazhinji (3 mapoinzi)

5. Ndakanzwa kutya uye kuvhunduka pasina chikonzero chakajeka:

  • Hongu, kazhinji (3 mapoinzi)
  • Hongu, dzimwe nguva (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete, kwete kazhinji (1 point)
  • Zvinenge zvisingaite (0 points)

6. Handina kurarama nezvinhu zvakawanda:

  • Ehe, muzviitiko zvakawanda handina kutsungirira zvachose (3 mapoinzi)
  • Ehe, dzimwe nguva handina kuita zvakanaka sezvandinowanzoita (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete, nguva zhinji ndakaita zvakanaka (1 point)
  • Kwete, ndakaita sezvakamboita (0 mapoinzi)

7. Ndakanga ndisina mufaro zvokuti ndakanga ndisingagoni kurara zvakanaka:

  • Hongu, kazhinji (mapoinzi matatu)
  • Hongu, dzimwe nguva (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete kazhinji (1 point)
  • Kwete zvachose (0 points)

8. Ndakanzwa kusuwa uye kusafara:

  • Ehe, kazhinji yenguva (3 mapoinzi)
  • Hongu, kazhinji (2 mapoinzi)
  • Kwete kazhinji (1 point)
  • Kwete zvachose (0 points)

9. Handina kufara zvokuti ndakachema:

  • Ehe, kazhinji yenguva (3 mapoinzi)
  • Hongu, kazhinji (2 mapoinzi)
  • Dzimwe nguva chete (1 point)
  • Kwete, hazviite (0 mapoinzi)

10. Pfungwa yakauya mumusoro mangu yekuzvikuvadza:

  • Hongu, kazhinji (3 mapoinzi)
  • Dzimwe nguva (2 points)
  • Zvinenge zvisingaite (1 point)
  • Kamwe (0 mapoinzi)

mugumisiro

0-8 mapoinzi: yakaderera mukana wekuora mwoyo.

8-12 mapoinzi: kazhinji, iwe uri kubata nemucheche blues.

13-14 pfungwa: mukana wekuora mwoyo kwepashure, matanho ekudzivirira anofanira kutorwa.

15 mapoinzi kana kupfuura: mukana wepamusoro wekuora mwoyo kwekiriniki.

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